And also, and this is something that should be said, relationships won't make you or incels any happier. Suppose you do find someone, spergs and incels will likely be used by a woman who will mentally fuck 'em up.
Weird people will attract weird people. Just have a look at disaster couples like Luna and Matt, Ian and Anisa, Ralph and May and others who have threads on this very forum.
Ever heard of Law of Attraction? If there's any chance a sperg or an incel finds a woman willing to date them, best-case scenario she'll be a gaslighting narcissist and/or a single mom who's looking for someone to play the role the absent father didn't and worst-case scenario she'll a deranged BPD thot. In the end, it's just like it says in Sweet Dreams: "Some of them want to use you, some of them want to get used by you, some of them want to abuse you, some of them want to be abused."