r/childfree - Where child-haters congregate

Yeah, I sort of doubt that anyone at all has "pressured" any of these spergs to breed. Especially any of them who are under say, 25 or so. Most people know Bad Parent Material when they encounter it.

Autists should be strongly discouraged from breeding, not because eugenics works, but because of how :horrifying: it would be to have lolcow parents.
 

I don't understand how parents forget their children in cars at on hot days. That goes so far beyond being absent minded that I can't convince myself it's not at least partially malice, or at least an utterly inexcusable level of detachment from someone one hundred percent dependent on your for protection. No child in history ever asked their parents to create them, they were all dragged into this reality by at least two people both responsible for seeing to their safety until they're capable of protecting themselves (and that's at the absolute bare minimum). Not having someone check that the child isn't being cooked alive in confused agony is just unacceptable.

No matter how insane my life has gotten, I've never once forgotten to make my top priority verifying that all of my children are alive at each way point. I don't believe that a stressful day is an excuse for not double checking the number of children you have, not if you actually love them.

The wife of this monster has a weird rambling response to his guilty verdict that gives me an uneasy feeling that she was either involved or sorta complacent about it. The gist of her response to him being imprisoned is that it's completely pointless to lock him up because it won't stop other children from dying in hot cars.

A Really Shifty Broad said:
"For those of you who want to know if I am ok. The answer is no. I have not been 'ok' since the moment I was told my son was dead. I have not been 'ok' since the moment my life was put on this path that has led to Ross being found guilty of maliciously murdering our child. "So now you may be saying 'justice has been served.' And you are allowed your right to that opinion. But guess what, you can convict every parent that this has ever happened to, and I can promise you 2 things...#1 it will never bring our children back and #2 it will not prevent this from happening in the future. Next summer, as this begins to happen over and over again, ask yourself, 'what can be done?!' The problem is not the parent! The problem is a society that refuses to believe this can happen to them! Wake up! Accept it! And by accepting it you will be protecting your child!"

Highlighted the dumbest part. Apparently children don't die in hot cars because their parents forget them there due to not giving a shit if they're dead or alive, they die in hot cars because of society. Only by accepting that your children might slowly suffer to death because of your own negligence will they really be safe.


There's not much I find more irksome than people who intentionally try to undermine the way someone else is raising their children, and it's doubly annoying if they don't have children of their own. Apparently it's triply annoying if they don't even want kids, because they're flatly stating they'll never consider the consequences of a parent's sacrifices and intentions but still want to forcibly inject their own half-formed opinions on it.

I might not agree with raising a child religiously, I don't really like that. But someone specifically going behind your back just to be a contradictory little snot before ducking back out and letting you deal with the fallout is the kind of thing worth telling someone to stay out of your kids life over. Introducing conflicting ideas is a generally healthy approach, but that's how I feel about it, it's not my place to enforce that over the effort someone else puts into their child. Deliberate undercutting a parent because you don't like their beliefs is just shitty.
 
Unfortunately, :autism: can suddenly appear in otherwise normal families. Chris's father was an engineer, and his half brother is a married film critic. There's absolutely no indication that the family would spawn the ultimate lolcow at all.

I disagree. Yes, while there was no hereditary precursor to it (autism isn't hereditary anyway afaik), the behavior of the family and the environment were pretty much a guarantee Chris would end up the way he is. His parents' refusal to put Chris is special education, the way they spoiled him and treated him like a child, Barb's hoarding, Bob's senility, and even the fact he grew up in the 90s formed a recipe for disaster. Even with his autism, if Chris was raised by different people, he probably wouldn't be the Chris we know today.
 
I disagree. Yes, while there was no hereditary precursor to it (autism isn't hereditary anyway afaik), the behavior of the family and the environment were pretty much a guarantee Chris would end up the way he is. His parents' refusal to put Chris is special education, the way they spoiled him and treated him like a child, Barb's hoarding, Bob's senility, and even the fact he grew up in the 90s formed a recipe for disaster. Even with his autism, if Chris was raised by different people, he probably wouldn't be the Chris we know today.

They were the perfect incubator for a lolcow.
 
To take a quote "r/childfree is like r/atheism. People making bland alternative lifestyle choices and pretending that they're a persecuted minority because of it, while shitting on people who disagree with them."

These are what the actual rules say

No repost.
Keep it civil and respectful.
No making fun of harm made to kids.

No repost huh? Virtually every post is fucking spam
Also, keep it civil? Mega kek
"No making fun of harm made to kids." Take a look at this.

a55412d3afb4ab2a99a13b2013793f79.png

This is actually disgusting
0e0d9facd8d440d73dab6429cb60148c.png

Just so you know.
  1. A sociopath doesn't follow the rules. He believes that the rules, laws, and norms that exist for the safety and wellbeing of everyone in society don't apply to him. He's above them, so they mean nothing.
  2. A sociopath doesn't care about the consequences of her actions. She couldn't care less what she does to you. She couldn't care less for any punishment she'd receive, either. That means nothing stops her from doing what she wants to do.
  3. He grows bored very easily. A sign of a sociopath is the need for change, whether it's new homes, new locations, new friends, new relationships, new jobs, new whatever. His life must always be sensational. He's a thrill-seeker, always moving on to find excitement when boredom hits.
  4. A sign of being a sociopath is impulsivity. She acts quickly and without deliberation. She also has neither time nor concern for assessing hazards; she's a risk-taker.
  5. The sociopath is only concerned for the present moment, the now. This is far different from serene mindfulness. A sociopath lives in the present purely for pleasure, excitement, and instant gratification.
  6. Signs of a sociopath are careless and reckless behavior. He does what pleases him and what will get him ahead. He couldn't care less who gets hurt or what the consequences of his actions are.
  7. The sociopath is also unpredictable and quite unreliable. If she commits to doing something but later decides that there's nothing in it for her, she won't do it. She won't apologize, either.
  8. A sociopath acts immorally. Cheating, lying, stealing, violence, and more are part of who he is and what he does (Does A Sociopath Cry Or Even Have Feelings?).
  9. To a sociopath, everything is a game. A sign of sociopathic behavior is the manipulating, calculating behavior that is part of the game. Oh, yeah. They must win the game.
  10. Sociopaths have been called loose cannons, which is an apt summary of the traits of a sociopath. (Source https://www.healthyplace.com/person...path/signs-of-a-sociopath-are-big-time-scary/)
Not saying all childfree people are sociopaths, just noting how many of these users show classic sociopath signs.
 
Hot off the front page of reddit

View attachment 448494

That's odd. Most of the child-haters I know are deeply irresponsible people who resent being expected to "adult", so they put in minimal effort at their jobs and school, and end up asking me (Mombie crotch-fruit factory) for loans when they discover they can't make rent due to having blown it all on renting jet-skis.

But, y'know, YOLO and shit.
 
This is such a /r/thathappened story, no cashier cares about what you buy.

This thread is a great example of childfrees hypocrisy. I know I seen them post about how they downvote baby pictures in other subs because babies are so gross.

This one comment in particular.
fgdgdgd.png


Edit: So I don't double post.
 
Last edited:
This is such a /r/thathappened story, no cashier cares about what you buy.

This thread is a great example of childfrees hypocrisy. I know I seen them post about how they downvote baby pictures in other subs because babies are so gross.

This one comment in particular.
View attachment 449196

Edit: So I don't double post.

"Works for me" is, I think, the most dishonest phrase known to English, because the people who say it generally do so when others point out the lethal flaws in whatever it is they're saying it about.

For instance, pointing out that ten cats cannot simultaneously live in a one-bedroom apartment.
 
For instance, pointing out that ten cats cannot simultaneously live in a one-bedroom apartment.

Duh, it takes a minimum of 25 for crazy cat-ladyness to REALLY take hold

I'm never going to have kids because, aside from lacking the desire, I realize what a shitty parent I'd be when I sit down and really critically grade myself on the things needed to be a parent (Responsible, caring, attentive, patient) and find myself sorely lacking in most of those qualities. Hell, there are days I can barely tolerate my dog, and Black Labs practically worship the ground you walk on and will leave you alone for the afternoon if you just snarl at them real good because you aren't in the mood.

That doesn't sound like parent material to me. Plus I'm a "selfish" person, I don't feel like rearranging my life and my finances and given how little money I make, totally discard all my hobbies and non-work activities in the name of raising a kid, on top of lack of desire to do it and lack of ability to be successful.

So in conclusion: I'm too irresponsible and socially inept to be a parent.

But I don't have the toxic ego required to think of this as some great next-evolution of the human race.... like a lot of these people do. I wonder if all their bluster is a front for the fact that deep down inside, they know they've wimped out and haven't made peace with that?
 
Last edited:
Back