Plagued Nice Guys

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vertexwindi said:
A huge amount of gay men are huge sluts.

Source: been around a few gay communities, talked to a couple of gay guys, they all said the same thing.
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Eh, everyone is a slut; gays are just more verbose and loud about how much dick they've had. Nothing wrong in being sexual provided it's consensual and you're not acting like a nice guy about it.
 
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vertexwindi said:
When you're in a relationship you want both partners to be on equal ground, obviously. Treating your partner special is nice, but not when you overdo it till the point where you practically worship the ground underneath their feet. That's pretty much what "you put me on a pedestal" means; the balance in your relationship is fucked. One of you is giving way more than the other.

I can't comment on whether that was true for your last relationship, though.
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Yeah, it consisted largely of me sending her IMs when I saw her online trying to engage in conversation and get to know her better, her deciding to either ignore or flirt with me and tell me how "cute" my messages were, and me doodling our original characters hugging or kissing.

I was definitely aiming for an equal and open relationship. Then she revealed she'd been seeing another guy for two of the four months I'd known her, tried telling me that she only ever saw me as a friend and nothing more (contrary to every conversation we had, where she was all up ons and saying things like "Baby I love you").

So yeah, I'd guess the balance wasn't right but I'd never thought I was pedestalizing her, just reciprocating what she initiated by messaging me first and constantly telling me how great I was.

Locksnap said:
You sure you're not gay?
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About as sure as I am that I'm human, if not a little more than that. Weird mix of low libido and a very kinky imagination though. I seek someone I can have an emotional connection and clear communication with first.
 
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Mozzarella Dicks said:
Yeah, it consisted largely of me sending her IMs when I saw her online trying to engage in conversation and get to know her better, her deciding to either ignore or flirt with me and tell me how "cute" my messages were, and me doodling our original characters hugging or kissing.
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:story:

Pretty sure she thought you were a fag, dude
 
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Mozzarella Dicks said:
Yeah, it consisted largely of me sending her IMs when I saw her online trying to engage in conversation and get to know her better, her deciding to either ignore or flirt with me and tell me how "cute" my messages were, and me doodling our original characters hugging or kissing.

I was definitely aiming for an equal and open relationship. Then she revealed she'd been seeing another guy for two of the four months I'd known her, tried telling me that she only ever saw me as a friend and nothing more (contrary to every conversation we had, where she was all up ons and saying things like "Baby I love you").
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Doodling your OCs and saying 'all up ons' may have suggested to her you're 12. Or maybe gay, as mentioned above. Maybe both!
 
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Found this while digging in the OKC horror stories tag on tumblr. It's a few years old and it seems to be the only article written by the writer, who is a self-described nice guy. There's another echo of "the pure, untouched woman" in there, even.
Someone's feelings were clearly hurt.

-"C-section scar from pushing out that badboy's rugrat" That's... not how those work, buddy.
 
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Holdek said:
So you don't have sexual urges but you think about kinky sexual stuff. Sounds like you are an asexual degenerate maybe like Adolf Hitler was?
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Oh, I certainly have them, just less often than I've been led to believe is normal.

Krieger said:
Doodling your OCs and saying 'all up ons' may have suggested to her you're 12.
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Well that'd be extra strange since one of her reasons for deciding on the other guy over me was that he was ten years younger.
 
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KiwisAreCute said:
@Mozzarella Dicks I think you should quit while you're ahead and just stop talking about this. Literally nobody here cares about your relationships.
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I care because it makes me laugh when people talk about their personal relationships on here, and then they ask for advice. Asking for dating advice from the farms is 0% effective. Almost like most everywhere else on the internet.

Are there any ancient (or before the industrial era) examples of Nice Guys? Is it just a modern phenomena? If so, then what could cause it?

Anyone here know someone who is a Nice Guy? I am curious about interacting with one.

So one of my friends has interest in this girl. Basically he said he was wanting to ask a girl out and needed advice. So I said "shoot"

Basically he saved a draft of a text that he was planning on sending to her, (I said do it in person, or atleast call her, don't text her) and it was about a paragraph long, and had the word "love" in every sentence. Remember when I said asking a girl out? He's not even dating her.

"Ok so don't use the word love at all in the early part of a relationship bro, it scares both guys and girls away."

"Well what would I use then?"

....."Use the word like."

"But that's what I feel!"

"....USE the word like."

He finally retreated his position when he asked a couple other people, and they all agreed with me.

There was another Nice Guy I know that actually did get a GF, but threatened to kill himself when they broke up, which suicidal thoughts after a bad breakup are actually common, but they were dating for like....not even a month.
 
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Lorento said:
http://imgur.com/a/NTp4T

Amazing.
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I'd lay money on the possibility that the subject of his desire was putting the other guy up to the trolling. Nice Guys are usually quite transparent in their feelings, and most women don't wanna be put on a pedestal. She was probably glad when this fellow came along and seemed agreeable to fucking with her unwanted suitor.
 
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Ugh, nice guys are the worst. But I can't help but wonder what so compels their pattern of behavior. It's like they're trying to resort to animalistic methods to attract a mate. See: male birds make it a point to treat a female bird better than their competition. A male bird will prove they can prepare a better nest, find better food, or find a better rock to impress a female.
Unfortunately, what they don't seem to realize, is that a human has more cognitive development than a bird. Simply treating a human female will do little to impress. A human female is far more critical in thought, they may also consider a male's personality- that which a nice guy typically lacks, preferring a facade of wittiness and kindness to cover their lack of depth.

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