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- Mar 11, 2017
I really hate the name. ValiDate, does that mean that you should validate other people by having sex with them. How shallow, unhealthy and pathetic is that? You should feel validated as a human being on your own, other people dont have that responsability. If they dont want to fuck you, then find someone who wants, and if nobody wants, then thats on you, not on anybody else. I've said this before, but the main theme of this line of thinking is overstepping boundaries. You are defined as a human being by how much other people pander to you.
It's another stupid way to push that "your identity is valid" thing that exists for every sexuality and neogender under the sun. I am astounded that the dates aren't even more exceptional.
You've got a marriage counselor that doesn't believe in marriage. Who would want to have a commited relationship with someone like that? These dates all have defective personalities. But they are totally valid and we should be beating down their doors to fuck them.
Yolanda has mental illness. I have to wonder how it is handled. Do we make excuses for her behavior if she isn't actively working towards better mental health? The bio blub makes it sound like it is other people's responsibility to keep her sane. It's not like she is blubbering mess in a rubber room. She is a hair stylist. We are trusting her with scissors.
This whole "you are valid" philosophy is centered around everyone else asspatting your delusions because hurt feelings are bad. Your entire worth is based on how much other people validate your feelings. If someone doesn't accept you it is grounds to have a social media meltdown. It's a very unhealthy way of thinking that screams "I have no self esteem so everybody needs to pretend they like me".