Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[LonesomeDud]

It’s possible the baby could be discharged before the due date. They really just want to make sure baby is able to breathe on their own, maintain body temperature, nurse without issue and gain weight.

Yeah, but it's justifiable to hold them that long. You can't discharge them if they don't have a safe place to go, and it seems like any baby that isn't full term (increased SIDS risk) shouldn't go home a minute earlier with Alex and Noah.

 

[A tree]

Wait, age difference? How old are Alex and Noah?

21 and 29 I think. She likes much younger guys to the point she's been accused of pedophilia. There are accusations I found on reddit in the OP. She was also accused of hanging around college dorms sharking for younger guys.

 

[LonesomeDud]

21 and 29 I think. She likes much younger guys to the point she's been accused of pedophilia. There are accusations I found on reddit in the OP. She was also accused of hanging around college dorms sharking for younger guys.

That's pretty unfair to accuse her of being a pedophile. She pretty clearly just wants to be wanted by attractive young men, to feel chosen by the ideal guy rather than gingerly accepted by a runner-up.

She's also been denied the opportunity of normal sexuality by the nature of her disability. I can't imagine she was going on dates and kissing boys when she had to be set on the toilet by an aide in high school. She probably has the emotional maturity of someone a decade younger.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

21 and 29 I think. She likes much younger guys to the point she's been accused of pedophilia. There are accusations I found on reddit in the OP. She was also accused of hanging around college dorms sharking for younger guys.

That’s what you get for listening to redditors.

 

[Vibromatic Heart Bed]

Couldn't help but notice how her 4th toe is raised above the others. Brachymetatarsia is an indication of genetic fuckery. You see it with syndromes like Down's, Turner, and congenital brain injury. It should be considered one of several signals not to reproduce, but here we are...

 

[NimertiS]

21 and 29 I think. She likes much younger guys to the point she's been accused of pedophilia. There are accusations I found on reddit in the OP. She was also accused of hanging around college dorms sharking for younger guys.

They only have 4 years difference. Check thread better

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

Brachymetatarsia is an indication of genetic fuckery

mate, she's got bigger genetic fish to fry

 

[Jane Eyre]

More updates on the swollen feet and Alex is very uncomfortable.


She added a canopy above the crib and is already addressing the safety issues with it. Also she has now 1 million followers on Tiktok.

 

[A tree]

They only have 4 years difference. Check thread better

I wrote the bloody thing. Thought he
was younger for some reason my bad not double checking.
@LonesomeDud the pedo Allegations were quite a separate thing. There's a rumour she had inappropriate contact with teenage boys on a summer camp for kids with SMA where she was a camp counsellor but I can't find the source of the rumours. It was supposed to have been said in now deleted lives etc by former friends during a previous round of Alex being exposed for her dubious behaviour.
The person who said it doesn't seem to be on the scene any more/doesn't want to pop up and say it again.
As you say, @TheCakeIsALie redditors gonna reddit but at the time of putting the OP together the source material predated the reddit. The "bring down Alex Dacy" movement already had that big text file full of receipts, there were tiktoks, twitter threads, long deleted lives and some of it was corroborated. It went in the OP with a heavy disclaimer and the proviso I'd keep trying to track down the origin of the story as It kept coming up and people referred to having seen the original source video. So far no dice.

I didn't feel like I could leave such a major accusation out even if not proven the fact that the chatter around her had reached that level was significant in itself.

IF it happened I agree it probably was a factor of emotional immaturity and I suspect Alex was barely out of her own teens and saw the boys as her peers.

 

[Salazzle]

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Is that a nice, baby-suffocating-levels-of-huge teddy bear in there, or just a hood and my eyes are fucked? I know it's removable, but it doesn't do much for my impression that she has a woeful lack of insight into what is needed to safely baby-proof an area. You may think it'll be a while before it can reach the curtain but it'll happen sooner than you think. And pulling it down's not the only risk - is she gonna be the one to check that none of that curtain is trailing into the actual bassinet? 'Cos as soon as the kid can move that'll be a choking and strangulation risk. I know these are risks that could apply to anyone with a canopy like that, but given she is far less able-bodied and quick, and her carer might be busy with her and not the baby, it does compound the problem. (I would mention Noah, but LOL who am I kidding??!)

Ah, well, I suppose at least the canopy means the baby will be out of sight, out of mind when it's not being trotted out for internet views...at least, that's what she probably thinks. Doubt she realises how loud and non-compliant babies are...

And, yes, late, but that is an AWFUL lot of non-wipeable, crevice-y, moisture-absorbing fabric to be putting close to a poop-and-puke-spewing baby.

 

[A tree]

Is that a nice, baby-suffocating-levels-of-huge teddy bear in there, or just a hood and my eyes are fucked? I know it's removable, but it doesn't do much for my impression that she has a woeful lack of insight into what is needed to safely baby-proof an area. You may think it'll be a while before it can reach the curtain but it'll happen sooner than you think. And pulling it down's not the only risk - is she gonna be the one to check that none of that curtain is trailing into the actual bassinet? 'Cos as soon as the kid can move that'll be a choking and strangulation risk. I know these are risks that could apply to anyone with a canopy like that, but given she is far less able-bodied and quick, and her carer might be busy with her and not the baby, it does compound the problem. (I would mention Noah, but LOL who am I kidding??!)

Ah, well, I suppose at least the canopy means the baby will be out of sight, out of mind when it's not being trotted out for internet views...at least, that's what she probably thinks. Doubt she realises how loud and non-compliant babies are...

And, yes, late, but that is an AWFUL lot of non-wipeable, crevice-y, moisture-absorbing fabric to be putting close to a poop-and-puke-spewing baby.

That canopy is a death-trap. She hasn't got a clue what she's doing beyond the sad beige kids of Instagram aesthetic and it's kinda sad. She apparently doesn't have any experienced mom friends or relatives shopping with her to say oh no honey that looks pretty but you'll be shoving it in the dumpster within a week it's completely impractical bordering on dangerous.

 

[Jane Eyre]

I found the original Tiktok video that is the source of some the screenshots in the OP and in this reddit post.

At the bottom of the reddit post mentioned above there is also this comment about the camp that wasn't included in the OP.


Anyway it needs to be mentioned that Amanda (Tiktok account here) who made the video above seems to be problematic herself and commenters are calling her out for drug seeking at hospitals.

 

[A tree]

I found the original Tiktok video that is the source of some the screenshots in the OP and in this reddit post.
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At the bottom of the reddit post mentioned above there is also this comment about the camp that wasn't included in the OP.
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Anyway it needs to be mentioned that Amanda (Tiktok account here) who made the video above seems to be problematic herself and commenters are calling her out for drug seeking at hospitals.
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Wait what THAT Amanda Nicole! COW CROSSOVER she's crazy and we're watching her in another discord I think another kiwi is doing a writeup. Interesting find though.

I saw people referring to a more direct source, someone who was at the camp went on live and talked about what happened but I think it's lost to the ages

 

[LonesomeDud]

Couldn't help but notice how her 4th toe is raised above the others. Brachymetatarsia is an indication of genetic fuckery. You see it with syndromes like Down's, Turner, and congenital brain injury. It should be considered one of several signals not to reproduce, but here we are...

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I'm not sure it's brachymetatarsia. The toes all appear to be the correct length relative to the other toes. My guess is, as a full-time wheelchair user, she doesn't take care of her feet so some of the toes have deviated with muscle loss and no maintenances or concern over foot drop or alignment. She needs a real podiatrist to look at her feet and take their suggestions to heart. Those feet look like they hurt all the time.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

Couldn't help but notice how her 4th toe is raised above the others. Brachymetatarsia is an indication of genetic fuckery. You see it with syndromes like Down's, Turner, and congenital brain injury. It should be considered one of several signals not to reproduce, but here we are...

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She has SMA. This is inconsequential at this point. You can have messed up feet with no syndrome either. It may point to a syndrome but in the absence of other signs, it’s just something you have. And without a radiograph, we don’t even know if it is brachymetatarsia.

 

[LonesomeDud]

She has SMA. This is inconsequential at this point. You can have messed up feet with no syndrome either. It may point to a syndrome but in the absence of other signs, it’s just something you have. And without a radiograph, we don’t even know if it is brachymetatarsia.

I 100% agree. Imaging to rule it out isn't a bad idea, though. Her feet can surely be in better condition than that.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

That canopy is a death-trap. She hasn't got a clue what she's doing beyond the sad beige kids of Instagram aesthetic and it's kinda sad. She apparently doesn't have any experienced mom friends or relatives shopping with her to say oh no honey that looks pretty but you'll be shoving it in the dumpster within a week it's completely impractical bordering on dangerous.

I couldn't agree more. Her staged photos are triggering a rage responce in me over how utterly impractical it all is. Its a staged photo shoot set, nothing more. I will laugh when the shit starts flying.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I couldn't agree more. Her staged photos are triggering a rage responce in me over how utterly impractical it all is. Its a staged photo shoot set, nothing more. I will laugh when the shit starts flying.

The only thing that makes me doubt you is the fact she isn't doing any of the care. I bet she starts being unable to keep a carer for her and the baby if she insists on it. A baby a few months old can decimate that nailed in canopy and smother herself. A normal mom who isn't told all that crap is a whole lot of garbage will figure out it's garbage and cram it the trash by the time the baby is five months old. If you don't believe me, ask about half the population of BP.

Alex is a passive viewer in the raising of her child. Aesthetics are probably going to be everything to her.

 

[Barbarella]

Where is she going to get a caregiver willing to do her care AND that of a baby? She says she has somebody but my guess is it’s a young person who has no kids of her own and still believes (like Alex) they are compliant dolls. Changing adult and child diapers, doing all the care of two people is not sustainable. Even a young healthy married couple with a new baby have it rough for the first year. I suppose the government pays for Alex but who is going to pay for a (perhaps) normal healthy child?

Both baby A and Alex are going to be in a world of trouble. She needs her own caregiver as well as a day and night nanny. Parents and Noah (if he isn’t disappearing entirely) can take up the few hours not covered. That’s the only way this can work, but she’s not a Windsor so it’s likely more than she can afford.

A crawling baby puts everything it finds in its mouth. A woman with one arm can get over there and remove the item from baby. Alex can only call for help. I fear for Baby A.

She’s so busy showing us the impractical nursery but hasn’t mentioned anything set in reality. She ought to ask her viewers to share some scary stories about their kids and come up with a plan for handling it or preventing it. Like when everybody told her that thing over the bassinet is unsafe, she should just take it down rather than risk she’ll be able to catch anything that might go wrong. That is what a woman accepting of her disability would do. But she doesn’t want a disabled accessible nursery. She wants one like anybody else. Which is very telling about how she feels about being disabled.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

Where is she going to get a caregiver willing to do her care AND that of a baby? She says she has somebody but my guess is it’s a young person who has no kids of her own and still believes (like Alex) they are compliant dolls. Changing adult and child diapers, doing all the care of two people is not sustainable. Even a young healthy married couple with a new baby have it rough for the first year. I suppose the government pays for Alex but who is going to pay for a (perhaps) normal healthy child?

Both baby A and Alex are going to be in a world of trouble. She needs her own caregiver as well as a day and night nanny. Parents and Noah (if he isn’t disappearing entirely) can take up the few hours not covered. That’s the only way this can work, but she’s not a Windsor so it’s likely more than she can afford.

A crawling baby puts everything it finds in its mouth. A woman with one arm can get over there and remove the item from baby. Alex can only call for help. I fear for Baby A.

She’s so busy showing us the impractical nursery but hasn’t mentioned anything set in reality. She ought to ask her viewers to share some scary stories about their kids and come up with a plan for handling it or preventing it. Like when everybody told her that thing over the bassinet is unsafe, she should just take it down rather than risk she’ll be able to catch anything that might go wrong. That is what a woman accepting of her disability would do. But she doesn’t want a disabled accessible nursery. She wants one like anybody else. Which is very telling about how she feels about being disabled.

PL but relevant: after my son learned to crawl, he found a penny on the floor. A penny I couldn’t see because it blended with the carpet. He swallowed it and started choking. I didnt even know what he had swallowed until after it came out. He started vomiting, a lot, couldn’t cry though.. I immediately did the baby heimlich (aka putting baby with their back facing you and on the forearm), and out popped the penny after a few backblows.

I was able to remain calm and collected because I knew what to do, and I acted quickly. She would be unable to do so in an emergency and thus really would be screwed if something happened.