Tell ya what I’ll let y’all know how it goes.
Real answer? Because the dudes are homophobic and figure "lesbian" is nothing more than a porn category and his girlfriend could not possibly fall in love with another woman because same-sex relationships are not real.
And it's not like you can just coast when you are in a stable relationship, either. You have to keep them interested in you, spend a lot of time with them, work out the inevitable disagreements and conflicts that happen between you two, between you, your partner, family, friends etc. Then over time both you and your partner grow and change, and you have to adapt to that too. Before I got into my first relationship, I thought "oh what a relief I finally have a boyfriend, I can just coast it out" and I quickly saw I was dead wrong.
I can only drop in some community watch threads occasionally, but fuck this is a hard one. It’s just like jfc people I’m sure the poly people that actually work out don’t talk about it on reddit ffs. I wouldn’t consider myself poly, but my wife is into chicks and that’s just something we plan to do before having kids. Not fucking date the damn chick willing to fuck a married couple.
R/poly land of the cucks
I think it's easier if you assume said relationships are no deeper than "fuck buddy", plus are totally sociopathic.
See that's the thing, they don't have stable relationships with multiple people. They completely ignore all the crappy "work" that makes LTRs happen. All they care about is the honeymoon phase, as others have pointed out. If one of their "partners" wants to talk about the relationship or would like them to change something or becomes jealous or expresses any unhappiness at all, well you're supposed to break up with them right away because they're obviously "emotionally immature" or aren't enlightened enough or whatever.
Omg I want to ask you to give me a recap of what he's in for, but I went to that profile and apparently it's all weeb wars all the way down. On a scale of 1 to "rainbow chew toys" how autistic is this situation?
I live in a city with a lot of Indian couples. A lot of the women in arranged marriages are unhappy but there's such a stigma against divorce that they can't because they'll basically be excommunicated from their family and the community if they are.
Full disclosure: Am Indian women, have had white boyfriends.
This made me think of this thread I saw on the subreddit: How does emotional intimacy within poly relationships compare to monogamous relationships?
I forget where I saw this but there was a thing on twitter a while back where a woman was calling out other women for saying shit like "He may fuck you but I'm the one he always comes back to." She said that statement was supposed to only apply to cases where it's a woman with a filthy-rich husband who has affairs, not your average 20-something who is paying the bills while her boyfriend smokes weed and bangs other women on the couch she paid for.
From what I've seen in this thread and over yonder, there's always a breadwinner, but that breadwinner tends not to be the same person who initiates the poly relationship. So you end up with cases where Man/Woman 1 is bringing home the bacon while Man/Woman 2 and 3 stay at home.
They believe their dicks are magic wands that make women incapable of receiving better orgasms from other women.
Some RICH dude in India.
I lose passwords all the time. Plus I believe in burner accounts. People get too attached to accounts like they mean something.
people get too attached to their wives too like they mean something
you say that like it makes you not a tard
Or that it makes my post bait. Just because you're dumb enough to fall into a hole, doesn't mean the hole was there to trap you.
