Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[GainsGoblin]

I wasn’t able to grab a screenshot but for one of the asks, she did confirm that she is never alone with the baby. Phew.

I’m worried that Noah will dip on her when no one is there or able to reach her quickly.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I wasn’t able to grab a screenshot but for one of the asks, she did confirm that she is never alone with the baby. Phew.

I’m worried that Noah will dip on her when no one is there or able to reach her quickly.

If he leaves for smokes and abandons them without a caregiver for hours or days, he will spend time in jail. Alex is a vindictive person.

For the record, I would be, too.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

I wasn’t able to grab a screenshot but for one of the asks, she did confirm that she is never alone with the baby. Phew.

I’m worried that Noah will dip on her when no one is there or able to reach her quickly.

Ah balls I must have missed that one, I don't remember seeing that.

I think it's just a matter of time before he bails, but I'd like to think that he wouldn't be so cunty as to completely abandon them without an alternative caregiver.

 

[Gaga]

According to Alex this is a vibe.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Of course Ari has an upset tummy, it looks like when Alex feeds her she ends up with a belly full of air.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

Alex is absolutely not doing all of the daytime feeds. Someone can hand her a bottle she didn’t have to wash or sterilize, filled with formula mixed by the baby-murdering Brezza, and she can sort of prop a Dollar Store bottle up against her lazy-eyed tit juuuust enough to give Ari some nasty reflux. She cannot lift Ari onto her own lap. She cannot lift Ari to burp her after she’s been fed a heaping portion of bottle air. She cannot resettle her in her crib. She cannot change a poopy diaper.

Everything Alex does to “contribute“ to the care of her own infant daughter requires the labor and time of at least one other able-bodied adult. She basically makes more work for that other adult just by insisting upon participating in Ari’s care at all. It would be less work if she didn’t “help”. This pregnancy and baby should never have been allowed to happen. All it would take for Ari to end up dead is a caregiver missing work for one day.

 

[Gaga]

The way she calls him “hun” makes me want to crawl out of my own skin.

You can tell by his responses he’s just over it. Over being a dad. Over caring for her. Over having to put his own healing and recovery aside. This man is just done.

 

[glass_houses]

You can tell by his responses he’s just over it. Over being a dad. Over caring for her. Over having to put his own healing and recovery aside. This man is just done.

I have absolutely no sympathy for him. Men who go undressed for the occasion are morons. A man who went undressed for the occasion with a severely disabled narcissist got exactly what he deserved. If he absolutely had to sleep with Alex to keep a roof over his head, he should have been roofying her drinks with the Pill, wearing a triple strength condom and using straight spermicide for lube.

I hope that baby Ari is taken from these dreadful people before they do/don't do something permanent. Alex and Noah deserve the consequences of their actions, but Ari doesn't.

 

[GainsGoblin]

The way she calls him “hun” makes me want to crawl out of my own skin.

You can tell by his responses he’s just over it. Over being a dad. Over caring for her. Over having to put his own healing and recovery aside. This man is just done.

He HATES this.

I love this arc for him, because if Noah had knocked up an able-bodied woman, he would be doing exactly zero fucking work. The exhausted woman would be the one in the kitchen doing the constant cleaning and formula prep, and he’d be the lazy shit playing video games on the couch going “yeah babe just tell me if you need me to help…”

But Noah knocked up a woman who physically can’t do ANY work at all. So now he’s stuck doing 100% of the labor for the baby and probably a good 50% of the labor for his baby-like girlfriend. You love to see it.

 

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

I have noticed a shift in Alex lately, she seems to be changing tactics. Ari is dressed warmly, and Alex is dressed as well. She's commenting on the criticisms instead of just posting videos (about the dreaded car seat insert and saying she's open to advice because she's new at this and needs all the tips, and Ari's chin not being smushed into her chest, she's just getting chubby cheeks)

So this checks nudity off of the list for Alex, hypothermia for Ari off of the list (SORT of, more on that in a bit), and her being arrogant and stubborn off of the list.

It's no shocker that the tactic didn't work. Someone posted about how unsafe Ari is on the floor mat and how these two idiots put her in so much danger and they just can't stand it, another posted paragraphs about how unfair it is that Alex gets to have a baby to neglect and put in dangerous situations while they themselves struggle to conceive. And even more about Aris head ending up flat AND being on the cold floor (she's in what appears to be a super warm pajama set)

The only way Alex can win is to just get off the internet, and maybe try to come back in a year or so. Some cows, no matter how long they are gone, (or even munchies after they have munched themselves to death) are still talked about. Others just fade away. I think Alex could be one to fade away

Her about face is a check against narcissm though, she wouldn't be posting like this if she had narcisstic personality disorder, it would be more of what we've already seen.

People said Ari was suffocating in her carseat, and she posted these


Here she thanks people who have given her kind suggestions

And admits to being newbies and needing all of the tips



And most dangerous of all, playmat gate. This sparked the IVF rant, about how Alex is able to put a baby in danger while the redditor can't conceive (I didn't snapshot that essay, I'm sure you already know what's in there), as well as Ari being unsafe and cold on the floor, at risk of rolling off the matt, getting a flat head, and yes, even being run over by the wheel chair.

 

[glass_houses]

Welcome to parenthood, Alex and Noah! For the next eighteen years, you will be judged by every random that sees you, on or off the internet. Everything you do, everything your child does will be studied, analysed, and sent to the jury for the final verdict. Oh, you think that it's happening because of Alex's 'influencer career'? LMAO NO. This is what being a parent is all about: nonstop criticism and judgment being passed on you, your spouse, and your children. The village isn't raising the child anymore, but the sky will fall before they stop gossiping about it! Welcome to your new life, me mates! Enjoy!

 

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

Welcome to parenthood, Alex and Noah! For the next eighteen years, you will be judged by every random that sees you, on or off the internet. Everything you do, everything your child does will be studied, analysed, and sent to the jury for the final verdict. Oh, you think that it's happening because of Alex's 'influencer career'? LMAO NO. This is what being a parent is all about: nonstop criticism and judgment being passed on you, your spouse, and your children. The village isn't raising the child anymore, but the sky will fall before they stop gossiping about it! Welcome to your new life, me mates! Enjoy!

This is why social media posts from parents are usually heavily edited. Never post pictures of your kid in a car seat because it will always be wrong and your child will always be in danger. Even the carefully chosen pictures where you think NOTHING is wrong WILL be wrong. Choose your audience carefully and your experience will be a little better at least

This is times one thousand if you're being hate watched with people wanting to find something... ANYTHING they can possibly find to be wrong.

I really wonder what that person thought Ari was on. It sounds like they thought Ari was on some elevated rocking cradle thing while rolling dangerously from side to side. Because that's what they WANTED to see. The rest of us saw a play mat.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

I had the same pictures from Instagram to post that have already been shared, but also have a bonus 2 of Squidgy Hiltler and Alex with Ari.

Check out the teats on him!

 

[Octopi]

He'd sooner be able to breastfeed her than Alex would. Jesus.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Alex rocking away, looking unimpressed with her enormous Ugg slippers.

 

[CaseyTatumm]

I missed a story from yesterday that may or may not be significant.
Alex received a box of ready made formula bottles from NICU.

A commenter on the Lacegate post claims this only happens when NICU is concerned that bebe isn't gaining enough or not being fed adequately.
They also think that Ari isn't taking her bottle properly from looking at the photos.


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Based off the pictures the post of them feeding Ari, I will agree. I learned in the NICU with my kids, the best way to feed them is have them sitting up with the bottle level with their mouth vs at an angle. You give them a few swallows, pull the bottle away, give a few more slow drinks, burp and repeat.

 

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

DCFS paid another visit, apparently it's the third one. It could be related to the original visit when Ari was born. I don't think that case has been closed yet, because we haven't seen her post a report of the findings being unfounded. She would have shared that as soon as she received it. And if the report was founded and DCFS had a plan in place, we would have heard about that too. In my experience, even with unfounded reports, DCFS can suggest resources for help for the parents, even if the claims are deemed unfounded and the kids are safe. We would have heard about that too, because she would be talking about being discriminated against.

Another theory is that Ari just had a dr appointment, and maybe the doctor reported her. In my experience, cps will visit that fast, to make sure the child isn't in immediate danger

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

It's a baby in a house with a profoundly disabled mother and an addict father. DCFS should be involved to help support them to care for Ari. But she wants to view it as boo hoo the system is against me.

 

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

It's a baby in a house with a profoundly disabled mother and an addict father. DCFS should be involved to help support them to care for Ari. But she wants to view it as boo hoo the system is against me.

A lot of people assume the goal is to take children away, but it's actually to keep families together. The system absolutely has its problems though. Noah and Alex need all of the resources they can get, hopefully they aren't rejecting help out of pride

 

[A tree]

A lot of people assume the goal is to take children away, but it's actually to keep families together. The system absolutely has its problems though. Noah and Alex need all of the resources they can get, hopefully they aren't rejecting help out of pride

Lots of families with disabilities and additional needs have a social worker supporting them. Lots of them asked for that support because they understand that they need it. They don't have to have the authorities sicced on them by outside forces because people notice they're not coping and trying to hide it.