While the site is still going, I'll say this: one thing I have noticed is that this site is monetised really poorly. I don't mean ads. I mean that I had to really dig through this site to find out how to support the forums, and I had to have the idea "hey I should support this forum that can't be cheap to run" all on my own. (Now am in the middle of learning how to use bitcoin so I can do so.) You should be signposting that shit, dude. Front and centre. Once I got to the part where it explained how to support you, I had to wade through 26 pages of forum posts in case the initial post wasn't up to date. Someone needs to be keeping that shit up to date. I know it's not easy to support your site, so you need to make it as easy as possible for potential supporters to access information or you will lose some. "Read the fucking thread" is fine elsewhere on the site but in this case it's just dumb.
I also had no idea you had a podcast that you could make some money off of. You have your own website, fucking advertise it front and centre. If people complain, ask them if they want to pay your bills.
Maybe all this is signposted on desktop version of the site but I'm a mobile user and i guarantee you most users are too. It doesn't show up for me.
A wild and crazy idea- perhaps you could make this site a paid members-only place. (Eg People can create a basic tier account which can submit information about a person of interest to a wiki page etc but to comment or speculate or participate in the community they must message you with a certain amount of bitcoin before being granted access. paying for an account also means higher personal stakes in the success and quality of the site.)
For extra personal money, I'd consider trying to sell your story and the story of kiwifarms to a publisher as a tell-all book. Maybe contact a literary agent first, they'll know how best to spin it. If accepted, you would get an advance probably of a few thousand dollars max, then royalties if your book sells lots more than the advance covers.
After that's done, change your name, start again.