Megathread Non-binary genders / Enbies - When Male and Female Aren't Special Enough

[MangledTwot]

Enbies are potentially the most rudest fuckwit cunts on the face of the earth. They seem to hate everyone who is cis, often hate white people and shit. They think they're always right and find EVERYTHING offensive. I've never met a single nice one.

 

[Dolphin Lundgren]

I wonder who are the worse ones- Tumblr lesbians or Tumblr nonbinaries.

Enbies are potentially the most rudest fuckwit cunts on the face of the earth. They seem to hate everyone who is cis, often hate white people and shit. They think they're always right and find EVERYTHING offensive. I've never met a single nice one.

I know only one nice nonbinary person. The rest are a bunch of assholes though.

 

[LtCucumber]

Enbies are potentially the most rudest fuckwit cunts on the face of the earth. They seem to hate everyone who is cis, often hate white people and shit. They think they're always right and find EVERYTHING offensive. I've never met a single nice one.

I know only one nice nonbinary person. The rest are a bunch of assholes though.

Tbh nonbinary people are taken more seriously than actual trans people sometimes and that really makes me salty. ( https://kiwifarms.net/threads/enbie-non-binary-genders-on-tumblr.21555/page-21#post-2454518 )
:powerlevel:Honestly that screwed me over so fucking much because the voluntary work I did for them was the best chance I had to put myself out there locally (as I'm a makeup artist) and guess what name I use for my social media accounts and my email for people to reach me? Yep. Not my old name.

I've noticed the male feminists/woke male nonbinary people are the worst at being assholes- you can tell they're only in it for the asspats; especially when someone in the marginalized group they claim to support calls any of their bullshit out. They won't be respectful. They're pretty much wearing a mask, claiming to be progressive, because in current year, there's no way they'll get laid without saying "i support this group" even when they don't.

Either that or they'll try SO HARD to tiptoe around people to not be racist/sexist/homophobic/etc that they'll end up doing exactly that.

 

[Dolphin Lundgren]

Tbh nonbinary people are taken more seriously than actual trans people sometimes and that really makes me salty. ( https://kiwifarms.net/threads/enbie-non-binary-genders-on-tumblr.21555/page-21#post-2454518 )
:powerlevel:Honestly that screwed me over so fucking much because the voluntary work I did for them was the best chance I had to put myself out there locally (as I'm a makeup artist) and guess what name I use for my social media accounts and my email for people to reach me? Yep. Not my old name.

I've noticed the male feminists/woke male nonbinary people are the worst at being assholes- you can tell they're only in it for the asspats; especially when someone in the marginalized group they claim to support calls any of their bullshit out. They won't be respectful. They're pretty much wearing a mask, claiming to be progressive, because in current year, there's no way they'll get laid without saying "i support this group" even when they don't.

Either that or they'll try SO HARD to tiptoe around people to not be racist/sexist/homophobic/etc that they'll end up doing exactly that.

Every bad experience I've had in the last few years on Tumblr has either been a lesbian or a nonbinary person. Always girls. I've never had a fight with a nonbinary guy. It's funny, I rarely had this problem with gay guys.

 

[goma]

While I'm willing to believe that True and Honest nonbinary people may exist, I've never seen one. They're always people (though mostly girls) who are insecure because they're too ugly, or they're white people looking for a way to gain oppression points that no one can politely argue them about in public.

So really in my experience it's mostly white women who do this.

 

[MangledTwot]

While I'm willing to believe that True and Honest nonbinary people may exist, I've never seen one. They're always people (though mostly girls) who are insecure because they're too ugly, or they're white people looking for a way to gain oppression points that no one can politely argue them about in public.

So really in my experience it's mostly white women who do this.

I've never seen one who was born male. Always born female.

 

[Crunchy Leaf]

I know multiple born male non binary people. They're white gay dudes who don't wanna be 'privileged' and/or feel they're too effeminate to be a real man from what I can tell.

I also know three female born ones who are black and two female born ones who are Asian.

 

[Dolphin Lundgren]

I've never seen one who was born male. Always born female.

So they're bored white young women who are desperately trying not to be straight.

 

[Cure Milquetoast]

I know multiple born male non binary people. They're white gay dudes who don't wanna be 'privileged' and/or feel they're too effeminate to be a real man from what I can tell.

I also know three female born ones who are black and two female born ones who are Asian.

I knew a white gay ~nonbinary~ dude just like what you're describing. His family was absurdly rich compared to his peers and he used to bum weed money from them all the time. He got help for his mental problems along with an actual job, but I'm not too sure if he dropped the label or not.

 

[Insomniafawn]

It's almost certain that every nonbinary individual is just doing it for a trend if they lurk on Tumblr far too often. On the rare occasion someone might meet an actual real nonbinary person, most of the time they won't lurk on Tumblr and dye their hair the same color that someone with Porphyria has when they shit, and then proceed to get a pixie cut and wear extremely feminine clothing.

My question is, if these dumblrinas are trying their hardest to look "gender-neutral", why do they openly express the fact that they look like a female, and then scream at someone if they don't ever use their preferred pronoun? As if someone can look at you and say, by a glance, "oh gosh, they use autiself pronouns, better correct myself!"

 

[DietCherry]

I've never seen one who was born male. Always born female.

Funny in my experience :powerlevel:the only two I’ve met in the real world were born male. One dressed androgynous and looked neither male nor female at all and the other was a big black guy with a huge moustache who definitely looked male but was super soft spoken about preferring genderlessness.

 

[D. Sweatshirt]

Not that it matters much, but it looks like the team behind Hiveswap (the Homestuck prequel nobody wants anymore) is starting to cater to the NB crowd by putting in a few non-binary trolls, to the applause of almost no one.

Spoiler: New Trolls

Normally I wouldn't find this relevant but given the tendency for these two communities to overlap, I'd say it's worth posting here. If you want to read more about the dumb stuff these guys have been up to, feel free to check out the thread I set up for them here.

 

[Lenoxphile]

'Agender' 'Boy'

 

[LtCucumber]

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'Agender' 'Boy'

"Agender"
"boy"
pick one- Agender is literally the lack of gender. Gendering yourself after calling yourself agender is the biggest fucking contradiction.

Like chuck the "male or female, pick one" out of the window for a second- for argument's sake let's say agender and other nonbinary identities are real. You would not be able to be both a nonbinary and a binary gender- it's a contradiction. You literally would have to pick one. Saying you have no gender and then gendering yourself will never be a thing, even if nonbinary was proven real

 

[Baka Burst]

Not that it matters much, but it looks like the team behind Hiveswap (the Homestuck prequel nobody wants anymore) is starting to cater to the NB crowd by putting in a few non-binary trolls, to the applause of almost no one.

Spoiler: New Trolls

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Normally I wouldn't find this relevant but given the tendency for these two communities to overlap, I'd say it's worth posting here. If you want to read more about the dumb stuff these guys have been up to, feel free to check out the thread I set up for them here.

Which is the one who is supposed to be a special snowflake non-binary?

 

[D. Sweatshirt]

Which is the one who is supposed to be a special snowflake non-binary?

The green one that eats worms.

 

[bad yiff]

What the hell ever happened to just being androgynous? All of these made up genders and non-genders just make trannies look even more like a joke than they are already viewed. Not to mention the fact these subhumans take away precious resources from trannies a lot of the time. For instance, the "serious" enbies go on hrt and theyre just causing med shortages for trannies that need it. They have also lead to a shortage of therapists and psychs for actual trannies (all are booked up for a year or more in major cities). These gender-speshuls are taken way more seriously and of course none of them have gender dysphoria of any kind. If one of them ever tells you they do they're lying out of their ass.

 

[Dolphin Lundgren]

What the hell ever happened to just being androgynous? All of these made up genders and non-genders just make trannies look even more like a joke than they are already viewed. Not to mention the fact these subhumans take away precious resources from trannies a lot of the time. For instance, the "serious" enbies go on hrt and theyre just causing med shortages for trannies that need it. They have also lead to a shortage of therapists and psychs for actual trannies (all are booked up for a year or more in major cities). These gender-speshuls are taken way more seriously and of course none of them have gender dysphoria of any kind. If one of them ever tells you they do they're lying out of their ass.

I saw one nonbinary person claim they have dysphoria but then bragged about how good they look in a bikini.

 

[PuToTyra]

I knew a girl in high school who, senior year, asked everyone to refer to her with 'he/him'. This was someone who made absolutely no effort to transition: long hair, makeup, visible boobs, still going by Patricia, etc. People used 'he/him' in front of her to be polite, but when she wasn't there everyone reverted back to she/her. I was baffled by it all.

I had same experience at uni, except she also dyed her hair blue.

a lot of transgender people think they pass-mistakenly-while in fact they are being hugboxed

 

[LtCucumber]

I saw one nonbinary person claim they have dysphoria but then bragged about how good they look in a bikini.

This is the thing that blows my mind, their warped idea of what dysphoria is, and claiming to have it because of the warped definition they've learned online. They only have "social dysphoria"- which does have roots in gender dysphoria, because it makes you think "i'm not enough of a man/woman for anyone else, i'm not enough of a man/woman, oh god, help". But they don't see it like that, their idea of social dysphoria is "I don't pass well enough and get misgendered"- it doesn't reduce them to thinking their efforts are not enough because the world still sees them as the wrong gender, and then "oh god this body i was cursed with". Their idea of social dysphoria is not dysphoria at all. They just want to yell at people for misgendering them, and that's what social dysphoria is to them, instead of what it usually is, which is the very real, super awkward, and potentially sickness/gender dysphoria-inducing thoughts that happen when someone addresses you incorrectly through no fault of their own.

They think any other form of dysphoria (which isn't social) is hating yourself. They think you have to be upset 24/7 to have dysphoria. Dysphoria is not self hate. Sure, it sucks, but it's not hating yourself through and through. Life is still enjoyable. They decide that you don't need dysphoria, because you don't have to hate yourself, but that's not what dysphoria is. This in and of itself proves they don't know anything about being trans or dysphoria, especially if they're getting the definition incorrect (on purpose? i dunno), and then using that incorrect definition to claim you don't need dysphoria.