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Or an abusive man who in previous years would have just called himself a swinger and sold his wife a load of hooey about "liberation." Actually a swinger would be more likely to be honest about it just being pure hedonism.

It does always seem it's either that or pure emasculation, though, often of men who started out weak in the first place. Like this iconic picture.
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Fatty got knocked up by one of the cucks and the one on the right who looks like an autistic Bill Hicks later tried to kill it.

another reason to not be polyamorous: being one of the 4 people in this photo, and every single time its brought up someone mentions one of you tried to murder a baby
 
Or an abusive man who in previous years would have just called himself a swinger and sold his wife a load of hooey about "liberation." Actually a swinger would be more likely to be honest about it just being pure hedonism.

It does always seem it's either that or pure emasculation, though, often of men who started out weak in the first place. Like this iconic picture.
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Fatty got knocked up by one of the cucks and the one on the right who looks like an autistic Bill Hicks later tried to kill it.

It's funny because if you look at the comments of the original video all of the women were convinced that the guy on the bottom left was the "creeper". Because he was the ugliest.

We honestly need a further update on this crew and if the guys were ultimately able to escape Pink's massive orbit.
 
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It's funny because if you look at the comments of the original video all of the women were convinced that the guy on the bottom left was the "creeper". Because he was the ugliest.

We honestly need a further update on this crew and if the guys were ultimately able to escape Pink's massive orbit.
I couldn't find much on Ethan Baucom since his arrest a year ago, but I did find this post talking about it on the subreddit where the mods locked and archived the post almost immediately.
As for the mother, Tory Ojeda-Wells, I did find her TikTok account: @toryojeda_wells (Someone plz archive some of these videos. I don't know how)
 
(Someone plz archive some of these videos. I don't know how)
Your wish is my command.... though these don't seem very interesting.
You can use youtube-dl for this (and just about anything else).


 
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I couldn't find much on Ethan Baucom since his arrest a year ago, but I did find this post talking about it on the subreddit where the mods locked and archived the post almost immediately.
As for the mother, Tory Ojeda-Wells, I did find her TikTok account: @toryojeda_wells (Someone plz archive some of these videos. I don't know how)
This also seems to be the tiktok account of the same guy that was on the top-right of that one photo.

What's funny about that one iconic screencap of them together is that you can barely even tell that she's pregnant and not just overweight. If somebody showed me that and didn't mention that she was pregnant, I would've just assumed she was fat.
 
Some scraps I came across:
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What?? Your husbands ex doesnt want their child to be exposed to this fuckery?
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This conversation below is absolutely mind blowing:
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This conversation below is absolutely mind blowing:
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If you don't like what he's proposing then don't get together with him. It might be hard, but if you feel like it's not going to work out then it's probably for the best.

What is it with these people and wanting to turn obviously unworkable situations into an utter clusterfuck of a relationship that still doesn't work and makes everyone miserable?
 
Some scraps I came across:
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Your partner gave you a hall pass. What an idiot. So here's the thing: if you're so compatible why can't you just go back to shtupping your one and only and stop being a whore? I mean, you claim to love your partner but I'm not seeing it if you're not willing to sacrifice.
Hahahahaha! So the bull is being cucked and the only advice these idiots can give is "Bro, you should totally be a boner killer!" How about you move on and find someone else? Either that or make peace with getting cucked and putting on a Superman outfit and just watching.
Well first, ex-wife is absolutely right. Marriage is between one man and one woman, full stop. It's a religious sacrament. So here's the secret: she'll never understand and either stop being whores and save the friendship or keep on doing what you're doing and the ex will do what she does.
I think this one speaks for itself.
 
"Bring it up, brainstorm ways to fix that", someone said to the third wheel. It's like they need NASA level brainstorm sessions, not to mention all the poly podcasts and poly books. Not needlessly complicated at all. Most of the other ones talk about podcasts and books too. I wonder how many times these things are exclusively used to somehow break down the poly-negative party in a marriage or relationship. Just tire them out with the conditioning and make them feel like emotional abusers for not wanting to entertain the idea of their spouse getting fucked by someone else.

About brainstorming, I'm imagining that scene from Lord of the Rings where they're all together in Rivendell trying to figure out what they should do with the ring. But instead of a ring, the council is formed to figure out how to make everybody feel good in a situation where too many people are fucking at once. And in the end someone just throws them all in a volcano and boards a boat to leave this disgusting world.
 
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I always wonder if those are troll posts. It seems like low hanging fruit to steal a picture of some random soys hanging out and post "this is my brave polycule!!!" for lulz. But the OP account is six years old so...
Also, I thought that was Will Wheaton at first.
 
>I get everything I want out of the relationship except for love
Jesus Christ. I'm vacillating between so many emotions reading this post. I want to say I feel mostly pity for this person who is so fucked up she's convinced herself she doesn't deserve love and being loved isn't important. But she also describes herself as a "relationship anarchist" which makes me want to punch her in the face, and she's encouraging other people to go down this particularly depressing road of self-destruction. Just, Jesus Christ.
 
>I get everything I want out of the relationship except for love
Jesus Christ. I'm vacillating between so many emotions reading this post. I want to say I feel mostly pity for this person who is so fucked up she's convinced herself she doesn't deserve love and being loved isn't important. But she also describes herself as a "relationship anarchist" which makes me want to punch her in the face, and she's encouraging other people to go down this particularly depressing road of self-destruction. Just, Jesus Christ.
If you want to be slightly generous about it you can just imagine the type: young, socially retarded, easily influenced, and overly-empathetic - type of person who goes through life being tricked into one thing after the other and in this case, lefty/post-modern shit that begets the type of mindset where you go "sure, might as well decolonize relationships and sex while we're at it, nothing more radical than rejecting social norms that every Marxist teacher I've ever had (all of them) taught me to hate - FUCK YOU DAD". It's their fault but not totally because it takes two (or more) to tango and there are always plenty of other similarly minded people to help paddle that ship to Crazytown.

On the other hand, the phrase "you get what you fucking deserve" is usually pretty apt when observing the inevitable relationship meltdowns that occur following the introduction of New Age bullshit that went out of fashion fifty years ago but that's flared up again under a new lofty and pretentious guise complete with even a confusing and formal sounding name to boot. At least the swingers of the 60s/70s had the decency to just admit it was all about fuckin' baby, ain't nothing else.
 
Reading all these stories about unhappy, non-poly partners allowing themselves to be cucked is hard to understand from an outside perspective, but as someone that narrowly dodged a bullet, I can see how these guys (and occasionally girls) get manipulated by people they thought they loved. Poly people, and the poly community in general, pull some devious, evil shit to get their boyfriends and girlfriends to play along with their cult-like fantasy.

Storytime: I was dating a chick who, after two fucking years, asked me how I felt about opening up the relationship. I said fuck no, I'm not a Mormon, swinger, cuck, etc. And from then on, I was incredibly emotionally manipulated by her and the poly community. She told me I was confining her, and that if I truly loved her, I would let her experience love to the fullest, "because she had a lot of love to give".

She sent me books, videos, websites, that all told me what a piece of shit I was if I didn't allow myself to be cucked. She even fucking took me to a "poly friendly" therapist for the specific purpose of turning me poly. She and her friends fucking sent me "poly memes" every day, it was a complete fucking indoctrination into a cult. And this was someone I thought I loved, and cared about me. I genuinely was gonna reach my breaking point, and I was convinced I was a bad person for feeling repulsed at the idea of "sharing" my girlfriend.

Luckily I found boards like this, where sane people mercilessly ridicule the propaganda I was exposed to every day. That's what helped me get out. Don't be fooled by the Tumblr-grade wokescolding and utter stupidity. Polyamory is a cult and these people are all buying the bullshit. Swear to god this shit is gonna kill someone someday.
 

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