Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[Goatchoker]

It seems like there’s a “bin” of toys that are brought out when she’s over.
I don’t think she lives there either.

Reddit is crying about knee bruises, they are pretty damn bruised, she’s learning how to walk and carpet in Florida is non existent pretty much, I’d be puttin some knee pads on her once in a while or pants because it’s gotta be tender, but they act like Alex is like actively smacking her daughter just on the knees.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

It seems like there’s a “bin” of toys that are brought out when she’s over.
I don’t think she lives there either.

Reddit is crying about knee bruises, they are pretty damn bruised, she’s learning how to walk and carpet in Florida is non existent pretty much, I’d be puttin some knee pads on her once in a while or pants because it’s gotta be tender, but they act like Alex is like actively smacking her daughter just on the knees.

I love how she put the words across her knees to hide the bruising in that lion picture. I'm not a pearl-clutcher about kids getting bruised in their day-to-day, but those look really painful, actually. Am I seeing things or are there big scabs, not just bruises? Again, Redditors should calm down, kids are practically made of rubber, but damn Alex! Put some leggings on that poor thing. Or yeah, those baby kneepads I've seen advertised. I'm cringing for miss Ari over here.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

When Ari lifts her leg, you can see more dark patches.

I think it’s dirt rather than bruising. She’s crawling on hard floors where Alex’s nasty wheelchair wheels have brought street grime inside and picking up the dirt with her legs and knees. I bet her hands are just as filthy.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

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When Ari lifts her leg, you can see more dark patches.

I think it’s dirt rather than bruising. She’s crawling on hard floors where Alex’s nasty wheelchair wheels have brought street grime inside and picking up the dirt with her legs and knees. I bet her hands are just as filthy.

I definitely see dirt, but I also see bruises. And that left one has a redness that makes me think it's a scab/scrape. But it's a very short clip and Alex uses crazy filters so who knows.

 

[Goatchoker]

I definitely see dirt, but I also see bruises. And that left one has a redness that makes me think it's a scab/scrape. But it's a very short clip and Alex uses crazy filters so who knows.

If she’s at squishy Hitlers house, she’s got tile and backyard cement/pool pebbles, which would absolutely destroy knees.
Wheelchair floor marks also make a ton of sense.

It’s a mix of all things awesome with this nightmare human

@often puzzled my kids who are not babies get told to take off socks on tile still lol it’s a disaster waiting to happen.

 

[often puzzled]

Ari has/had kneepads; Noah's mom got them when she first started crawling (Alex actually said Noah's mom got them, so that's not just me speculating). You used to see them on her sometimes: they were brown/rust, if I remember right. All the surfaces in Ari's life are hard, so her knees could benefit from some protection until she's walking confidently.

I also notice that she's generally in socked feet in Alex's apartment, which is a bad move. Anyone will slip and hurt themselves if they're wearing socks on a laminate floor like that.

I also agree that Alex's floors must be filthy. A wheelchair will do that, but you could also argue that frequent floor-cleanings would be something that she'll just have to "facilitate" as part of having a mobile toddler. Of course, this is the same person who, when she moved into this apartment, said that the wine fridge was her favorite part of it and announced her intention to display wine glasses.

I'm very interested to see how she reacts to having a mobile toddler who can say NO (and, as toddlers do, will immediately make it her favorite word) and who can freely refuse to cooperate for the camera. It would be for the best if she just started losing interest in Ari and faded into the background.

Grid post: she's feeling herself, as per usual.



Caption: "Haven't felt this confident in a while."





NOAH WATCH: He seems to bring Ari over on weekends. He reshares a lot of mental health stuff on his own Instagram stories. Reddit always reads a lot into them, but I tend to think that he just reshares a lot of that stuff without it being all that deep. I'll start sharing them here if people are interested, though.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

I'm sure Noah picks up after her eventually but it's funny seeing Ari's toys strewn all over the floor knowing it prevents Alex from wheeling around.

 

[athousandrustynails]

A face like a well skelped arse.

 

[Dr. Butt]

I hired a caregiver who acted like someone she wasn't and I ended up letting her go after a lot of discrepancies in her work-- for context I literally have hardly ever 'fired' anyone in my 12 years of hiring caregivers.

Look at all these buzzwords, make me a fucking bingo card
>acted like someone she wasn't (see also: "when someone shows you who they are, believe them")
>MUH CONTEXT
>12 years (she'd have written 120 years if she thought someone might believe her)

And "discrepancies in her work" what the fuck does this mean? She's not balancing books or calculating work stress on a piece of metal, she's wiping your arse. People with narc brains should be sterilized so I don't have to hear any more of this shit from screechy single women with ugly bangs.

 

[often puzzled]

Another flurry of Instagram story posts. Her content really picks up on the weekends, when it's clear Ari and Noah are there. Her content actually used to slow down on weekends when she was at the Smith house.

Absolutely adorable:



This child's first word will be daddy, and you cannot convince me otherwise. Shirtless Florida man look coming in nicely.



Someone in this thread just mentioned how Ari's toys will block Alex's path, and you can actually see in this photo that they're pushed against the wall.



Ari will someday be so grateful that you told the entire world about her constipation. Ari is in a different outfit here, but it could just be because she made such a mess with lunch.



You can see the shadow of whoever is filming her, but I can't tell much from it (like whether there's a stroller or not).

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Her place is quite sterile I doubt a child is living there long term and even the toys seem more like things taken with the child to her.

I know Ari doesn't live there. I'm just surprised Alex hasn't even tried to make it look like she does.

Reddit is crying about knee bruises, they are pretty damn bruised, she’s learning how to walk and carpet in Florida is non existent pretty much, I’d be puttin some knee pads on her once in a while or pants because it’s gotta be tender, but they act like Alex is like actively smacking her daughter just on the knees.

It's obvious those folks don't have children, but sometimes I wonder if these people have ever been children. Children bruise. Children get scrapes and scabs. That's just part of being a kid.

 

[Robert California]

Alex's caregiver reported her to CPS:

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"My life has been such a shit show. I hired a caregiver who acted like someone she wasn't and I ended up letting her go after a lot of discrepancies in her work-- for context I literally have hardly ever 'fired' anyone in my 12 years of hiring caregivers.

She knew I was going through a lot and that I needed a caregiver very badly. After I let her go finally-- she apparently reported me to CPS bc she was pissed.

I then hired a great new girl and she went to grab my keys from my new girl and essentially made a scene in the lobby-- yelling at acting wild.

So yeah, being disabled and relying on ppl can be fcking hard and stressful

I know Ari doesn't live there. I'm just surprised Alex hasn't even tried to make it look like she does.

It's obvious those folks don't have children, but sometimes I wonder if these people have ever been children. Children bruise. Children get scrapes and scabs. That's just part of being a kid.

Exactly. Just think about some dumb shit you did as a child. On more than one occasion, I crashed my Barbie car into a curb for funsies. Children are STUPID.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Exactly. Just think about some dumb shit you did as a child. On more than one occasion, I crashed my Barbie car into a curb for funsies. Children are STUPID.

And the bruises are on her knees - the part of the body that hits the floor when you fall forward, the part of the body that bumps into tables when you're sitting, and the part of the body that makes near constant contact with the floor when you're crawling. Knees are the least worrying place to have bruises.

 

[Robert California]

The redditors need to chill. If one day CPS legitimately needs to be called they’re gunna look at all this bullshit and shrug

And the bruises are on her knees - the part of the body that hits the floor when you fall forward, the part of the body that bumps into tables when you're sitting, and the part of the body that makes near constant contact with the floor when you're crawling. Knees are the least worrying place to have bruises.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

The redditors need to chill. If one day CPS legitimately needs to be called they’re gunna look at all this bullshit and shrug

We know that the redditors are aware of the Fruit Farms app and this thread and some have read it, so I'll say this:

Dear redditors-
Ari does not live with Alex. Alex isn't involved in Ari's care and upbringing. Ari only comes to visit.

 

[glass_houses]

NOAH WATCH: He seems to bring Ari over on weekends. He reshares a lot of mental health stuff on his own Instagram stories. Reddit always reads a lot into them, but I tend to think that he just reshares a lot of that stuff without it being all that deep. I'll start sharing them here if people are interested, though.

Unless there's something to do with Alex, I don't see the point. I believe that former lolcows who've cleaned up their act have the right to drop off of the radar.

I know Ari doesn't live there. I'm just surprised Alex hasn't even tried to make it look like she does.

I've been in a similar apartment with an ex friend that had much the same vibe. Like Alex, she was in a wheelchair. Also like Alex, she was a narcissist. The floor space and furniture were all precisely planned and measured for optimum wheelchair manoeuvring, and combined with the fact that my ex friend had severe control freak and OCD issues, the end result was an extremely sterile and impersonal space.

Combine that fact that Alex can only interact with her environment in an incredibly limited way, all the bits and pieces that normal people accumulate over the course of their lives are pretty meaningless to her. If she actually had a soul you could see her getting into photography and wall art in a big way, but she doesn't so she's not.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Combine that fact that Alex can only interact with her environment in an incredibly limited way, all the bits and pieces that normal people accumulate over the course of their lives are pretty meaningless to her. If she actually had a soul you could see her getting into photography and wall art in a big way, but she doesn't so she's not.

I'm more surprised she doesn't have some props carefully placed so she can maneuver around them. Just some blankets, toys, and maybe some baby dishes and a highchair.

Meg Johnson was a dancer before she became a quadriplegic. She took up painting to fill that hole after her accident. She's done amazingly with figuring out how to do things with her paralyzed hands. Alex has some use of her hands. There are a lot of things she could do, a lot of hobbies she could pick up. Those two women are polar opposites. Hell, Meg has turned the anniversary of her accident into an annual celebration with her family. It could so easily just be one of those "we don't talk about that" things. Instead, she celebrates it, essentially telling the kids "I don't care how badly you fuck up. You can tell me. I'll probably find a silver lining, too."

Alex seems like the kind of person whose kids end up going no contact with. When Ari gets older, Alex will see her as a free caregiver. She'll think she's entitled to Ari's labor and pull the "I'm your mom, so you owe me" card. Odds are, Alex will get thrown in a care facility once Ari's old enough to call the shots on stuff like that.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

Alex has full use of her hands.

She really doesn't, though. She can barely hold her phone, only by propping it with her leg/knee, and her grip is flimsy and weak. And that's in her "good" hand/arm. I'm not saying she couldn't do something beyond being an Instathot, but yeah.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

She really doesn't, though. She can barely hold her phone, only by propping it with her leg/knee, and her grip is flimsy and weak. And that's in her "good" hand/arm. I'm not saying she couldn't do something beyond being an Instathot, but yeah.

There are still a lot of things she could do with her hands. Things that don't require much strength. There are so many products and tools available for people with disabilities and poor motor function. There are a lot of little things that could make her life easier, but she'd rather bitch about able-bodied people and be an instathot.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

When Ari gets older, Alex will see her as a free caregiver. She'll think she's entitled to Ari's labor and pull the "I'm your mom, so you owe me" card. Odds are, Alex will get thrown in a care facility once Ari's old enough to call the shots on stuff like that.

Since Alex most likely won't live that long, it's thankfully something Ari won't have to deal with. One of these days she's going to choke to death on her own spit in the middle of the night.