Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[LonesomeDud]

Ari was also a jaundiced baby, and they tend to be a little sluggish, on top of being a preemie. She was 35 weeks, I think. Honestly, I think she probably was depressed because she has a depressed mother and a depressed father, on top of everything else.

I look for Alex to lose interest in coming days as Ari gets sassy about letting everyone know what and who she actually likes. It's one thing for a newborn to cry for someone, and another for a little baby to unceremoniously shove your kissing face away from theirs when you're too weak to fight them. (Admittedly, that is a social media post worth a thousand updoots.)

 

[often puzzled]

Alex is posting a lot on this fine Friday. She's probably finding out that the Smiths don't approve of jettisoning your infant in favor of drunken carousing.

Spoiler: grid post

Looks like they're in a garage, backs to the driveway. Cairo visible in the background.



Caption: "can't believe how fast my baby girl is growing! Her new favorite thing is to sit on Mommy's lap and ride around."

Some comments included, but they're currently sanitized.

Spoiler: Instagram stories

Probably from the same photo session as the grid post photo, except Ari is now in a stroller. Back still to the driveway and street.



Actual children's toys visible in the background. The Smiths already have a couple of grandchildren and appear to keep their house well-stocked with baby and child things. That's probably one more mark in their favor in the eventual custody filing.

I have no idea what the "smoked salmon roll ups" are supposed to be. Since they're served on a paper plate, I'm guessing Noah "cooked" these.



Selfie time.



Promoting old grid posts that got lots of interaction.

Spoiler: Ari content from stories

Looks like Alex and someone else (likely Noah) took Ari for a walk in her stroller. They then paused to get a picture of Ari in Alex's chair which, per the grid post, is Ari's "new favorite thing." Could've fooled me. Caption reads "walks with mom" (and whoever took this photo and is pushing the stroller).



Very happy Ari! Those must be grandma's hands-- you can see the wedding ring on her left hand. Ari is obviously delighted.

Spoiler: yet more stories & performative mothering

Video still. Alex is spinning her chair (slowly) with Ari on her lap. Regrettably, Ari does not spit up on her. Next time, kid. We know you've got it in you. There were 30 seconds of this. I've got a video of the first part and will attach it at the end of this post if the site cooperates.



And yet another selfie, clearly taken immediately after someone removed Ari from her lap. Looks like people plunk Ari on her chair (it's not even really her lap) for as long as it takes to snap a few pictures.

Spoiler: video clip

video coming soon, if it will attach-- fingers crossed

NOAH WATCH: not visible today, but his presence is suggested by the haphazard Ari posing and the salmon concoction. Grandma's hands visible playing with Ari, but the grandparents must really not want to be part of the social media circus (good for them).

 

[often puzzled]

Grid post and some stories. She continues the trend of taking a bunch of photos all at once and then spreading them out. If she's trying to show that she spends lots of time holding Ari, it's not working. Also, little miss is about 10 seconds away from being able to launch herself out of mom's weak grip.

Spoiler: grid post

The photo:



Caption copy-paste: "

By far the hardest part mentally of being a disabled mom for me is not being able to lift Ari by myself.

It is something that has been a source of frustration ever since I brought her home from the NICU. Something that I have had to navigate and figure out for myself.

I really had no idea what disabled motherhood would look like for me — I’ve had surprises, triumphs, and disappointments.

Ari is finally at an age where she has good neck control and I can comfortably hold her in my lap and drive around with her and it’s the best feeling ever

She’s getting so big and interacting with her is becoming easier and more accessible! Her first Halloween is right around the corner…

Drop some ideas of what I can dress her up as! "​

A smattering of comments:

Spoiler: Instagram stories

She planted (or "she" planted) some mini herb pot kit from Amazon. The writing on the pots was Noah's, if I'm not mistaken, so I guess he did it while she honked at him. Not worth screenshotting.

I will bet real fake internet money that grandma bought that outfit. A colorful "happy fall y'all shirt" with ruffled sleeves and tulle is 100% a southern-dwelling grandma purchase, and it's the complete opposite of Alex's bland beige baby aesthetic. A lot of what Ari has worn lately doesn't appear to have been purchased by Alex, and I suspect that the outfits for the first 6 months were baby gifts-- and now the gifts are gone, and it would be a stretch to keep buying lots of clothes. I hope the Smiths are keeping track of everything they buy for Ari because the unemployed parents can't afford it.



Look at that mischievous face!



Ari is getting too big for this, and her hand is very near the chair's control pad.

Spoiler: video

This is the video I referenced in the previous post. I gave up on uploading it yesterday, but the site is more cooperative right now.

NOAH WATCH: nowhere to be seen, but he's likely taking these photos and plopping Ari on Alex.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

"I really had no idea what disabled motherhood would look like for me"

really? because everyone in this thread knew you wouldn't be able to hold your kid or do literally anything for her.

 

[KayCeeM]

Personally I liked the dig at Ari not being 'accesible'. Cant beleive she birthed such an ableist child! Enjoy it while you can kid, youll be wiping mommys ass in no time.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex isn't sharing a lot of information, but Ari is as cute and chubby as ever. This is several days of content; she's posting a lot, but most of it is inconsequential. I didn't screenshot all of it, contrary to apperances.

Spoiler: grid post #1

This had a bunch of images of Ari, but they were all pictures we've seen before.



Caption and some comments:

Spoiler: story stuff: weird chair setup

Featuring TV as babysitter. Beginning to suspect that Alex, Ari, and Noah are on their own during the day. The baby chair is apparently somehow secured to the glass-topped table? Ari was bouncing herself-- what could possibly go wrong?





Text: "Finally feeling better. I've been feeling super fatigued these past few weeks and it looks like I had a pretty bad UTI. I took antibiotics but they weren't working, so I'm on new ones & feel loads better!"



Text: "& her bouncy chair is secured to the table!" Text superimposed over a duck-lips selfie.



Cairo, but just took a shot of this because you can sort of see the table and chair setup in the background.



More of the table setup (lower left). The text on the screen is whatever song she'd placed over this clip.

Spoiler: story stuff: some Ari

She's really holding herself up and is very responsive these days!



Also extremely interested in her toys. this is from a video, and she was completely absorbed in that box thing.



Text: "big brunch today." She's looking off to the side, probably at whoever is actually feeding her. Note the purple bowl-- it comes up later.

Spoiler: story stuff: selfies, possibly on the prowl?

Many, many selfies, and someone changed her clothes for her multiple times in a single day. Can you imagine coming home from work to find your son's baby mama taking selfies in a trashy black top? Oof.

Anyway, maybe I'm just thinking about this because of Amber, but I'm wondering if all these come-hither selfies and risqué tops are because she's trying to find a new boyfriend/"carer."

Spoiler: grid post #2

Still from video of her driving along with Ari.



Caption: "Ari finally has enough upper body & neck control to be able to sit on Mama and go for walks — she’s so curious and LOVES her walks with mommy "

Comments are very critical of this setup; even the people who are trying to be nice are telling her it's not safe.

Spoiler: story stuff: plants

She has posted a million stories about this herb kit. Good for her if she's interested, I guess, but it's not thrilling. I haven't been taking screenshots of it, but here are a few images from today that tell us other things.

The kit. She has a lot of difficulty reaching her hand into the bowl of dirt and transferring it to the pots. You can see there's dirt all over the table. I swear I don't mean this in a nasty way, but you know how you operate a claw machine and awkwardly try (and probably fail) to grab a prize from the machine? That's exactly what this looked like. And I'm really not trying to be mean-- she just has very limited ability to grab something.



See the blow bowl? That's one of Ari's suction bowls. So much for Alex being the type of first-time mom who worries about every germ that might come in contact with her child.

Also: you see the little cardboard/balsa wood sign you stick in the pot? She tried-- multiple times-- to stick it in the wood but was unable to. It's just remarkable that she ever thought she could do a single thing for Ari.

NOAH WATCH: nowhere to be seen, but someone is dressing her in hoochie mama clothes, taking the photos, and helping her with the herb kit. The Smith parents are staying off camera, but I hope they're taking notes about the thirst trap pictures and Alex's inability to handle a herb kit.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

I know shes an attention whore, so a psrt of me is really hoping that this photos of Alex taking Ari on "walks", with Ari just sitting loosly on her lap, without any sort of baby carrier or support, are just photo ops taken for social media, and whoever is actually taking the photos has Ari's stroller which she is promptly placed back into after the photo is taken.

I know Alex is an idiot but I am seriously getting second hand anxiety from imaging Ari suddenly jerking to one side and failing off Alex's lap straight onto the hard concrete and splitting her head wide open like a melon.

 

[TismFarmer]

I know shes an attention whore, so a psrt of me is really hoping that this photos of Alex taking Ari on "walks", with Ari just sitting loosly on her lap, without any sort of baby carrier or support, are just photo ops taken for social media, and whoever is actually taking the photos has Ari's stroller which she is promptly placed back into after the photo is taken.

I know Alex is an idiot but I am seriously getting second hand anxiety from imaging Ari suddenly jerking to one side and failing off Alex's lap straight onto the hard concrete and splitting her head wide open like a melon.

When I look at that picture all I can think of is how babies will suddenly lurch forward from the waist up and Alex couldn't stop her from smashing her little face into the foot plate thing at the front. ZERO ability to control that baby.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

I watched the herb garden videos and just felt a lot of frustration, as in it looked like a frustrating endeavour for her to do something so simple. She so incredibly limited in what she can do, and this is her on when she's on her "twerk juice".
Also why didn't she put some gloves on to avoid getting soil stuck under her fingernails (that someone else has to clean for her).

 

[unwieldy_object]

I watched the herb garden videos and just felt a lot of frustration, as in it looked like a frustrating endeavour for her to do something so simple. She so incredibly limited in what she can do, and this is her on when she's on her "twerk juice".
Also why didn't she put some gloves on to avoid getting soil stuck under her fingernails (that someone else has to clean for her).

You answered your own question. She has limited mobility, think of how hard it would be to grasp anything if she had gloves on that restrict said mobility.

 

[AssignedEva]

The older that baby gets, the more I think Alex should be sterilized to keep her from ever procreating again.

Give me but I think the toll that pregnancy took on Alex's body means she won't try to do it again. Like sure, she's irresponsible and dgaf about birth control - but she's proved her point that she can have a healthy baby now, and I do think she's still recovering (despite the brave face she puts on).

I really hope grandma and grandpa keep Ari. She's such a sweet baby and it's so nice to see her being bonny and bouncy.

 

[often puzzled]

In today's episode of Bad Decisions with Alex, we see her promoting her OnlyFans while living in her baby daddy's parents' house. She's in full cash me outside girl mode, after trying (and failing) to be a wholesome disability influencer with a window herb garden.

Spoiler: the grid post

This was also posted on Facebook and TikTok.

Still from video, full video below under its own spoiler. Text reads "my disabled body is sexy."



Caption reads "disabled bodies are hot," with a string of emojis. Comments are by and large negative.

The commenter who says that someone offscreen told her she was about to run over the dog is spot-on. If you want the whole video, you see her glance over at that moment, when she's about to back over Cairo (who was probably sleeping in the warm sun, as dogs will do).



A commenter asks if she's drunk. Honestly, she may actually be. I'm not sure.







Here's the clip as it appeared on Facebook, where you can see text reading "only wheels link in ig bio" across the bottom of the screen.

Spoiler: podcast appearance

Posted in her stories: she appeared on the SMA UK podcast (episode 23, called "Keep Your Goals Away from the Trolls").



Link to the podcast on YouTube:

I'm not going to listen to it, but the transcript is available on YouTube. A redditor listened to it and offered this summary:



Text of summary: "I saw the video on YouTube/ read the transcription. Nothing interesting, nothing really new, except that she is so busy at the moment besides social media and wants to start a consulting agency that is going to focus on disabled creators . The video also appears to have been recorded a month or two ago, as - if I understood correctly - she talks about being four months postpartum and she also still refers to Noah as her boyfriend. The moderator sounds very nice and she also comes across as actually quite sympathetic and relaxed. The only other thing I noticed is that her eyes are kind of swollen shut. That’s all I take away as the essence of this 39 minute video "

Other eagle-eyed redditors noted that it was apparently filmed several months ago:



It was filmed at her parents' house, and Ari was 4 months old. Alex was indeed at her parents' around July 4, and she met up with some other disabled people at that time.

Spoiler: stories

Yet more selfies. Catfishing?





This makeup is not a good look. Children's cartoon in the background.



Out by the pool again, possible children's toy in lower right corner.

Spoiler: OnlyFans promo video (appeared on FB, TT, and IG)

You can mute it-- the only sound is some song blasting, and a robo-voice reads out "my disabled body is sexy" at the beginning.

NOAH WATCH: not seen. Is he helping his ex film OF promo videos? Worse, is she filming OF content at his parents' house? I hope she only does it when the parents aren't there-- hopefully, they're not there because they're meeting with an attorney.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

Oh wow. Shes definitely either drunk or high in that video promoting her OF. She looks completely out of it.

 

[often puzzled]

Update, wherein Alex continues to vacillate between wholesome disability influencer and cash me outside-ing. Truly the most appropriate thread title.

Usual drill: videos under separate spoilers at the end, to make your page-loading experience easier (I hope). Videos are worth watching this time.

Spoiler: grid post

Caption: "her sunhat," followed by a string of emojis.

Spoiler: story stuff, featuring Ari

Text: "been up all night. Ari got her first cold." Note that Alex is in bed, not up.



From the next day. Text reads "thank you everyone checking in on Ari, she's doing better! Some sniffles but we're getting through it!"



Ari now gets to eat in a highchair.



Text: "nap time after bobba except she is too cute so I can't leave her alone."



Text: "mood."

Spoiler: story stuff: swimsuit edition

Stills from videos, actual videos at end of post.





The swimsuit, per Amazon:



Pictures on models:

Spoiler: video: Ari and another child

Spoiler: videos: swimsuit talk

Spoiler: video: Alex claps back

NOAH WATCH: out of sight, out of mind?

 

[The Judean People's Front]

She tried-- multiple times-- to stick it in the wood but was unable to.

Phrasing? Oh, if only.

This makeup is not a good look. Children's cartoon in the background.

She looks like a 50 year old Abuela

NOAH WATCH: not seen. Is he helping his ex film OF promo videos?

I think that Noah's still hittin' that. BPDs and Narcs don't have nice, clean breakups in the best of circumstances - and they're living together, he's bathing her, caring for her. They're still fucking, I guarantee it. He's got no impulse control and she needs validation. It's a bad combo. And Alex doesn't give a fuck if he's racist - isn't she supposedly racist too?

He's staying out of th spotlight for a while before he makes a huge tearful apology and Alex swears he's totally different now that he's gotten treatment. But, of course, he hasn't gotten treatment and he'll be back to his dick pic sending, racial slur slurring shenanigans soon enough.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

I'll try to add the video (failing at 100%) but she posted a video of her in a silver bikini 'dancing' to a song and trying to be sexy, and as she backs up in her chair the little dog appears from behind her and then you see she's about to run over the bigger dog. At no point does she realise.

 

[Chongqing]

he's racist

Rate me late, but did I miss something?

 

[often puzzled]

I'll try to add the video (failing at 100%) but she posted a video of her in a silver bikini 'dancing' to a song and trying to be sexy, and as she backs up in her chair the little dog appears from behind her and then you see she's about to run over the bigger dog. At no point does she realise.

I gotchu! It's in this post, under the OnlyFans spoiler. Poor pup-- you know he's seen things.

Rate me late, but did I miss something?

His most recent incident was a batch of drunk/high messages he sent to "haters" on Instagram, some of which were racist, but he's had others. He also likes to insult people by telling them they're low-income and that their clothes come from Ross (very specific, but whatever). And yes, this is the jobless guy who wears the same pair of gray shorts 24/7.

 

[CashMoney!]

True horror cow territory. I saw the black eye, the misshapen head, and my heart dropped. Ari is so lucky to have her grandparents. From page one to now in one night was a rough ride. They left that apartment because they weren't coping OR it was part of the deal: lease expires, you move in with us. Either way, grandparents and their attorney have a lot of evidence to prove these two exceptional individuals suck. Interesting her parents are nowhere to be seen in this clusterfuck either of their own volition due to exhaustion from looking after her or Alex flipping them off for their criticism or even both. This is truly the stuff of nightmares for any family, and parents of grown children who just can't cope.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

Rate me late, but did I miss something?

Noah's a Florida Man with BPD. Idk if he's "actually" racist but he's definitely got the BPD pattern of vicious verbal (or texted) attacks directed at a person's biggest insecurity/weak point. When BPDs get mad they don't think "how can I make myself feel better?" They think "how can I emotionally gut the person I've perceived has wronged me." So for some folks it's calling them poor and others it's calling them various racial slurs. Im gonna guess when he and Alex fight she gets called a useless cripple, a bad Mom and a shitty lay. The fact that those things happen to be true is neither here or there.