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Rekeita's Kidneys said:
I've tried a bunch of different bullshit and none of it seems to appeal or the "hobby" itself is literally just spending money for the sake of spending money.
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Buy a motorcycle and ride it really fast.

Everytime I go through withdrawals I have wild dreams. Lately they've been about Tarkov, and I'm stacking bodies all night.

Also I fucked up my sleep schedule because im retarded.
 
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Buy a motorcycle and ride it really fast.

Everytime I go through withdrawals I have wild dreams. Lately they've been about Tarkov, and I'm stacking bodies all night.

Also I fucked up my sleep schedule because im retarded.
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In Southern California? Man it's safer playing Russian roulette! I'd prefer to die instantaneous instead of being dragged by some dumb gook in a Tesla lmfao
 
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Nigga you talk constantly about how your shit is fucked, just buy a motorbike and enjoy life
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Do you really want him to get drunk off his ass, clamber onto a steel horse and decapitate somebody when he crashes into a streetlamp?


Art therapy works for me. Draw something funny for somebody in MSpaint and show it them.
 
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Rekeita's Kidneys said:
Nigga I don't have the funds for a bike lol

I do have a car but it needs some work atm
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Look dude, constantly giving out lame ass excuses for how you're a genetically bad person who's predestined to be miserable for the rest of your life because that's "just the way it is", or whatever, is bad for you.

Just do something simplistic, cheap, irreverent, and goofy to amuse yourself. I will shill for art therapy one more time. Don't make anything good, just spew shit on at least a digital canvas. It was extremely difficult for me to remain upset about anything while drawing a Panamanian dictator wearing a hat covered with little dicks dribbling semen down his forehead as @Manuel Noriega will attest.

Just try it. It doesn't have to look good, it just has to make you laugh while drawing it, and then post it while acting like it's the best thing ever. People find it very hard to disagree with earnest whimsy and enthusiasm. Draw my robot getting exploded by a squirrel throwing nuts at it really hard or something, draw anime boobies, get a picture of somebody you don't like and draw peepees on their forehead. I don't give a shit and it doesn't matter. Art is a pure expression of your feelings and it's never a complete waste of time to make something you can show somebody else to get a laugh.

It's better than defaulting to drinking your bad feefees away and getting hooked on SSRI's or whatever the hell you want to do.
 
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Core Theorist said:
Look dude, constantly giving out lame ass excuses for how you're a genetically bad person who's predestined to be miserable for the rest of your life because that's "just the way it is", or whatever, is bad for you.

Just do something simplistic, cheap, irreverent, and goofy to amuse yourself. I will shill for art therapy one more time. Don't make anything good, just spew shit on at least a digital canvas. It was extremely difficult for me to remain upset about anything while drawing a Panamanian dictator wearing a hat covered with little dicks dribbling semen down his forehead as @Manuel Noriega will attest.

Just try it. It doesn't have to look good, it just has to make you laugh while drawing it, and then post it while acting like it's the best thing ever. People find it very hard to disagree with earnest whimsy and enthusiasm. Draw my robot getting exploded by a squirrel throwing nuts at it really hard or something, draw anime boobies, get a picture of somebody you don't like and draw peepees on their forehead. I don't give a shit and it doesn't matter. Art is a pure expression of your feelings and it's never a complete waste of time to make something you can show somebody else to get a laugh.

It's better than defaulting to drinking your bad feefees away and getting hooked on SSRI's or whatever the hell you want to do.
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I know you'll think "muh copout" but I genuinely have no creative ability. I own thousands of dollars worth of music equipment (from my father, he is a musician), I have a bass (a nice one I might add!), audio interface and amp right next to me and I just cannot come up with anything.

There's a term for it my shrink used, I cannot remember it for the absolute fuck of me, but a lot of autists struggle with it. God forbid I mention Chris Chan but there's a reason his "art" is derivative. If there was a way for me to put it into words, you might be able to get it.

I do agree taking Jew pills or downing liquor is bad, it's why I obsessively lift weights and have been doing so for ~8 years. I'm a rigid boring routine sperg, not the pretentious a(u)rtist type lol.

I just need a decent fucking job that I can do my shit at and get paid enough to live semi comfortably. I really do not want to go back to college at fucking 27 years old.
 
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Rekeita's Kidneys said:
Nigga I don't have the funds for a bike lol

I do have a car but it needs some work atm
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Core Theorist said:
Just do something simplistic, cheap, irreverent, and goofy to amuse yourself.
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Many years ago I got kicked out of college and moved home. Mom took me to a wine and paint event and instead of painting flowers I painted pepes from memory. Total spergatory but it was really funny and I had a good time. Im trying to get into painting now that I have a good paying job, it was that fun.

Also listen to Breaking Benjamin, it's the whitest music ever made (dont listen to anything after 2009, ben drank himself into mental retardation and its a parody of itself today).

Sammy Hyde has a thing where he says just do it like a job every day, even if you cant think of anything. laziness is the birth of uncreativity
 
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Pattern Juggler said:
Been forcing myself to do one thing every day other than work, even if said thing is only something like 'do the dishes' or 'take suit to dry cleaners'. Just means when I'm lazing around doing nothing, I'm actually somewhat relaxing since there's not the guilt of all the undone crap hanging over me. Small improvement, but an improvement nonetheless.
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Just a note to prop this up - this is a great approach. One thing for awhile, and one of these days you might feel like doing 2, then some days later you might actually be able to do the 2 things…and gradually you may get to a point where you can scarcely remember when everything was so very hard…or at least get to amaze yourself by pushing and seeing yourself doing more than you’re afraid is your limit.

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I love the smell of new jigsaw puzzle in the afternoon. This will be my third in the past month and a half (the last one was only a thousand pieces and I obsessively completed it faster than I meant to). This one is another 2k and the pieces are tiny. Between my shitty eyesight and the shitty lighting, this one ought to keep my hands busy and my mind peaceful for at least a few weeks. It really is helping me stay sane while I continue to flounder with all my problems.
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You gotta a good resource for the bigger puzzles? One of my kids loves them, so I send a few a year in care packages and even bought one of those things where you can roll up the puzzle to move it aside. Usually 1000-1500- piece, but I’m thinking it’s time to up the game and send a good 2-5000 piece puzzle.
 
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Rekeita's Kidneys said:
I know you'll think "muh copout" but I genuinely have no creative ability(...)
(...)I just need a decent fucking job that I can do my shit at and get paid enough to live semi comfortably. I really do not want to go back to college at fucking 27 years old.
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Thank you for further enlightening me on your predicament.

I'm pleased to hear that you're at least lifting weights to help the problem and you agree that drinking and jew pills are bad. Even I don't lift weights, so I'm proud for you and I hope to follow in those footsteps. However, I told friends of mine that "I just need a good job" before too and they gave me a good piece of advice.

You can't 'hold off' on trying to be a happier person 'until you have X Y and Z'. Even if you won the lottery right now, you wouldn't know how to be happy even with a new sense of security. My parents had the stereotypical 2.4 kids with a white picket fence and they were still unhappy. Happiness isn't just having nice things and looking like you have lots of things to be happy about from the outside. I'll admit it's just my own experience, but happiness is a bridge that comes from within you, and meets the people and the things you like that come from outside of you.

Everybody can 'consume' happiness, you can have the best food, make love with the most beautiful women (or men, I don't give a shit. Faggot), be free of pain and high on life, and all of those things are great and can be a very good component of your sense of happiness. But those are all exterior things you are 'given'. The other half of the equation is that you have to have something from within to be happy about, that you can send out from yourself. Even if people don't appreciate it.

A healthy exercise regime is (probably?) on the right track. You are learning your physical limits and expanding them, and you can feel yourself growing stronger. But you just told me you've been doing it for 8 years and you're still miserable. By default, that means it's obviously not enough. Maybe you were always healthy, maybe you were kinda fat like I am right now, but the point is that you've already conquered it and now it doesn't feel like an achievement anymore. Some people need to constantly be chasing another victory, and you sound like that. The victory hasn't actually done anything for you either, it sounds like.

I thought I could never be creative either. I always wanted to make music as a fleeting fancy but I don't have those kind of ears and I don't know where to start, or have the energy. But, I do draw little doodles, I'm still really bad at drawing little shitposts for people, and I do it anyway. Whenever I get out of bed and have the mental energy to do it, I like making 3d models too. Every time I look at what I've done recently and look at what I did earlier, it's something I can share with people and everybody who isn't a faggot can tell "Well it isn't very good, but wow, it's better than the last one! What's he going to make next?", and sometimes, I can see myself improving too. This always feels really good.

Well, I rambled long enough, but my point is that you have something already close to what I want to express to you, but the vital component of going outwards with it is missing. You need to have a way to express yourself and your feelings, your worth, and so on, to the outside world that isn't just the "aesthetics" or "utility" of your self, your body. When you reduce yourself to your body, you're just meat.

Meat can't be happy.

EDIT: Oh, about doodling again. You can even trace things or just make stick figures. Hell, manipulate stuff in photoshop. I went from not being able to understand 3d spaces at all to... I'm still not good with 3d models but I can at least make what I want to make to the point it's obvious what I'm trying to do, nowadays. I had to go from thinking about it technically to thinking about it artistically. I went from directly punching in numbers between vertices to beginning to understand it like a sculptor (even if only just barely). If you're working by yourself on something, it's not like you're slowing anybody else down. The point is to have fun with what you're doing and eventually feeling good enough about it to share, even if retards don't like it.
 
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"Give me one good reason not to kill myself."

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FUCK NIGGA!

What do you want? Unironically, what the fuck do you want people to say?
I'm sorry you're having a tough go at it but there's only so many things people can say you negate or push aside before it starts seeming like an unholy endeavor.
If your mom is really telling you to kill yourself everyday, get the fuck out of there! Like within the month. That sounds like a nightmare.
Get out of California.
Also maybe making friends isn't what you're put on this earth to do. I'm not trying to give you some youtube cope advice of "being your own best friend", but maybe getting skilled at something you enjoy or getting employed at something you excel at would help you more at this point than having a couple dudebros to have brewskis with on a Wednesday.
I'm not saying I don't get it. It hits hard. But at the same time you have to look at what you can do for yourself. If you're having a hard time making friends, fuck friends. Make a resume. Make a couple k so you can get away from your shitty parents. Do something other than buying into the genetic dead-end meme you see on here.
I don't know what to tell you man, but literally every single fucking thing I see people say to you in this thread I see you shoot down. It's a weird place of empathy because I know how I can be that times and anger because fuck... I hate when I'm that guy in retrospect.
Godspeed but bro you need to think about something other than making friends right now.
 
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(((I am NOT a jew))) said:
What do you want? Unironically, what the fuck do you want people to say?
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Truthfully, I don't know. I'm just venting I guess. I can appreciate what you and the gentleman up above said.

Speaking of 3d modelling, I really ought to learn CAD, I am a 3d printing chud trying to figure out engineering bullshit as well.

Idk, I'm just frustrated, trying to get the ball rolling but good god is that ball fucking heavy and slow.

(I admit that photo made me fucking laugh a bit, which is quite rare to accomplish from my boring sad ass lol)
 
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I’m actually doing pretty well these days. I ate pizza two nights in a row, once with friends and once with family. I also got a swiffwer duster since it was on sale and have been really into cleaning since it feels so nice to use. My house smells lovely right now.
 
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Two days in a row... Absolute fucking mess at my job. It has to be full moon or something. But at least if it continues, it will be without me since I am free this weekend! Suck on this!
Take care and have a great weekend, fellow sociopaths.
 
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