Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

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...Alex might be living a little bit vicariously through Ari even giving her a name that sounds pretty similar to Alex the way Alex speaks. Dressing her like a mini me. And yeah I know it's narc mother stuff but also I can see how it could also be a bit magical for her to see a littler version of herself but without SMA I'm not made of stone.
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Thomas Eugene Paris said:
I wonder if subconsciously she's eager to see Ari gain the mobility that she herself doesn't have. Parents want their children to have advantages that they themselves did not.
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These really gave me pause for thought.
On one hand I was filled with happiness for Alex at the thought of her seeing a tiny her, through her eyes, free of disability.

Then I considered that can be the problem with a narc mother - she may always see Ari as a mini self, free of disability and live vicariously through her, right through her childhood.

Now I'm sad.

At least Ari is beginning to look wonderfully chubby cheeked in the latest photo with Squidgy Hitler. She's such a bonny bebe.
 
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Question for anyone with knowledge about SMA: Are Alex’ unfortunate facial features a symptom of her disorder or can we look forward to a vampire-fanged, cavernously nostriled Ari in a couple years?

Also, the sperging and moralizing about cosleeping in the subreddit is beyond asinine. The peanut gallery is calling the staged photo of Noah and Ari “terrifying.” The amount of rampant undiagnosed postpartum anxiety in that sub is astounding.

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blue gopher snakes said:
Question for anyone with knowledge about SMA: Are Alex’ unfortunate facial features a symptom of her disorder or can we look forward to a vampire-fanged, cavernously nostriled Ari in a couple years?

Also, the sperging and moralizing about cosleeping in the subreddit is beyond asinine. The peanut gallery is calling the staged photo of Noah and Ari “terrifying.” The amount of rampant undiagnosed postpartum anxiety in that sub is astounding.

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The co sleeping wars are not new, mommy shaming is astounding. I can guarantee, those who would NEVER, not in a MILLION years endanger the life of their bub by co sleeping, do other things that the mommy wars consider dangerous.

I've always assumed it was a way to ease their fears. "Well, tragedy happened to THIS person because this person is a shit parent. I do things safer and better so tragedy will NEVER happen to me and mine. It only happens to shit people, not careful people like meeeee"

This is not to dismiss safe sleep studies and years of progress in infant and child safety and all that, it's just a comment on the mommy wars and my theory on why they happen
 
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blue gopher snakes said:
Are Alex’ unfortunate facial features a symptom of her disorder
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The nose is because she uses nasal CPAP at night (to help with her breathing as she doesn't have strong muscles in her chest that help with breathing), and probably has done for many years.
The teeth I can't comment on, might just be her misfortune.
 
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It appears the big sub on alex dacy is being "investigated". There seems to be some speculation on this for months according to one user. Someone shared some sources on another creator that doxxed her snarks and outed them to their employers. This was the work of a PI not law enforcement.

Do people legit think the cops are chasing down snarkers? If there is no law broken what is the reason to hunt them for being...weird? Lol
I really dont know if I'm missing something? Another commented there's no way these creators can argue for a reasonable expectation of privacy so what would be their argument against snark? Kinda new to it all so jw.
 
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Even if a snarker was camped outside the condo, the cops wouldn't do shit without a PPO and good luck getting one of the snarkers have shown no ill intent; if the average person has a hard time getting one taken out against someone actively threatening their life, good luck on getting one against a creepy Redditor or people making mean comments on the internet.

Also lmfao at these Karens acting like laying down for a nap next to your kid is tantamount to child abuse and murder. If anything, that picture with Noah and Ari is the most natural and humanizing photo they've shared that shows something even remotely like a healthy parental relationship. If I didn't know otherwise, I'd say it's an exhausted father catching up on rest next to his baby girl.
 
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Well now her subreddit is having yet another circle jerk about how everyone should stop discussing Alex's disability and just talk about how's she a bad person or something. Yes! Let's all pretend her severely limiting and progressively worsening degenerative condition has nothing to do with why we're all warming our asses around this blazing dumpster fire. Mmmm hugs for all!!

So cool to see all the same comments as the 18 other masturbatory posts on this: "Oh noooo, that's ableisssssst!", "We're better than that you guys!", and my personal fave, "I'm disabled toooo! Am I allowed to be a mommmm?!" I don't know Jan, would you and your baby survive if your drug-addicted baby daddy stole your phone and left you alone in bed for a long weekend? Would you require less, the same, or more care than a hypothetical toddler? Would your kid have to watch you decline in health until they get to watch you dying on a vent in ten years? There are a lot of reasons why some people shouldn't become parents, and in this case, her severe physical limitations are one reason why she shouldn't have become a parent. It's dumb af to pretend otherwise, just so they can feel better about themselves for snarking on the basically quadriplegic sma girl who would physically die if she ran out of money or people didn't take pity on her, but still thinks she's gonna be a Real Mom® because love and positive thinking or some shit.
 
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Hot off the presses! Alex is pushing the stroller



And more:
Ari is nice and warm, she survived her harrowing bout with hypothermia



Noah does battle with a new bassinet that was gifted to them. He looks rough



Plus, haters gonna hate and date night

 
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LonesomeDud said:
Which part of being a mom does she love? The part where she uses her arms without help?
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My guess is, the narcissistic pride of proving the haters "wrong". Her posts correlate to the subreddit, so she posts in response to their criticisms. I bet she gets a rush from "proving" them wrong.

She hasn't realized that she will never prove them wrong. Even when she wasn't posting for a while, the sub was writing fan fiction about what was happening at the apartment, and tearing her apart for the scenarios that they completely made up. When she DOES post, like with her pushing the stroller, they talk about the baby suffocating because she has a blanket over the stroller. Or with the date night post, they posted about how they didn't leave their children's sides for the first 18 years of life "omg they are so selfish, I could NEVERRRR"

I don't think she's realized that there is no winning this, OR, she just loves the attention, even if it's negative.
 
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Mum'sTheMunchie said:
My guess is, the narcissistic pride of proving the haters "wrong". Her posts correlate to the subreddit, so she posts in response to their criticisms. I bet she gets a rush from "proving" them wrong.

She hasn't realized that she will never prove them wrong. Even when she wasn't posting for a while, the sub was writing fan fiction about what was happening at the apartment, and tearing her apart for the scenarios that they completely made up. When she DOES post, like with her pushing the stroller, they talk about the baby suffocating because she has a blanket over the stroller. Or with the date night post, they posted about how they didn't leave their children's sides for the first 18 years of life "omg they are so selfish, I could NEVERRRR"

I don't think she's realized that there is no winning this, OR, she just loves the attention, even if it's negative.
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The Redditors are just able-bodied versions of Alex.

I think most people can agree there's a hidden life within being a mother that is largely an intrapersonal experience, and you don't need an able body to feel that to its absolute depths, and maybe this is very dark and unfair, but I don't know if that's what Alex meant.
 
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LonesomeDud said:
The Redditors are just able-bodied versions of Alex.

I think most people can agree there's a hidden life within being a mother that is largely an intrapersonal experience, and you don't need an able body to feel that to its absolute depths, and maybe this is very dark and unfair, but I don't know if that's what Alex meant.
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It might not be unfair, I don't think this thread is 100% on Alex being a narcissist, you can be a selfish, toxic asshole without a personality disorder.

But if someone has a personality disorder, that's how they view the world. If she is a narcissist, everyone in her life is just an extension of her, especially Ari. She wouldn't view Ari as her own individual person, and I really think that a personality disorder would make it difficult to connect with and fully love Ari as her own individual person
 
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Instagram mix of stories and posts from over downtime. The reel I just took a ss from as it was a pretty much static shot.

Commenters are still losing their shit about the insert in the car seat, and the hairband/hat on Ari's head.
It's getting insane.
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This was made from a tiktok comment where the person had said "All jokes aside, this (Alex's pregnancy) disturbed me deeply, how is this ethical for anyone involved. More importantly why can't I stop thinking about the logistics."
We see Alex's reply below.
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Some Q&A now, I only included a few as the rest were mind numbingly boring.

Stating again her desire to have a big family.
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New information that Ari has had reflux since birth and vomits easily.
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Confirmation that Ari is underweight.
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