Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[glass_houses]

Maybe we need the expertise of @Thomas Eugene Paris to check those movements out and see if they could even be seizure activity. I agree, they look kinda harmless and like a startle and I think most parents wouldn’t catch it. Much less a self-obsessed woman who has no clue what it feels like to move normally.

If she is having seizures, it might explain her passiveness. While we see very little, little Ari seems very content to sit in a bouncy chair all day. She doesn’t cry that we see, she’s just listless. Maybe she’s already accepted this s the lifestyle she’s gonna live-on the floor with people making her too hot or cold and not touching her. Or maybe her brain is losing grey matter. Mom was on lots of drugs when pregnant, it wouldn’t surprise me.

I hope they just show little bits when the baby is resting because Alex is jealous that she can’t do anything for her baby and other people are holding Ari.

Another possibility is that her parents are blowing pot smoke into her face or giving her alcohol to keep her calm. Noah is a drug addict and both himself and Alex are habitual drunks. God knows what substances are hidden around their unit.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

That's unfortunately common. Those wheelchairs are powerful and cumbersome, and when you can't move your feet, accidents happen.

You'd think someone would figure out how to protect against that. I was going to ask about shoes, but I had not realized her feet were deformed, which they look to be. Still, though, someone ought to be figuring out some way to contain her feet so they don't get ripped to bits. That toe turned my stomach.

 

[Breadbear]

You'd think someone would figure out how to protect against that. I was going to ask about shoes, but I had not realized her feet were deformed, which they look to be. Still, though, someone ought to be figuring out some way to contain her feet so they don't get ripped to bits. That toe turned my stomach.

Yes and no. You can't wear shoes all the time, and with the problems she has she would have a very hard time finding something that would work for her and protect her feet. She could get custom made orthopedic shoes, but those cost a fortune, are hideous and overheat your feet in the summer.

And even then, feet slip out. They slip off of the foot rests and out of harnesses. It sucks. It's one of the few things I feel bad for her about.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Maybe we need the expertise of @Thomas Eugene Paris to check those movements out and see if they could even be seizure activity. I agree, they look kinda harmless and like a startle and I think most parents wouldn’t catch it. Much less a self-obsessed woman who has no clue what it feels like to move normally.

If she is having seizures, it might explain her passiveness. While we see very little, little Ari seems very content to sit in a bouncy chair all day. She doesn’t cry that we see, she’s just listless. Maybe she’s already accepted this s the lifestyle she’s gonna live-on the floor with people making her too hot or cold and not touching her. Or maybe her brain is losing grey matter. Mom was on lots of drugs when pregnant, it wouldn’t surprise me.

I hope they just show little bits when the baby is resting because Alex is jealous that she can’t do anything for her baby and other people are holding Ari.

I've spoken to @Thomas Eugene Paris and sent them the recent videos I was concerned about.
Thankfully, the movements Ari was making aren't consistent with infantile seizures and I was overreacting and panicking unnecessarily.

You are right though, Ari seems to be a very passive baby from what we see.
I hope we see her flourish with more interaction and care from Noah's parents.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Yes and no. You can't wear shoes all the time, and with the problems she has she would have a very hard time finding something that would work for her and protect her feet. She could get custom made orthopedic shoes, but those cost a fortune, are hideous and overheat your feet in the summer.

And even then, feet slip out. They slip off of the foot rests and out of harnesses. It sucks. It's one of the few things I feel bad for her about.

Yeah, got that. I mentioned shoes as my initial thought, but was really thinking that beyond that, there should be something to integrate in those chairs that would put a barrier between the feet of a person who can't move them and all the hazards. Thinking some kind of firm barrier (heck, idk, a sturdy plastic accessory that wraps around the bottom of the seat and rises up a few inches above the pad /where her feet are) as an add-on to a chair like that.

Unless, of course, not showing maximum skin is a no-go for Alex.

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

I've spoken to @Thomas Eugene Paris and sent them the recent videos I was concerned about.
Thankfully, the movements Ari was making aren't consistent with infantile seizures and I was overreacting and panicking unnecessarily.

You are right though, Ari seems to be a very passive baby from what we see.
I hope we see her flourish with more interaction and care from Noah's parents.

Babies and young kids absorb a ton of information about the world just by watching the people closest to them. I think it's possible that she seems "passive" because she simply doesn't see her mom interacting with the world in the usual way.

There are also babies who are just content. She's still very young and without a lot more evidence I don't think we can say either way whether she has some sort of issue or if she's just a chill baby.

Also, this is my usual reminder that I'm not a pediatric epilepsy expert. Those movements did not look like IS to me but it's hard to tell with certainty unless you've had specific training. Part of what makes IS devastating is that the seizures are so subtle and insidious. The video clips are so short that I don't want to seem like I'm being definitive.

 

[Breadbear]

Yeah, got that. I mentioned shoes as my initial thought, but was really thinking that beyond that, there should be something to integrate in those chairs that would put a barrier between the feet of a person who can't move them and all the hazards. Thinking some kind of firm barrier (heck, idk, a sturdy plastic accessory that wraps around the bottom of the seat and rises up a few inches above the pad /where her feet are) as an add-on to a chair like that.

Unless, of course, not showing maximum skin is a no-go for Alex.

That's not really a thing, the best option really is shoes. Any sort of barrier is a bigger risk for injury than just shoes. The skin of her feet would be fragile, she doesn't walk, so anything hard that rubs against them would rub the skin right off. Anything that goes past the wheelchair adds to its size and bulk, and then you couldn't free her feet as easily if they get stuck.

 

[Chongqing]

I hope we see her flourish with more interaction and care from Noah's parents.

I hope that happens and we don't see it. I hope baby Ari gets to grow up in private like most happy babies.

 

[often puzzled]

Looks like Alex, Ari, and Grandpa are all on a Southwest flight to Florida. She posted very few stories over the past days (well, fewer than usual) and showed the apartment in stages of being packed up. It looks like today (Saturday, September 3-- Alex's time) was the big move-out day. I can see why they wouldn't want to drive with an infant and a disabled narcissist, but flying also seems risky. If Alex's chair sustains any damage, they're in a lot of trouble.

However, the good news is that Ari appears to love her grandpa, and he appears to love her right back. Here we have some pictures of the trip and a video of grandpa making Ari giggle. Maybe she's not such a passive baby when someone actually takes the time to interact with her.

Spoiler: Instagram stories: moving day

Apartment lookin' bare. Caption reads "moving."



Ari in mom's chair. It's a revealing picture of their relative sizes. Caption reads "big girl in moms wheelchair."



Still from video, full video under spoiler below. Grandpa is cooing at her and saying "muy bien, mamacita" in a silly voice. He's also blowing kisses. Ari is giggling and gazing up at him, wondering who this funny, silly man is. No caption on the video (well, there were subtitles, but they were incorrect).



Ari is in grandpa's lap for the flight. No caption.



Alex and Noah are sitting together in the row ahead of grandpa and Ari (you can see them in the background). No caption.



A random flight attendant (I guess? She's got a Southwest pin on) cuddles Ari. Grandpa and the random flight attendant have officially cuddled Ari more than her actual parents ever have. Caption reads "first flight," and Southwest Airlines is tagged.

Spoiler: video of a happy Ari

I hope so much that this move is good for Ari. Her parents can do whatever, but Ari deserves more.

 

[often puzzled]

Following up on yesterday's post: they've arrived in Florida. Noah posted a long and angry rant at Reddit in his Instagram stories but then deleted it. Fortunately for him, I grabbed it and will post it here for posterity. I'm thoughtful like that. As part of his rant, he told people to "look into Weston, FL," so, like the obliging person I am, I did!

Spoiler: Noah is big mad

He must have finally gotten caught up with the subreddit, because all of this addresses claims and questions from there.

Caption: "Yess [sic] we finally made the move to Florida, and no, we couldn't take the van because when I asked about buying it off the parents they said they wanted 25 grand for it even thought it's worth less than 2k . . ."

People on Reddit asked, not unreasonably, why they weren't taking the accessible van to Florida.



Caption: "And for y'all dumbfucks who think we're downgrading, do a little research into Weston, FL. Might upon [sic] your closed minded ignorent ass to understanding you really don't know the reality of the situation lmao"

Seems like the downgrading comments really really got to him.



Caption: "And to y'all chicogoans who are happy we're gone, trust me we are happy not to be in the general area of you garbage humans lol so we are more than thankful to be away from y'all toxic pieces of literal shit ball"



Caption: "And to y'all who got shit to say about me and WR, do y'all even have a livelihood, or do you just spend all your time talking on social media/Reddit about how much you hate (adore) me? Lmao I'm flattered."



Caption: "To specifically at everyone at Reddit, I may be unemployed at the moment, but why do you spend every waking hour of your day taking about me LLLLOSERR plain fact no cap."

Sir, you are not a gangster. Just sayin'.



Caption: "And for ya'll saying I'm the last person who should be saying shit about paying taxes and having a job: people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones-- so regather your thoughts, then come back to be with some information with some actual validity. Bunch of hypocrites lol so sad."

Background to that comment: he'd posted some song to his Instagram stories that is apparently about people without jobs leeching of others. The Reddit gorls pointed out that was awfully rich, coming from an unemployed leech.



Caption: "I'm just curious to what y'all are gonna be saying about me when I'm making 100k-- y'all just hate cuz you're jealous I get it most of y'all haters are a bunch of nobody's who spend all their time stalking me and my girlfriend and posting and talking shit about it. Do y'all not feel like less of humans, like you are worthless and have nothing to society?"

You have to make 100k before you get to rub it in people's faces. Also, his spelling, grammar, and sentence structure start deteriorating the longer this rant goes on. It doesn't make me think good things about his temper and his ability to control it.



Caption: "You make 250k a year, yet spend 90% of your life on a Reddit page devoted to me and Alex, that makes absolutely no sense lmao. I highly doubt you make that much or you just got too much time on your hands"

He's responding to an admittedly immature comment on Reddit from someone who claims to make $250k+ a year, run their own business, etc, etc. The comments about finance and so on really get to him, it seems.



Caption: "I've actually got a Bachelor's of Science in Economics from Florida State University, so try again lol. I'm actively establishing my career at the early age of 24 years old. Additionally, I've never hit anyone in my life, so I'm definitely not a domestic abuser. So get your facts straight before you start spewing out this ignorant ass bullshit, makes you sound uneducated. Lmao."

He's responding to a comment on Reddit that lists the Redditor's supposed salary. Commenter asks how he plans to do anything with his life, given the circumstances.



Caption: "Y'all Redditors need to comfront [sic] me personally instead of hiding behind a keyboard. Highly doubt you would, cuz none of have the guts to do that but enjoy being a coward behind a computer/iPhone screen. Real good look. Pathetic, can't wait till that page gets shut down then y'all will have nothing to do with yourself except thumb ass on your phone all day."

In short, the Redditors really got under Noah's skin with the criticism of his home, his path in life, his finances, etc. It's notable that the entire rant is about what they said about his personal circumstances, but Alex and Ari don't come up. He doesn't address any criticisms involving them, except for the wheelchair van question (which was ultimately about money).

Alex did confirm they've arrived, and her confirmation (on Instagram stories) roughly coincided with the time that Noah's rant was removed. Did she make him do it? Anyway, here's her story:



Now, Noah encouraged us to look into Weston, FL, and I'm not one to ignore a request. @Jane Eyre had already doxed his family in this post. Building from that, I looked into Weston, FL and discovered that Darrell Glenn Smith Jr. lives at 16403 Ruby Lake, Weston, FL, 33331.

The neighborhood doesn't have a Google Street View:



But you can see an overhead view on Redfin:



See the curved streets? The sidewalk that cuts through the base of the driveways? How there's green space between the driveways and the street? Look anything like Alex's photo above? Yes, yes it does. To be fair, though, a lot of suburbs in Florida will look exactly like this one, and Weston has master-planned communities (per Wikipedia, which also calls it "a very wealthy area"). I do think this is likely correct, but the generic-ness of Florida complicates things.

If this is indeed the right house, here are the stats:



His mom shared an additional picture of the neighborhood on Facebook:



Mostly, mom posts inspirational stuff, and she appears to adore the grandkids she's able to see regularly.

Anyway, Noah is bragging because Weston is an affluent area, and it appears that his parents are solidly upper-middle class (at minimum). Dad stays offline, but the pictures of their house on mom's Facebook show it to be a nice place. They have parties, go to events, generally live a comfortable life. Noah is bragging and dunking on the Redditors because his parents are well-off, even though he remains an unemployed leech. It's not the own he thinks it is.

 

[Barbarella]

If this ignorant child’s goal is to make $100,000 a year he’s in for a shock. Maybe there are still pockets of this country where 100k will carry you but I don’t know where they are. Certainly, any of the coastal areas, 100k isn’t going to qualify you to buy a house without a huge down payment or other help.

Bragging about how much you parents have is so middle school. Is that when he started using? Seems the age at which he stopped developing.

Well grandpa seems nice. Sometimes, even the best people can turn out a defective kid, so I don’t think it’s any reflection on them that Noah is retarded. Hopefully they’ll do better with Ari.

Reality has hit home-Alex is incapable of raising a child in any meaningful way, Noah is too dumb and immature, and now this nice older couple have to spend the years when they should be traveling and resting raising another generation.

 

[Trombonista]

Having an Economics degree is not the own you think it is. I have one and I moderate Kiwi Farms.

 

[Sleazy Car Salesman]

If this ignorant child’s goal is to make $100,000 a year he’s in for a shock. Maybe there are still pockets of this country where 100k will carry you

Try basically the entire Midwest. 100k is a lot of money in areas where coasties haven't shit up the place yet.

 

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

Bragging about owning your own business and making $250k a year sounds like some MLM bullshit. A lion doesn't have to tell you that he's a lion. Successful business owners don't need to brag on reddit about their wealth. Clown.

4th attempt at getting a bachelors degree, yet makes $250k owning their own business. That's definitely MLM speak. Reddit is a goldmine

 

[Chongqing]

I really hate her face.

When she smiles, she has the same air about her as a smug Chantal.

Like she's smiling because she's getting away with something.

 

[Trombonista]

I really hate her face.

When she smiles, she has the same air about her as a smug Chantal.

Like she's smiling because she's getting away with something.

Child neglect? Is that what she's getting away with?

 

[often puzzled]

Small Alex update. I apologize for the update frequency; every time I try to build up, I get all the screenshots messed up.

Alex finally posted to her grid to confirm she's in Florida now. It's interesting that she hasn't created a narrative to explain why they've suddenly and unexpectedly moved from Chicago to suburban Florida. Most influences will craft some sort of "learning and growing as a person, new opportunities, blah blah" story for a move, but Alex hasn't given a reason. I don't actually think she is somehow obliged to give a reason, but it's standard procedure for an influencer, and her actual fans will wonder. After all, she's been portraying their life in Chicago as pretty much perfect.

For the moment, it appears they're living with Noah's parents and not in a place of their own. That house appears to be two-story, which doesn't seem ideal. Some of the visible moving boxes were labeled "Ari's room," so that doesn't make it sound like a temporary arrangement.

Spoiler: grid post

Image is of Alex wearing a t-shirt that says "donut be ableist." It's from one of her merch runs. She is wearing pants; they're just short-shorts and barely visible.



Caption and some comments:

"We all made it back to Florida in one piece, including my wheelchair."

Spoiler: Instagram stories

Noah walking Ari, with (unleashed?) Cairo by his side. Further confirmation of the neighborhood. Over on Reddit, the gorls are worried that these images will lead to a dox of Noah's parents.



Still from a longish video of Cairo and another dog in the backyard. The other, larger dog is chasing Cairo, and they're really running everywhere. I don't think Cairo is distressed, but they're going so fast that it's hard to tell. Alex squawks "holy--," and the video cuts off. I'm sure the other neighbors will enjoy having a naked Canada goose that screams obscenities next door. Really raises the property values.

I just hope that Noah's parents are strategically making moves to gain custody.

 

[Chongqing]

Child neglect? Is that what she's getting away with?

She's getting away with pretending to be Paola from 90 Day Fiance. Just for context, Pao is a self appointed thirst trap who leaves her babies on the floor and poses next to them in a bikini with her ass hanging out. Almost as if to say that the fact she has babies is proof she's sexually desirable.

I really feel like they're one in the same, except Alex is literally retarded.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex continues to be quieter than usual. There haven't been any picture of the inside of Noah's parents house, prompting speculation that Grandma and Grandpa have laid down a lot of rules for the crashing couple-- including limiting indoor photos. Alex was also up and posting a lot earlier than usual this morning. Normally, she doesn't post before about 1:00 PM her time, and she can often be seen with BiPAP marks on her face around that time. Florida and Chicago only have an hour's time difference, so that's not why she's waking up so much earlier. Will this trend continue?

Spoiler: stuff from her stories

A chubby and very inappropriately-dressed Ari sleeps by the pool. The high for September 6 in Weston, FL was 92/92, with humidity at 67%.



Really only including this shot of the mugs because one of them is an FSU mug, and it looks like at least one other sibling (in addition to Noah) went to FSU.



Alex posts an unusually contrite story: "We are finally getting settled in, sorry for my lack of posting these past few days! It is so good to be back in Florida, and I already got to see one of my friends that I made when I first moved here. It is so good to be back in the palm trees & be surrounded by family."

She's also usually not grateful. As we have all seen.



Caption: "I was pretty nervous about the flight because it was a whole crew of people and my dog. My dog and my baby flying for the first time . . . Plus the whole anxiety of the airport handling my wheelchair. Everything went incredibly well and Ari did amazing on the flight and so did Bubba. A huge thank you to grandpa for helping with Ari and Bubba. We could not have done it without him."

Bubba is Cairo.

Here's the pièce de résistance:



Caption: "A troll hacked into Noah's Instagram and was messaging someone very inappropriate things and Noah and I do not condone that type of behavior in any way."

I don't actually know if she's referring to the anti-Reddit rant or to some sort of DMs that haven't emerged yet. If inappropriate DMs did happen, they're not on Reddit (yet). If she's referring to the Reddit rant, then the "troll" had access to photos that had never been shared before, knew they were moving to Weston before the actual location had been announced, knew Noah's college major, knew why they didn't take the van with them . . . and so on. The Reddit gorls think this is in reference to the rant he posted in stories. To me, it sounds like she's talking about DMs.

And . . .

I was about to hit post, but I checked Reddit one last time, knowing any screenshots would end up there. Sure enough, 20-odd minutes ago, the screenshots show up. No clue what they're doing to verify posters, but these are mod-verified, for whatever that's worth.



Text of first one: "Ya fuck you you fucking whore ugly slutbag, who abuses welfare and has nothing to offer to society, keep getting aroused by talking shit about me! Go off girly! Enjoy! Cuz your too simple minded to grasp your head around it. Idk what it is, but your less intelligent so it's harder to communicate with you."

Editor's note, for the intellectual Noah: it's "you're too simple minded to wrap your head around it" and "you're less intelligent."



Text of second one: "How the fact would you know, you uneducated unemployed broke piece of shit. I may be an addict but atleast I'm not stupid as fuck life you, did you even get your GED? I don't it your dumb as fuck probably has an IQ of less than 90. A lot less intelligent and someone I don't even know why I would give my time of day. We are on completely different cognition levels. Just stick to serving tables at McDonald's or Chili's. Instead of trying to get into deep rooting conversations. You don't know the first shit about college except of you to give a shit about your narcissistic self. All good boo, good like being stupid as fuck and lonely as hell. Your gonna come back as a minority when you're literally black LMAOOO. Bitch STFU and know your place" [cuts off here]

Editor isn't even going to try to proofread all that. It's pretty incoherent. I don't know if it was dictated or what, but it's a lot messier than what he posted to his stories.



This one ends the previous conversation: "BITCH STUFU and know your place. What's wrong with being an addict? Your black right?"

The fourth screenshot is one of the message recipients showing that she reported Noah for the DMs, and Instagram responded by taking them down. He didn't delete the stories after all:



Yeah. Good luck with trying to blame all of this on a "troll." What a charming fella, no anger issues here!

Edit: good lord, there's more. The Reddit admins just added this, from yet a third user:



A user asks about the van. Noah replies: "well vans cost $80k so that might have made a down payment but she ended up putting it all into existing van repairs with the one she already has."

 

[often puzzled]

The updates have been fast and furious. Today, around 10-11 AM her time, Alex admits that Noah did send the messages, Noah has relapsed, and that they're no longer together.







This was followed by a video of Ari wiggling around (freely! and on her tummy!) in a (new) playpen/pack and play, then a selfie of Alex because of course.