Not sure if it was covered in the thread here or not, but I think last year arin talked about some kind of weird self help retreat he went on. A person was asking him for advice on dealing with life and he mentioned the program, I looked at it and it was really expensive.
found it
https://youtube.com/watch?v=p_5ZpAQOmbU
here is the website for the hoffman process.
Learn about Calendar & Registration dates for upcoming Hoffman Process Retreats held in California & Connecticut.
www.hoffmaninstitute.org
it cots 5K for a week retreat. Arin said he struggled with "self love" until he did this thing. Seems like what kinda broke his brain and made him start expecting everyone to be a yes-man for whatever he decided to do.