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Alpha Loves You said:
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A pre-emptive :feels: for that poor guy once his heart gets broken by his scumbag fiancée, especially if she follow's this twat's advice:

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You gotta love the advice she gets. Act like a huge, selfish jerk to a guy that loves you because he needs to understand that if he's gonna be with you he's gonna get cucked and like it. Someone needs to tell the boyfriend that he deserves better than this bitch. Because she's going to drive a stake through his heart sooner than later.

Stop babying him? Yeah because other people's feelings don't matter. All that matters is your right to cuck your boyfriend over and over again and he better learn to like it.:roll:

Pray to God that this ho doesn't get knocked up. A kid does not need to be in the middle of these things.
 
AprilRains said:
It is superficially true that one is not fully responsible for others' feelings, but there is such a thing as reasonably anticipable consequences of one's actions. These people want to :autism: their way out of that in order to do as they like in the moment. Swine, bears, seals behave this way, but none of those species have created durable communities.
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Do they apply this maxim to their friendships and familial relationships too? Would they say 'hey, I think infertility jokes are hilarious, and if Aunt Joanne doesn't like it, she doesn't have to come to Thanksgiving next year, 'cause I'm not responsible for her feelings'? Would they bring beer to every friend group hang out even though Sam's a recovering alcoholic, 'cause they're not responsible for his feelings? If so, that's a really awful way to go throughout life.

edit: It feels very childish to me. Little kids can be assholes because they don't know better. But hopefully they learn to not be one, either through adults correcting them or because they see other people's reactions. Poly people really are just incapable of understanding human social interaction.
 
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Crunchy Leaf said:
Do they apply this maxim to their friendships and familial relationships too?
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I talked about some poly people I've seen in the wild earlier in this thread, and yes, they treat family and friends just as poorly. The ones I knew dropped family members for ridiculous reasons. They would just find a new person to try and fill whatever void existed in their lives from going no contact with family and friends. Polyamory seems to require an endless supply of new people to use up and dump.
 
Alpha Loves You said:
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm I think I found yer problem right here. Its almost like people in these kinda relationship are much more prone to forming asymmetric bonds and some may feel left out.
 
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BigRuler said:
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9w4tpu/my_wifes_boyfriend_and_my_troubles_with_him/
http://archive.is/YojWI

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this is peak degeneracy. imagine the mental state of the children growing up with these lunatics.
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There's a story in The Sociopath Next Door that sounds just like this "depressed" guy. It was a guy that refused to work or do childcare after knocking up a woman with a good career. He claimed depression too but it was all an act, he moved in because he liked her swimming pool and knew the kid bought him a couple years of leusure. The poly guy knows the same thing about manipulating the woman in the house, as long as he can charm her he's got a free ride.
 
Everyone in that story may be found near a lamppost on the Great Day of the Rope.
 
BigRuler said:
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9w4tpu/my_wifes_boyfriend_and_my_troubles_with_him/
http://archive.is/YojWI

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>troon
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>drugs

this is peak degeneracy. imagine the mental state of the children growing up with these lunatics.
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:story: He ruined his relationship with his wife. He won't end the relationship, and is surprised that her shitty placeholder relationship is shitty and not entirely serious. I mean, why wouldn't she pick the shittiest man she could find, after the man she actually married trooned out?
 
Maggots on a Train v2 said:
:story: He ruined his relationship with his wife. He won't end the relationship, and is surprised that her shitty placeholder relationship is shitty and not entirely serious. I mean, why wouldn't she pick the shittiest man she could find, after the man she actually married trooned out?
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If they're in a liberal area/social circle, and I'm guessing they are (since polyamory and transitioning aren't problems for anyone except liberals), she can't actually express any upset with her husband without being called transphobic. It's a fuck of a thing to be the wife in that situation, she kinda out SJW'd him into boarding her boyfriend.
 
Alpha Loves You said:
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Weirdly enough, the degenerates on r/Polyamory are actually in agreement:
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They're all about having their degeneracy on full display and bullying partners into going along with it through emotional blackmail. You'll find that whenever someone makes a thread talking about someone outright lying to them, like in this case, they'll be quick to condemn them. That's the only sensible thing I've seen from them.
 
PrincessJupiter said:
They're all about having their degeneracy on full display and bullying partners into going along with it through emotional blackmail. You'll find that whenever someone makes a thread talking about someone outright lying to them, like in this case, they'll be quick to condemn them. That's the only sensible thing I've seen from them.
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I’m openly bi woman and have done some online dating in past. So naturally have been hit on by poly people kinda a lot. One consistently good side to them is that they eather come out immediately or at least before first date on the hole poly issue. I’m no way open to open relationships so I always turn them down but I appreciate that they generally get the hole not wasting my or their time. Some of these people (pretty much all men) have expressed annoyance on getting turned down when ever they do bring the poly up so I have no doubt that poly hider exists. Otherhand what do they think most avare people are looking for? Eather actual romantic relationship that can lead to a family of their own or just drama free hook ups.

Still a merit where merits are do, the current poly culture does promote honesty and openness about poly when seeking new relationships.
 
Amber the Hedgehog said:
I’m openly bi woman and have done some online dating in past. So naturally have been hit on by poly people kinda a lot. One consistently good side to them is that they eather come out immediately or at least before first date on the hole poly issue. I’m no way open to open relationships so I always turn them down but I appreciate that they generally get the hole not wasting my or their time. Some of these people (pretty much all men) have expressed annoyance on getting turned down when ever they do bring the poly up so I have no doubt that poly hider exists. Otherhand what do they think most avare people are looking for? Eather actual romantic relationship that can lead to a family of their own or just drama free hook ups.

Still a merit where merits are do, the current poly culture does promote honesty and openness about poly when seeking new relationships.
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I am guessing those poly degens often try to recruit you to be a sister wife or some shit, too
 
Amber the Hedgehog said:
I’m openly bi woman and have done some online dating in past. So naturally have been hit on by poly people kinda a lot. One consistently good side to them is that they eather come out immediately or at least before first date on the hole poly issue. I’m no way open to open relationships so I always turn them down but I appreciate that they generally get the hole not wasting my or their time. Some of these people (pretty much all men) have expressed annoyance on getting turned down when ever they do bring the poly up so I have no doubt that poly hider exists. Otherhand what do they think most avare people are looking for? Eather actual romantic relationship that can lead to a family of their own or just drama free hook ups.

Still a merit where merits are do, the current poly culture does promote honesty and openness about poly when seeking new relationships.
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Apparently on OKCupid there's a poly-only option for them? But, yes, they--especially the men--love to bitch about how hard it is to find a date. Gosh, I wonder why?

You have a good point about hook ups. Some people like being slutty and hey, live your best life. Polyamory is the worst aspects of being a slut and being committed put together.
 
Casual sex isn't exactly safe to begin with, but people could at the very least have the STDs quarantined and not try to pass it off as commitment.
 
scathefire said:
It’s one of those things where “as long as it isn’t hurting anybody” is a weak excuse because it absolutely and usually does hurt anyone involved, especially the children. Just because your personal practices aren’t hurting the world at large doesn’t mean it can’t be detrimental to yourself or your loved ones. Some things just shouldn’t be encouraged as healthy behaviors, regardless of their legality.

Polyshit to me is a symptom of this nihilistic society we’re living in.
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Yup, tell me if the husband truly feels happy with his wife's poly choice.
 
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