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Does she plan on saving up for a house without Noah living in it? Would a carer care for her and the baby?
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The best thing for Ari is to have other people around to take care of her. And that's not just because of Alex's disability. ANY child blessed with a narcissist for a mom and a BPD addict dad can use all of the love and attention they can get.
If Noah's parents are stable, this is a very good thing for Ari and I hope they take an active part in raising her.
If Noah's parents are stable, this is a very good thing for Ari and I hope they take an active part in raising her.
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I don't know why Alex's parents barely even came over when they were so close. Maybe they are burnt out from caring for Alex and didn't think they'd need to raise another human?
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It's quite possible they had arguments with Alex about having a baby at great risk to herself and the baby (it is a miracle that Ari is a healthy baby) and had also argued about how Alex was going to raise a child. That could lead to a certain amount of frostiness.
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@often puzzled, thank you for all your hard work in posting Alex updates. Whether they are small and daily or larger and consolidated, this thread would be dead without you.
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Wow.
So one parent who has rage, addiction and compulsive lying issues, and one who can't wipe her ass, chew meat or admit a need for help.
I almost forgot Noah has BPD. Male BPDs are such nightmares. They're arguably worse than the women, in my experience. Such simpering, weasely little fuckers - but with higher likelihood than the BPD woman of actually hurting you when they fly off the handle.
Anyway, I'm sure he will "get the help he needs", make some big, dramatic apology and they'll be back together in no time at all. In reality he'll just get sodden drunk and stick it in her and she'll forgive everything.
So one parent who has rage, addiction and compulsive lying issues, and one who can't wipe her ass, chew meat or admit a need for help.
I almost forgot Noah has BPD. Male BPDs are such nightmares. They're arguably worse than the women, in my experience. Such simpering, weasely little fuckers - but with higher likelihood than the BPD woman of actually hurting you when they fly off the handle.
Anyway, I'm sure he will "get the help he needs", make some big, dramatic apology and they'll be back together in no time at all. In reality he'll just get sodden drunk and stick it in her and she'll forgive everything.
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Alex is normally pretty quiet on the weekends, presumably because that's mama's party time. Now that she's in Florida, though, she's doing a ton of weekend posting. I'm guessing Noah's parents are putting their foot down about some things.
Caption and comments.
Caption: "It is so surreal not to be in Chicago anymore. It has been a big adjustment for me and I'm sure for Ari. Moving in is always hard and comes with a degree of adjustment but I'm so happy to be surrounded by palm trees and lots of sunshine again. I've been taking time to adjust to a lot of changes."
Whew. She's been prolific.
My bet is that Ari gets to sit outside on the patio for "alone time" with mom and is under the care of others the rest of the time. They really can't openly refuse Alex any time with her own daughter. They must stick Alex out there when they don't want her underfoot.
No sign of a carer for Alex. If Noah is still there, I guess he's doing it all. The grandparents are in a rough situation, because I doubt they want a Craigslist carer/stranger in their home.
NOAH WATCH: the return of Noah Watch! He's not in any of these photos, aside from his grubby fingers appearing in the photo of Ari's first tooth. Grandma is seen from the back as she assists Ari in the water, but the grandparents are otherwise off-camera. They don't seem to want to be involved in Alex's social media circus (understandably).
She's posting lots and lots of waterfowl videos, and I may have posted these before; they all look the same. Anyway, I'm glad I already made a bunch of jokes about her honking like a goose, because she's now found her feathery tribe.
More neighborhood views. I think this waterfront is right behind the Smith house. You can see it (or something similar) in the background of her pool videos.
Selfie. I can't quite tell-- is that a crib?
Ari on some blankets/towels by the pool. She's got a toy but, in true baby fashion, inexplicably prefers to play with the corner of the blanket.
Cairo sighting. He's never looked that happy in Chicago. His ears were always plastered back. You can also see that lake in the background.
More neighborhood views. I think this waterfront is right behind the Smith house. You can see it (or something similar) in the background of her pool videos.
Selfie. I can't quite tell-- is that a crib?
Ari on some blankets/towels by the pool. She's got a toy but, in true baby fashion, inexplicably prefers to play with the corner of the blanket.
Cairo sighting. He's never looked that happy in Chicago. His ears were always plastered back. You can also see that lake in the background.
Ari gets a tooth! Not sure we needed to see Noah's dirty, drug-addict hands jammed in her mouth, though.
Caption and comments.
Caption reads: "a tiny bit late but SHE'S 6 MONTHS OLD and . . . her first tooth is coming in." Sanitized comments.
Caption and comments.
Caption reads: "a tiny bit late but SHE'S 6 MONTHS OLD and . . . her first tooth is coming in." Sanitized comments.
Happy and appropriately-dressed Ari.
This one was interesting. It's a still from a multi-story video. Ari was completely engrossed in that toy, and the small dog was licking her foot. She ignored that, but the dog moved on to start licking her face. She really didn't like that and tried to pull away (unsuccessfully, of course, because she's 6 months old). Alex just sat and laughed as Ari kept trying to move away. I know she can't do anything to help, but she completely missed Ari's very obvious discomfort.
I caught the still at the wrong time. This is when the dog first started licking, before she started pulling away.
Grandma is a kids' swimming instructor, and Ari is getting her turn.
Caption: "back to wearing bath suits everyday." Yeah, because you're incapable of helping out in this multi-person, multi-generational situation type deal. Three generations, one BPD addict, one completely disabled narcissist. Can you imagine?
This one was interesting. It's a still from a multi-story video. Ari was completely engrossed in that toy, and the small dog was licking her foot. She ignored that, but the dog moved on to start licking her face. She really didn't like that and tried to pull away (unsuccessfully, of course, because she's 6 months old). Alex just sat and laughed as Ari kept trying to move away. I know she can't do anything to help, but she completely missed Ari's very obvious discomfort.
I caught the still at the wrong time. This is when the dog first started licking, before she started pulling away.
Grandma is a kids' swimming instructor, and Ari is getting her turn.
Caption: "back to wearing bath suits everyday." Yeah, because you're incapable of helping out in this multi-person, multi-generational situation type deal. Three generations, one BPD addict, one completely disabled narcissist. Can you imagine?
Caption and comments.
Caption: "It is so surreal not to be in Chicago anymore. It has been a big adjustment for me and I'm sure for Ari. Moving in is always hard and comes with a degree of adjustment but I'm so happy to be surrounded by palm trees and lots of sunshine again. I've been taking time to adjust to a lot of changes."
She reposted the dog-licking story, probably because people were critical the first time. This time, she added the caption "Romeo and Ari are the same age about."
On the plus side, Ari was really into that toy and was playing with it normally.
Aww, chubby cheeks. And yes, you've already seen a photo from this series. There's a lot of repetition in this set of stories. She must snap off a bunch of photos at once and then spread them out.
On the plus side, Ari was really into that toy and was playing with it normally.
Aww, chubby cheeks. And yes, you've already seen a photo from this series. There's a lot of repetition in this set of stories. She must snap off a bunch of photos at once and then spread them out.
Selfie. The tits hanging out are a nice touch. They really compliment the framed family photos in the background.
Caption and comments.
Caption reads:
"I never post selfies, so here is one showing off my FL tan
Bikini: @londrebodywear #gifted
Edit: because I am an ‘influencer’ and anything I post means I am promoting it… DISCLOSURE: WEAR SUNSCREEN & DONT EXPOSE YOUR SKIN TO SUN LIKE ME!"
Claiming she never posts selfies absolutely killed me. I wonder if she's actually that unaware.
Caption and comments.
Caption reads:
"I never post selfies, so here is one showing off my FL tan
Bikini: @londrebodywear #gifted
Edit: because I am an ‘influencer’ and anything I post means I am promoting it… DISCLOSURE: WEAR SUNSCREEN & DONT EXPOSE YOUR SKIN TO SUN LIKE ME!"
Claiming she never posts selfies absolutely killed me. I wonder if she's actually that unaware.
TikTok. Caption reads "my 6 month old smiles so big when I say poop." Editor's note: that's not true. Ari was wiggling all over and smiled a little partway through the video, but she wasn't even looking toward Alex and was just entertaining herself by being a wiggleworm. In the meantime, Alex is honking "POOP! POOP!" at top volume. I'm guessing this is to diss all the people who pointed out that Ari smiled big and watched her grandpa intently while he was talking to her. To her, not at her.
And now she goes off on a tangent that makes very little sense. In the comments of the most recent grid post, people apparently pointed out that she's got horrible sun damage and is sunburned. This made Alex extremely mad.
She claims: "I literally don't lay out in the sun anymore." Girl. That is not true at all. And it's not a "tan," it's a constant state of sunburn.
Featuring her nostrils, yet again.
Ari all dressed up and by the pool.
This photo is from around lunchtime, Alex's time. It was a nice dress, and I bet the grandparents took Ari to church. It has that look.
And now she goes off on a tangent that makes very little sense. In the comments of the most recent grid post, people apparently pointed out that she's got horrible sun damage and is sunburned. This made Alex extremely mad.
She claims: "I literally don't lay out in the sun anymore." Girl. That is not true at all. And it's not a "tan," it's a constant state of sunburn.
Featuring her nostrils, yet again.
Ari all dressed up and by the pool.
This photo is from around lunchtime, Alex's time. It was a nice dress, and I bet the grandparents took Ari to church. It has that look.
Whew. She's been prolific.
My bet is that Ari gets to sit outside on the patio for "alone time" with mom and is under the care of others the rest of the time. They really can't openly refuse Alex any time with her own daughter. They must stick Alex out there when they don't want her underfoot.
No sign of a carer for Alex. If Noah is still there, I guess he's doing it all. The grandparents are in a rough situation, because I doubt they want a Craigslist carer/stranger in their home.
NOAH WATCH: the return of Noah Watch! He's not in any of these photos, aside from his grubby fingers appearing in the photo of Ari's first tooth. Grandma is seen from the back as she assists Ari in the water, but the grandparents are otherwise off-camera. They don't seem to want to be involved in Alex's social media circus (understandably).
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Noah's parents are nicer than me, there's no way I'd want that waste of space Alex living in my house, leeching off my family. I'd hire the best lawyer I could afford and go after custody of Ari.
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Noah is a big complication. They may be hoping that taking care of Ari straightens him up some. Or they could be in the process of documenting everything so they have a case.
It's a very difficult position to be in, even when you're apparently well off. Another thing to keep in mind are Alex's fans. Noah's parents were doxed in a couple hours thanks to Alex, and those fans will rain hellfire down upon them and their entire street for their 'ableisim'.
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It’s possible that her medical and social paperwork takes a couple weeks when transferring states. Grandparents may insist on hiring a professional nurse for Alex rather than a Craigslist bestie. Maybe Alex was taking the hourly rate they give her for care and was only paying untrained people half and keeping the rest or something? Pure speculation.
I know if I had to have somebody around, (and I’m not doing intimate disabled care) I’d want a background-checked pro during the day and Noah could do night care. I’d do baby because that child is about to get active and Alex can’t do it. I could just picture Ari crawling toward the pool with Alex watching helplessly and nobody there. I am sure they are out there too.
I’d also document every drunk incident, every one where she couldn’t protect baby (like dog one) and Noah’s slips too, and when I had enough, eventually spue for custody. Hopefully they’ve consulted a lawyer so they know what to do. In a sane world this would be obvious but here we are. Anyway. If that’s the goal they have to play nice.
I hope that’s what’s happening.
I know if I had to have somebody around, (and I’m not doing intimate disabled care) I’d want a background-checked pro during the day and Noah could do night care. I’d do baby because that child is about to get active and Alex can’t do it. I could just picture Ari crawling toward the pool with Alex watching helplessly and nobody there. I am sure they are out there too.
I’d also document every drunk incident, every one where she couldn’t protect baby (like dog one) and Noah’s slips too, and when I had enough, eventually spue for custody. Hopefully they’ve consulted a lawyer so they know what to do. In a sane world this would be obvious but here we are. Anyway. If that’s the goal they have to play nice.
I hope that’s what’s happening.
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They are in a horrible situation.
It gets complicated when grandkids get involved. It's hard enough for parents to set boundaries with their grown children if they are entitled and toxic. If you add grandkids into the mix, it's a nightmare.
One wrong move with a narcissist, and they will yank that child away for you to never see them again. They use their children as weapons to hurt other people, and I can see Alex trying to do that, though she's severely limited.
They also know that by keeping Alex and Noah under their roof, they have their eyes on Ari and Ari has a stable environment to thrive in.
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I'm ridiculously nervous watching Ari out there on a blanket three feet from a pool with no safety features. Like, I know she doesn't walk but I'm guessing she can roll?
That lake looks NASTY. I'm sure Alex thinks or is pretending to think it's so chic living on the water like in Chicago, but that lake is a swamp. If that gate wasn't between the pool and the murk, I'd also be worried about a croc sauntering up and snacking on Ari and Alex.
ETA: Another plus of the move for Alex - Nina's gone, just like we all guessed would happen. I'm sure Alex feels relieved now that Ari has no one she's securely bonded to.
That lake looks NASTY. I'm sure Alex thinks or is pretending to think it's so chic living on the water like in Chicago, but that lake is a swamp. If that gate wasn't between the pool and the murk, I'd also be worried about a croc sauntering up and snacking on Ari and Alex.
ETA: Another plus of the move for Alex - Nina's gone, just like we all guessed would happen. I'm sure Alex feels relieved now that Ari has no one she's securely bonded to.
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Gators can climb fences. Even when it is a fully enclosed pool cage, they can bust through the screening.
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Great, cause I think you can see a gator warning sign in the background of that water bird photo.
Alex should watch Archer. It would give her a healthier respect for the only Apex predator to survive the K-T extinction virtually unchanged for 100 million years because it is the perfect killing machine.
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Alex continues to be quiet. I imagine it's a tense situation all around. Ari and Cairo both appear to be better off, at least until the gators get one or both of them. Noah no longer has a public Instagram account, and Noah's more largely keeps things set to private on her account. It's a slow news day, in other words.
Alex shared only this revelation:
Spicy sour Doritos sound really gross.
I have some stuff about Alex's dad, so I'll drop it here while news is slow. I already posted about his arrest for domestic battery, and that's about the most interesting thing that's out there.
If her dad has ever met Ari, there's been no photo evidence of it. As we all know by now, it's unlike Alex to have a special family moment that she doesn't plaster all over Instagram.
Alex shared only this revelation:
Spicy sour Doritos sound really gross.
I have some stuff about Alex's dad, so I'll drop it here while news is slow. I already posted about his arrest for domestic battery, and that's about the most interesting thing that's out there.
Dad (John Dzimitowicz) has a Facebook account and participates in a group for his subdivision. He's shared some pictures of Alex we haven't seen before, and he often tags her in posts about baby products. I don't really think he's hinting or trying to communicate anything to her; before Ari, he tagged her in posts about other random things.
Facebook memory of toddler Alex:
Alex in 2012:
Alex in 2021:
Duck lips, always appropriate for a picture with dad.
His profile picture is of himself with Alex. I did not initially recognize her in this photo.
She looked so much better, even in 2017. She's dressed nicely, and her hair is styled better than it is now. The party lifestyle hasn't been kind to her.
Alex's dorm room, 2012:
She's so, so thin in this.
Alex in 2011:
Facebook memory of toddler Alex:
Alex in 2012:
Alex in 2021:
Duck lips, always appropriate for a picture with dad.
His profile picture is of himself with Alex. I did not initially recognize her in this photo.
She looked so much better, even in 2017. She's dressed nicely, and her hair is styled better than it is now. The party lifestyle hasn't been kind to her.
Alex's dorm room, 2012:
She's so, so thin in this.
Alex in 2011:
Dad has a patent and is understandably proud of it. Before anyone gets excited: he's likely making pocket change from this. Countless patents are filed every year. You'll get rich if you're a drug company that patents a new medicine like Ozempic, but you're going to be lucky to buy a nice dinner with a small patent like this. The thing he invented sounds useful, but patents aren't the moneymakers that people often think they are.
Nothing to see here. You can see a Coca-Cola logo on his shirt, which will go on to confirm his LinkedIn profile. There's a photo of his
The shirt with visible logo:
The shirt with visible logo:
I wouldn't place any bets on him updating this, and it could be old. However, he's got a Coca-Cola logo on his shirt in the 2016 Instagram photo, and this profile lists him as the "lead mechanic at coca cola refreshments." In this profile, his location is given as Palos Heights, Illinois.
Education at Triton College, which is a community college in Illinois.
These are the three profiles that come up with that last name: Alex, mom, and dad.
Education at Triton College, which is a community college in Illinois.
These are the three profiles that come up with that last name: Alex, mom, and dad.
His address confuses me somewhat. He's active in the Paw Paw Lake Facebook group:
That lake is in Michigan.
When I look up his address on TPS, it comes back as Palos Heights:
That's the same address as Alex's mom. Dad is John B. Dzimitowiz, and is father is/was also named John.
His mom lived in Coloma, Michigan, which is in the Paw Paw Lake district/community. The Paw Paw Lake Facebook page has a lot of community and homeowner stuff, and that's apparently John's link. Might he live or have lived with his parents? This house hasn't been for sale in a long time. It has a much higher value than Alex's mom's place.
It looks like his mom died in 2021:
I'm not sure if his dad is living or not.
This is the Palos Heights house:
A one-level ranch makes a lot of sense if your daughter uses a wheelchair.
Here's the photo from Google Street View (201
. I went up and down the street, and their house is the only one without a pristine yard. They've got clover (or something) taking over the yard. Other lawns are so pristine that you can see the perfectly parallel tracks of the lawnmower. I mention this mainly because of Mikey's prior comments about the state of Alex's mom's house. Does an imperfect lawn prove those? No, but it's something to consider.
In this photo from his Instagram, her dad was either looking out the front door or was standing in the front yard of the Palos Heights house:
If you go to Google Street View, you can confirm that the house with the smoking roof is directly across the street from Jackie's house:
The white strip in the lower right of that picture is something utility-related, not a lawn flaw.
That lake is in Michigan.
When I look up his address on TPS, it comes back as Palos Heights:
That's the same address as Alex's mom. Dad is John B. Dzimitowiz, and is father is/was also named John.
His mom lived in Coloma, Michigan, which is in the Paw Paw Lake district/community. The Paw Paw Lake Facebook page has a lot of community and homeowner stuff, and that's apparently John's link. Might he live or have lived with his parents? This house hasn't been for sale in a long time. It has a much higher value than Alex's mom's place.
It looks like his mom died in 2021:
I'm not sure if his dad is living or not.
This is the Palos Heights house:
A one-level ranch makes a lot of sense if your daughter uses a wheelchair.
Here's the photo from Google Street View (201
. I went up and down the street, and their house is the only one without a pristine yard. They've got clover (or something) taking over the yard. Other lawns are so pristine that you can see the perfectly parallel tracks of the lawnmower. I mention this mainly because of Mikey's prior comments about the state of Alex's mom's house. Does an imperfect lawn prove those? No, but it's something to consider.
In this photo from his Instagram, her dad was either looking out the front door or was standing in the front yard of the Palos Heights house:
If you go to Google Street View, you can confirm that the house with the smoking roof is directly across the street from Jackie's house:
The white strip in the lower right of that picture is something utility-related, not a lawn flaw.
If her dad has ever met Ari, there's been no photo evidence of it. As we all know by now, it's unlike Alex to have a special family moment that she doesn't plaster all over Instagram.
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Interesting, she got the kosher pareve Doritos.Alex shared only this revelation:
Spicy sour Doritos sound really gross.
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I think those are Thai or Indonesian Doritos. I've seen those in Hmart.
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Alex posted in her stories and to her grid. She posted a Q&A box, which has provided an abundance of screenshots to insert into this post.
I'm taking a break from transcribing the Q&A from here on. I'll try to go back and edit the transcriptions in, but I want to post this before I manage to screw something up and lose it (or before the site decides to eat my images). I know images don't always load for everyone, so I'll try to finish transcribing a bit later. Arthritic hands also need a break.
EDIT: I'm back. Captions added going forward.
edit: pausing the transcription for a moment to save before I manage to lose all of this for a second time.
edit: back. transcriptions present going forward unless otherwise noted.
That appears to be the end of the Q&A, but I'll add images in if she posts anything else. There's nothing else as of the time of this post, and, since it's been around 24 hours since she originally posted the question box, I assume she's done now. I had 59 total images for this post, so I guess it was around 50 questions. If anyone is unfamiliar with those Instagram question boxes: she can see who asked her the question, so it's not anonymous, in that sense. There are apps that allow for anonymous questions, but those would obviously be a poor choice for her.
tl;dr, Alex takes no responsibility, says very little about Ari, does not seem to be happy in the Smith house, her own family and family home must be a disaster, Noah is not in rehab.
final edit: all captions now added-- thanks for your patience!
Ari's playpen in the background. I didn't grab a clip, but she posted a story that showed the white wooden structure is indeed a crib of Ari's very own. Ari has gone from living in the car seat (and on the floor) to having multiple spaces of her own.
"new postie"
"uh oh I posted a tan selfie, cancel me ASAP. Don't promote that! It's problematic!" I like how she says she's tan when, even through the mega-filters, you can tell that her nose is a raw red from a deep burn.
Here's where she posted the Q&A box. That's four selfies in a row, after her previous grid post where she talked about how few selfies she posts.
"new postie"
"uh oh I posted a tan selfie, cancel me ASAP. Don't promote that! It's problematic!" I like how she says she's tan when, even through the mega-filters, you can tell that her nose is a raw red from a deep burn.
Here's where she posted the Q&A box. That's four selfies in a row, after her previous grid post where she talked about how few selfies she posts.
All the photos but the first are reruns. In other words, the ones of Ari alone are all old, but she managed to get a new one of herself. The neighborhood where the Smith's house is located has columns similar in shape and design to the one seen in the background of this photo.
Caption just says "Florida girlies." I got these captures soon after this was posted, so the comments were highly sanitized at that point.
Caption just says "Florida girlies." I got these captures soon after this was posted, so the comments were highly sanitized at that point.
I'm going to dump this under a couple of separate spoilers, just to make it easier to keep your place.
Someone asks how she's doing. She answers "not great, if I'm being honest."
Another how are you doing question. This one gets "y'all are so kind for asking. Lots going on. My mental health isn't great right now." You're getting the picture of how this Q&A is going to go: Alex is on her best behavior and wants people to feel sorry for her.
"Are you and Noah still together?" "No, but we're living together."
Yet another how are you question. She just responds with heart emojis.
This one was interesting. Follower asks what her dream house looks like, since Alex just said she wants to save up for a house. Alex answers: "a beautiful ranch home on the water, fully wheelchair accessible with a big back yard." Alex does not know how the world works. At all.
Random question about how to dress a baby for a November trip to Chicago. Alex says to get a snowsuit, which is funny because Ari is always underdressed in the winter and overdressed in the summer.
Someone asks how she's doing. She answers "not great, if I'm being honest."
Another how are you doing question. This one gets "y'all are so kind for asking. Lots going on. My mental health isn't great right now." You're getting the picture of how this Q&A is going to go: Alex is on her best behavior and wants people to feel sorry for her.
"Are you and Noah still together?" "No, but we're living together."
Yet another how are you question. She just responds with heart emojis.
This one was interesting. Follower asks what her dream house looks like, since Alex just said she wants to save up for a house. Alex answers: "a beautiful ranch home on the water, fully wheelchair accessible with a big back yard." Alex does not know how the world works. At all.
Random question about how to dress a baby for a November trip to Chicago. Alex says to get a snowsuit, which is funny because Ari is always underdressed in the winter and overdressed in the summer.
Asked her favorite thing about being a mom. Alex answers "deff watching her milestones and watching her flourish." Note that Alex has never done either of these things, and the only milestone she's acknowledged was the tooth coming in. I doubt she even knows what milestones to look out for, and she's certainly done no research.
Asked how she's doing post-move, well wishes for Alex and Ari. Alex responds: "it's been a big adjustment. There's a lot of people in the house and I'm an only child so it's been interesting! Obviously hard with Noah and I breaking up. I'm currently living at his parents' house." In other words, me me me hard for me me me me, no acknowledgment of the Ari part of the question.
Asked how she's feeling about the breakup. Alex replies: "it's hard but it's been a long time coming. Right now I'm only trying to focus on me & Ari and our future!"
A long time coming? Haven't they only been together a year or less? And of course she puts Ari second.
Asked how many animals are in the house, probably because there are a ton of dogs and cats in the photos. She answers: "lol there was [sic] 5 dogs, 2 cats, & a turtle. Now we're down to 3 dogs, 3 cats, and a turtle lol."
The two cats were in a video from last night. Alex spoke to them, and they gave her big-eyed looks. And then one scooted off-- it was pretty funny.
Asked: "who is taking care of you and Ari? Are you moving back to your parents?" Answer: "Noah still cares for me and also his parents. No, I plan on staying in Florida."
Addict ex and his parents doing her care. Ouch.
Asked how she's doing post-move, well wishes for Alex and Ari. Alex responds: "it's been a big adjustment. There's a lot of people in the house and I'm an only child so it's been interesting! Obviously hard with Noah and I breaking up. I'm currently living at his parents' house." In other words, me me me hard for me me me me, no acknowledgment of the Ari part of the question.
Asked how she's feeling about the breakup. Alex replies: "it's hard but it's been a long time coming. Right now I'm only trying to focus on me & Ari and our future!"
A long time coming? Haven't they only been together a year or less? And of course she puts Ari second.
Asked how many animals are in the house, probably because there are a ton of dogs and cats in the photos. She answers: "lol there was [sic] 5 dogs, 2 cats, & a turtle. Now we're down to 3 dogs, 3 cats, and a turtle lol."
The two cats were in a video from last night. Alex spoke to them, and they gave her big-eyed looks. And then one scooted off-- it was pretty funny.
Asked: "who is taking care of you and Ari? Are you moving back to your parents?" Answer: "Noah still cares for me and also his parents. No, I plan on staying in Florida."
Addict ex and his parents doing her care. Ouch.
Asked: "are there job opportunities in the area or is being a content creator your focus?" Answer: "because of the Reddit and losing brand deal opportunities-- I am going to look into another job. Right now I'm must trying to get settled. But I'll deff be looking into another job besides social media."
I can only think of one brand deal she lost because of Reddit: that pregnancy pillow. The Reddit people do love to interfere, but they're also pointing out things that she actually did. And Noah's recent behavior isn't going to help anything. Nothing is ever her fault, apparently.
Question: "do you have friends and family nearby?" Answer: "I actually do have quite a few friends down here and there's a big SMA community down here. I'm getting dinner tonight with a fellow SMA-er in the area."
And wouldn't you love to hear the family conversation that takes place while she's out of the house?
Asked: "what are you most excited about since moving back to Florida?" Person asking is obviously trying to be positive. Answer: "I'm stranded in the suburbs right now because I don't have a wheelchair accessible van. But I'm saving up to hopefully lease one. But, deff seeing the ocean!"
If she tries another van GoFundMe, she's got balls of steel and less common sense than her infant.
Asked Ari's favorite toy or activity. Answers: "she's finally at a stage where she enjoys tummy time-- before she would just cry. Now she plays on tummy time. She loves this little string toy I got her, and looking in the mirror and laughing!"
Asked if she's interested in anyone. Replies: "no no! my only interest right now is saving money and raising Ari. But thank u."
Asked, probably by a redditor: "why not embrace the dumpster fire that is your life? You'd get more respect for honesty." Answer: "LMAO. I am. Trying at least LOL."
I can only think of one brand deal she lost because of Reddit: that pregnancy pillow. The Reddit people do love to interfere, but they're also pointing out things that she actually did. And Noah's recent behavior isn't going to help anything. Nothing is ever her fault, apparently.
Question: "do you have friends and family nearby?" Answer: "I actually do have quite a few friends down here and there's a big SMA community down here. I'm getting dinner tonight with a fellow SMA-er in the area."
And wouldn't you love to hear the family conversation that takes place while she's out of the house?
Asked: "what are you most excited about since moving back to Florida?" Person asking is obviously trying to be positive. Answer: "I'm stranded in the suburbs right now because I don't have a wheelchair accessible van. But I'm saving up to hopefully lease one. But, deff seeing the ocean!"
If she tries another van GoFundMe, she's got balls of steel and less common sense than her infant.
Asked Ari's favorite toy or activity. Answers: "she's finally at a stage where she enjoys tummy time-- before she would just cry. Now she plays on tummy time. She loves this little string toy I got her, and looking in the mirror and laughing!"
Asked if she's interested in anyone. Replies: "no no! my only interest right now is saving money and raising Ari. But thank u."
Asked, probably by a redditor: "why not embrace the dumpster fire that is your life? You'd get more respect for honesty." Answer: "LMAO. I am. Trying at least LOL."
Asked if she has a PCA in Florida. Answers: "not yet but I plan to!" Throughout this question session, she keeps saying that she plans to do this and that but doesn't actually seem to be doing any of it.
Asked about her current relationship with Noah. Says: "we're just trying to be cordial." Sounds dire.
Asked who's doing her hygiene now that they've broken up. Answers: "he still does it." Ouch.
Asked if she'd move back to Chicago with Ari. She says: "probably not. I love the warm weather-- it's better for my health and mobility."
Asked why Noah relapsed, sends Alex and Ari good wishes. Alex answers: "Honestly, I have been surrounded by attics my whole life, and there is never really a reason. Thank you."
"Surrounded by attics" is my new favorite. Also note the reference to being surrounded by addicts/attics: apparently, from what I'm seeing, one or both of her parents are/were alcoholics.
Asked: "what actually happened with Noah on his Insta?!?" She answers: "he was under the influence and was spewing stuff then made a racist comment towards someone when they messaged him." Accurate, for once.
Asked: "are you and Noah working on things or completely broken up? Hope your [sic] healing." Answer: "we have been trying to work out things for months and it's finally just enough."
Asked how she and Noah met, she says Bumble-- dating app, if you haven't heard of it. I'm never sure which of these things are regional vs worldwide.
Asked about her current relationship with Noah. Says: "we're just trying to be cordial." Sounds dire.
Asked who's doing her hygiene now that they've broken up. Answers: "he still does it." Ouch.
Asked if she'd move back to Chicago with Ari. She says: "probably not. I love the warm weather-- it's better for my health and mobility."
Asked why Noah relapsed, sends Alex and Ari good wishes. Alex answers: "Honestly, I have been surrounded by attics my whole life, and there is never really a reason. Thank you."
"Surrounded by attics" is my new favorite. Also note the reference to being surrounded by addicts/attics: apparently, from what I'm seeing, one or both of her parents are/were alcoholics.
Asked: "what actually happened with Noah on his Insta?!?" She answers: "he was under the influence and was spewing stuff then made a racist comment towards someone when they messaged him." Accurate, for once.
Asked: "are you and Noah working on things or completely broken up? Hope your [sic] healing." Answer: "we have been trying to work out things for months and it's finally just enough."
Asked how she and Noah met, she says Bumble-- dating app, if you haven't heard of it. I'm never sure which of these things are regional vs worldwide.
I'm taking a break from transcribing the Q&A from here on. I'll try to go back and edit the transcriptions in, but I want to post this before I manage to screw something up and lose it (or before the site decides to eat my images). I know images don't always load for everyone, so I'll try to finish transcribing a bit later. Arthritic hands also need a break.
EDIT: I'm back. Captions added going forward.
Q: "why are you pretending you and Noah are split when you aren't?" (that's a Reddit theory) A: "oh we very much are. Lol."
A: "you are not scared about The pool and Ari beying [being] close?" A: "she can't crawl yet and there's someone watching her at all times."
Q: "what gives you strength? I find you inspiring!" A: "my daughter gives me strength."
Q: "do you have accessible transport at the moment? Hope you're doing okay." A: "No. But there's this service called Tops that's accessible but you have to book a day ahead-- I'm actually going to try and use it tomorrow." (presumably for meeting up with the friend who also has SMA)
Here's the service she's talking about. Riders' guide here. Copy-paste from their website: "Our Transportation OPtionS (TOPS!) program includes our Paratransit and Bus Pass programs. TOPS! is clearly displayed on all vehicles and the one-way fare is $3.50, payable to the driver. Must have exact fare!" Also: "BCT’s paratransit service is a shared-ride for persons with physical, cognitive, emotional, visual, or other disabilities which functionally prevent them from using the BCT fixed-route bus system permanently, temporarily or under certain conditions. The estimated travel time of a TOPS! trip is similar to the same trip, including transfers and walking time, of a fixed-route bus. The one-way fare per trip is $3.50 and must be paid to the driver upon boarding the vehicle. Passengers must have the exact fare since drivers do not make change."
Quite a nice service, really.
Q: "why the move back to Florida? Are you ok?" A: "for more help with Ari & to save money!"
Her zodiac sign is Aquarius. Fascinating.
Long message of support from a fellow disabled woman. Alex responds to heartfelt message with four heart emojis.
A: "you are not scared about The pool and Ari beying [being] close?" A: "she can't crawl yet and there's someone watching her at all times."
Q: "what gives you strength? I find you inspiring!" A: "my daughter gives me strength."
Q: "do you have accessible transport at the moment? Hope you're doing okay." A: "No. But there's this service called Tops that's accessible but you have to book a day ahead-- I'm actually going to try and use it tomorrow." (presumably for meeting up with the friend who also has SMA)
Here's the service she's talking about. Riders' guide here. Copy-paste from their website: "Our Transportation OPtionS (TOPS!) program includes our Paratransit and Bus Pass programs. TOPS! is clearly displayed on all vehicles and the one-way fare is $3.50, payable to the driver. Must have exact fare!" Also: "BCT’s paratransit service is a shared-ride for persons with physical, cognitive, emotional, visual, or other disabilities which functionally prevent them from using the BCT fixed-route bus system permanently, temporarily or under certain conditions. The estimated travel time of a TOPS! trip is similar to the same trip, including transfers and walking time, of a fixed-route bus. The one-way fare per trip is $3.50 and must be paid to the driver upon boarding the vehicle. Passengers must have the exact fare since drivers do not make change."
Quite a nice service, really.
Q: "why the move back to Florida? Are you ok?" A: "for more help with Ari & to save money!"
Her zodiac sign is Aquarius. Fascinating.
Long message of support from a fellow disabled woman. Alex responds to heartfelt message with four heart emojis.
edit: pausing the transcription for a moment to save before I manage to lose all of this for a second time.
edit: back. transcriptions present going forward unless otherwise noted.
Q: "who is caring for you now?" A: "Noah. And yes, it's not idea."
Q: "why don't you move out of Noah's family home? That can't be healthy for anyone." A: "I don't have the resources to do that currently."
Even her fans are pointing out that this is a terrible and unsustainable situation.
Q: "how are Noah's parents towards you? How to they treat you?" A: "very well! They treat me like I'm family and we get along great. They're very accommodating and supportive."
In fairness to Alex, how else was she supposed to answer this question? She can't exactly diss the people who put a roof over her head.
Q: "why are you living in his family if you guys are not together anymore love?" A: "we ended things after the move and the plan was to save money. So, I don't have the resources currently to live on my own & I want to be with my daughter."
Random picture of Ari appears here. Cute pursed lips!
She's responding to a DM about the van and GoFundMe. She says: "when I needed the van repairs when I lived in Fort Lauderdale a few years ago, I used the money for those repairs. When we moved back to Chicago, i kept the van at my parents house because we didn't need it downtown. When I decided to move back to Florida, I wanted to take The Van [capital letters hers] down here, but my parents would not let me."
Q: "why don't you move out of Noah's family home? That can't be healthy for anyone." A: "I don't have the resources to do that currently."
Even her fans are pointing out that this is a terrible and unsustainable situation.
Q: "how are Noah's parents towards you? How to they treat you?" A: "very well! They treat me like I'm family and we get along great. They're very accommodating and supportive."
In fairness to Alex, how else was she supposed to answer this question? She can't exactly diss the people who put a roof over her head.
Q: "why are you living in his family if you guys are not together anymore love?" A: "we ended things after the move and the plan was to save money. So, I don't have the resources currently to live on my own & I want to be with my daughter."
Random picture of Ari appears here. Cute pursed lips!
She's responding to a DM about the van and GoFundMe. She says: "when I needed the van repairs when I lived in Fort Lauderdale a few years ago, I used the money for those repairs. When we moved back to Chicago, i kept the van at my parents house because we didn't need it downtown. When I decided to move back to Florida, I wanted to take The Van [capital letters hers] down here, but my parents would not let me."
Another picture of Ari, captioned "big girl starting to grab her feet!" it is so, so cute when they suddenly discover that they have feet and are endlessly fascinated by them-- it's one of my favorite baby things
Q: "what really happened the night of the DV call?" A: "there was no domestic violence . . . Just like I said before. I had a black eye, so an assumption was made that he hit me. I was worried about his well being so that's why the call was made."
That's a lot of passive voice, and she doesn't actually say she made the call. She also didn't mention the call that preceded this one, when Noah called 911 to report her missing. I was under the impression that the call came from the apartment complex employee, but who knows? And I could believe they were being so loud and messy that multiple 911 calls came in. Also, if the cops got a domestic disturbance call and found a woman with a black eye on the scene, they weren't wrong to assume he'd hit her. If nothing else, they probably wanted to separate them so she could have the chance to talk freely-- and that was an appropriate course of action.
Q: "was Noah sending D pics the last straw?" A: "No, unfortunately not. There was many last straws that I definitely shouldn't have put up with."
If it's not already obvious, Alex has terrible spelling and grammar. If she intends to apply for jobs, she'd better get someone to help her with her résumé. I'm not trying to be judgmental, but she doesn't sound polished enough to get the jobs she likely wants.
Q: "why not move back with your parents ?" A: "my parents house is not suitable for a child."
That's actually really depressing. If it's not suitable for a baby, it's also not suitable for her wheelchair-bound mother. Hairstylist Mikey said it's a perpetual construction zone with holes in the floor and missing bathroom fixtures. She's never disputed that comment of his, so it's likely true. Even though she's not saying anything explicit about her parents in these answers, it's pretty clear that they're a disaster.
Q: "do you worry about Noah being your caretaker if you're just trying to be cordial & he relapsed?" A: "Yes, it is very hard but we have a lot of people around if I need anything."
Q: "are his parents supportive of you and do you plan to stay. Must be difficult. Xxx." A: "yes, they are very supportive of me. They built a ramp on both sides of the house for me and set up my room to be accessible."
EDIT: pausing to save, because I'm making a real hash of typing tonight.
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Q: "have you found a pediatrician for Ari in FL? It's hard trying to get with new doctors down here!" A: "That's something I have been working on this week! There are a few that we are going to call and see about this week."
She wrote this on Thursday her time, and notice that she says she's "going to call them." A lot of doctors won't even be in the office on Friday. She needs to get off her nude, unemployed ass and get on the phone. I know it's hard for her, but, guess what, you decided to have a child. And I assume Ari is on Medicaid, which will make finding a physician harder.
Q: "why don't you go back to Chicago with your family?" A: "It wouldn't be the best environment for me."
"For me." Daughter? What daughter?
Q: "apart from a full time mom and an influencer, do you work?" A: "being a content creator is my full-time job, but it has been heard with everything that has been going on with my life and all the hate that I get making me not as applicable for brands to wanna work with me."
Editor's note: "full time mom," lolololololol.
Also, while I agree that the Reddit crew loves to interfere, it's also true that they're just reporting the things she's actually done. She's not innocent in this, and it is also her fault. Noah's recent rants won't help, either.
Q: "what really happened the night of the DV call?" A: "there was no domestic violence . . . Just like I said before. I had a black eye, so an assumption was made that he hit me. I was worried about his well being so that's why the call was made."
That's a lot of passive voice, and she doesn't actually say she made the call. She also didn't mention the call that preceded this one, when Noah called 911 to report her missing. I was under the impression that the call came from the apartment complex employee, but who knows? And I could believe they were being so loud and messy that multiple 911 calls came in. Also, if the cops got a domestic disturbance call and found a woman with a black eye on the scene, they weren't wrong to assume he'd hit her. If nothing else, they probably wanted to separate them so she could have the chance to talk freely-- and that was an appropriate course of action.
Q: "was Noah sending D pics the last straw?" A: "No, unfortunately not. There was many last straws that I definitely shouldn't have put up with."
If it's not already obvious, Alex has terrible spelling and grammar. If she intends to apply for jobs, she'd better get someone to help her with her résumé. I'm not trying to be judgmental, but she doesn't sound polished enough to get the jobs she likely wants.
Q: "why not move back with your parents ?" A: "my parents house is not suitable for a child."
That's actually really depressing. If it's not suitable for a baby, it's also not suitable for her wheelchair-bound mother. Hairstylist Mikey said it's a perpetual construction zone with holes in the floor and missing bathroom fixtures. She's never disputed that comment of his, so it's likely true. Even though she's not saying anything explicit about her parents in these answers, it's pretty clear that they're a disaster.
Q: "do you worry about Noah being your caretaker if you're just trying to be cordial & he relapsed?" A: "Yes, it is very hard but we have a lot of people around if I need anything."
Q: "are his parents supportive of you and do you plan to stay. Must be difficult. Xxx." A: "yes, they are very supportive of me. They built a ramp on both sides of the house for me and set up my room to be accessible."
EDIT: pausing to save, because I'm making a real hash of typing tonight.
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Q: "have you found a pediatrician for Ari in FL? It's hard trying to get with new doctors down here!" A: "That's something I have been working on this week! There are a few that we are going to call and see about this week."
She wrote this on Thursday her time, and notice that she says she's "going to call them." A lot of doctors won't even be in the office on Friday. She needs to get off her nude, unemployed ass and get on the phone. I know it's hard for her, but, guess what, you decided to have a child. And I assume Ari is on Medicaid, which will make finding a physician harder.
Q: "why don't you go back to Chicago with your family?" A: "It wouldn't be the best environment for me."
"For me." Daughter? What daughter?
Q: "apart from a full time mom and an influencer, do you work?" A: "being a content creator is my full-time job, but it has been heard with everything that has been going on with my life and all the hate that I get making me not as applicable for brands to wanna work with me."
Editor's note: "full time mom," lolololololol.
Also, while I agree that the Reddit crew loves to interfere, it's also true that they're just reporting the things she's actually done. She's not innocent in this, and it is also her fault. Noah's recent rants won't help, either.
Q: "how do you feel about Noah caring for you post breakup? Big hugs that's rough." A: "it's not ideal."
Q: "is Noah doing rehab or steps or anything. How can we support YOU?" I assume steps = attending 12 step meetings. A: "He is working on his mental health, but I do not want to speak for him."
If he's caring for her, he's not in rehab.
Q: "you went to college, right? What's your degree in?" A: "Yes. In rehabilitation counseling & minor in criminology."
Q: "is Noah doing rehab or steps or anything. How can we support YOU?" I assume steps = attending 12 step meetings. A: "He is working on his mental health, but I do not want to speak for him."
If he's caring for her, he's not in rehab.
Q: "you went to college, right? What's your degree in?" A: "Yes. In rehabilitation counseling & minor in criminology."
That appears to be the end of the Q&A, but I'll add images in if she posts anything else. There's nothing else as of the time of this post, and, since it's been around 24 hours since she originally posted the question box, I assume she's done now. I had 59 total images for this post, so I guess it was around 50 questions. If anyone is unfamiliar with those Instagram question boxes: she can see who asked her the question, so it's not anonymous, in that sense. There are apps that allow for anonymous questions, but those would obviously be a poor choice for her.
tl;dr, Alex takes no responsibility, says very little about Ari, does not seem to be happy in the Smith house, her own family and family home must be a disaster, Noah is not in rehab.
final edit: all captions now added-- thanks for your patience!
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So Alex has finally been reined in and seems quite subdued. No more tits askew on constant display? No more white girl wasted wheelchair wipe outs? Is Noah's Mom going to help Alex with her not at all fetishistic poses for OF? How long until Ari starts calling Grandma and Grandpa Mom and Dad? Alex's sponsorships have all dried up and now, our "full-time content creator" is scraping the bottom of the barrel. Good job, Noah!
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That has got to be tough for Noah, imagine having to be the caretaker for your new ex. I mean I know he's getting paid, but still. But also Alex is putting herself in such a vulnerable position, he could leave her on the bathroom floor all day and she couldn't do anything about it. terrifying.