Ok, let's do this but guiding us by the pictures only.
How to act like a Dominatrix
https://www.wikihow.com/Act-Like-a-Dominatrix
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Learn what is the best contraceptive. Cuffing his balls together and spanking his dick usually don't serve as a good contraceptive. Or maybe they do because he won't be able to get it up much but usually a condom is a better option. Use your mental powers wisely and conjure out of thin air the right prophylactic method.
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Don't get involved with Furries. Ever. They might try to convince you they're into BDSM and even show you their expensive toys but the only thing they're really into is ANIMAL RAPE. Stay away and avoid eye contact at all costs. DO NOT stick your tongue out as its a reminiscence of dog behaviour and they might want to drug you and stick a glass dildo in your mouth.
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Black spandex is your friend. Use black spandex. All the time. Doesn't matter if you're fat and a mother of 3, all that tight rubber will compress your organs to the point of circulatory failure. Also, you can wear it in cons. Are you cosplaying Trinity, Black Widow, Jessica Rabbit or just getting ready for a good pounding? Excellent for lying to your kids on your nightly escapades!
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Hire a Chinese army soldier (can also be Philippine or Vietnamese) to do your bidding. We can't stress this enough. No BDSM session is complete without an Asian young rifleman by your side. They can fetch the lube, polish the whips, warm the horse and even mop the various fluids that you or your partner will inevitably end up spilling all over the room. We recommend Chinese as a lifetime of subjugation under a communist regime made them very eager to follow orders and get things trunked in their anuses. You can also get the cheaper versions: Philippine, Vietnamese, Korean (north are cheaper but watch for Hepatitis!).
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Ask your mother to help you. Are you trying to spice things up with your boyfriend but have NO IDEA how? Easy, ask your folks! Throw away all those years of repressed memories and embrace those midnight screams coming out of the basement. Ask your mother to show you how to wreck those ass checks with the family whip and let her stay for the night. You would be surprised of how much you can learn from simply asking!
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Learn to control your ungodly ghost hand. It comes a time for every young girl to learn how to control their infernal murderous ghost hand and this is the right time to learn how. Do not engage in a BDSM session without knowing the "1 plus 2" of your psychic powers. Remember: Spanking is good but choking the life essence out of the carcass of your partner is NOT.
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Show the pantry who's the boss. No pleasure can come out of spanking and humiliating your significant other if those pesky cans and groceries are constantly mocking you from afar. Show them who wears the pants in the house by whipping them until the labels rip and the shelves collapse! That will teach them! We also recommend to make a whip out of your own hair. You'll look like Will Smith for some time but it grows back almost every time.
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Make them confess their sins before starting. Once everything's ready, be sure to make The Lord contempt by forcing your partner to confess his sins. Usually a good practice is to make them recite their browser history while you observe him and instruct the Asian trooper about the specifics of tonight's varieté.
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Congratulations! You've done it! You're a successful Taki Cosp- l mean Dominatrix, complete with... red spandex? Haven't I tell you about BLACK spandex?? Can't you follow a simple 9 step tutorial, you dumb bitch!? And where's your Chinese little fucker, UH!? Shit, you're a fucking disgrace...