Off-Topic Random Trans Thoughts, Musings, and Questions - For all your armchair psych and general sperging

[weirdwound]

Who finished with who?

If he's a reply guy to troons, I hope that's enough for you to stop checking out what he's doing and just say "OK...... next!".

It was mutual but every now and then I get curious to what he's up to and see his social media and it's replying to TIMs apparently. I dodged a bullet, truly.

And tbh I am counting down the days he troons because I swear I saw on that cracked egg reddit a while ago a selfie with a 5 o clock shadow and clown red lipstick on a giant head that looked EXACTLY like him and it's haunted me and I am pretty sure it was him on some throwaway account.

 

[FATTESTCUNT 2.0]

And tbh I am counting down the days he troons because I swear I saw on that cracked egg reddit a while ago a selfie with a 5 o clock shadow and clown red lipstick on a giant head that looked EXACTLY like him and it's haunted me and I am pretty sure it was him on some throwaway account.

You have to post that here! LOL.

But really, don't torture yourself by snooping on an ex. I'm an old fucker now, but I've done that several times and it has always been less than pointless. This particular guy was CLEARLY not the one, so don't waste you time, unless it's to document his troon out.

 

[weirdwound]

You have to post that here! LOL.

But really, don't torture yourself by snooping on an ex. I'm an old fucker now, but I've done that several times and it has always been less than pointless. This particular guy was CLEARLY not the one, so don't waste you time, unless it's to document his troon out.

I wish I had saved it but I didn't and kick myself for it just for the laughs it brought me.

And you right, snooping on him is pretty pointless

 

[FATTESTCUNT 2.0]

And you right, snooping on him is pretty pointless

When I've done it, it's out of wishful thinking, where in the back of my mind I would still like the relationship to continue, but I'm basing that solely on the best memories of the past, not the current reality, as if everything would be find if only we could go back to date X.

I've done it more than once too.

Sorry if I sound like a patronising prick by saying this BTW. I don't mean to.

 

[CrystalChevvy]

It's so over, UK troons. The bong tolls for thee!

Can't wait for this to spread. The breakdown of the tranny ideology has started in the UK. When it finally falls in the US, that's when it'll disappear also in other countries.
And we'll be left with some dark times of confronting how society was fine with giving double mastectomies to 13 year olds, sterilizing teenagers, turning psychiatrically unstable adults into eunuchs and letting men compete in women's sports.

I've never considered myself a conservative person and I'm still not, but the tranny thing is just going too far. I just watched a father of five, one of his sons still a toddler, turn tranny. From a seemingly perfectly normal guy to wearing women's clothes, makeup, getting his ears pierced for dangly female jewelry and talking about how he has womanly hips. It's a fucking brain rot and nobody can tell me anybody in that situation, including wife and children, is happier for it.

 

[AGP]

If you tell a troon that they look like a pooner or vice versa, would they take it as an insult or a compliment?

 

[CoolFool]

This might seem silly compared to other troon grievances, but I had to put it somewhere. I have realized that the troon movement has ruined an entire genre of fiction for me. I'm talking about the gender bending genre, or women pretending to be men for whatever reason.

I had this thought while watching a Korean drama. It's about this woman who has to pretend to be a guy in order for work. There's lots of drama because the main character confuses her coworkers (They find her strangely attractive despite being a "man"). Other issues involve her nearly being found out when she goes to the bathroom or changes her clothes. Eventually, the main love interest suffers a breakdown because he thinks he's gay since he is so attracted to a "guy". Etc...

Look, I know even before the troon movement, the thought that an average looking person could get away with pretending to be the opposite sex is unlikely, but at least the possibility was still there, no matter how slim. I mean, there are real historical figures that faked their gender to join the military or other professions, so it wasn't THAT hard for me to suspend my disbelief when watching these K and J dramas.

Now though? Forget it, even though I know it's just a silly show not to be taken seriously, I can't help but think there's no way people would believe that a woman could be a strangely attractive man. These days, they'd clock her instantly and just assume she's a gender special pooner, and either not put up with her nonsense or they would go along with it but only because they don't want to offend her. All the fun drama that comes from gender bending fiction would no longer exist because no one would actually believe the main character is a real man.

 

[The Ugly One]

The funny thing about the troon jihad is it's made me much more keenly aware of just how different men and women are at every age. There is a group of three old ladies that walk together in the park every morning. They're always chatting about old lady stuff, like their grandkids or husbands or whatever. I don't really listen in, but you know what I mean. I pass by them, and I hear a bit of old lady babble every day.

No troon in the world fantasizes about being like one of these ladies when he's pushing 70. I think @Otterly mentioned in another thread that for troons, "acting like women" never seems to be involved watching the children or caring about the appearance of the house. Nor does it involve wearing a loud jogging suit and going for a morning walk to talk to your old lady friends about your volunteer work at the children's hospital. Neither of them, not the AGPs nor the HSTSs, are women or want to be women.

And we'll be left with some dark times of confronting how society was fine with giving double mastectomies to 13 year olds, sterilizing teenagers, turning psychiatrically unstable adults into eunuchs and letting men compete in women's sports.

Because if you weren't fine with it, the cunts who run corporate HR will relieve you of your ability to earn a living. But the role handmaidens played in this won't be discussed.

 

[Otterly]

There is a group of three old ladies that walk together in the park every morning. They're always chatting about old lady stuff, like their grandkids or husbands or whatever.

This warms my heart, good on them. That kind of thing keeps you alive when you’re ninety. What’s the male equivalent? (You know there a place in Japan where everyone’s put in little groups at birth and you’re supposed to have your little group as life buddies and always be there for them. They all live to a grand old age, it’s one of those blue zones.)

for troons, "acting like women" never seems to be involved watching the children or caring about the appearance of the house.

Yeah. The absence of troons clamouring to be low paid carers, or do the hoovering is telling. The children are props. The babies are props to ‘breast’feed.

Neither of them, not the AGPs nor the HSTSs, are women or want to be women.

The irony is that paraphilia, and extreme sex drive is far more a male thing. They have a male sexuality that’s twisted and in hyperdrive. They couldnt be less female if they tried. Thisbalways makes me laugh when people say gay men are like women. Hell no. Very few women want to have sex like that.

 

[Baraadmirer]

This might seem silly compared to other troon grievances, but I had to put it somewhere. I have realized that the troon movement has ruined an entire genre of fiction for me. I'm talking about the gender bending genre, or women pretending to be men for whatever reason.

Now I have to wonder how Twelfth Night is going to put on in these times, or if it'll be culturally banned for crossdressing.

 

[Hassou Tobi]

Honestly, has the troon movement made anyone more homophobic? I wouldn't call myself literally homophobic because I've dated/slept with other women. And I don't care if someone else is gay. Yet just like people blame feminism for troons, I see so much of the push from troons as extending from the gay rights movement/general push to make gays a part of everyday life.

I know the response is "it's because gay rights orgs were captured by troon ideologues after gay marriage was won to keep fundraising, etc", many everyday gays/lesbians hate troons for trying to force them to have sex with them, etc etc.

And yet...
for instance they just announced a gay character on Bluey (show I enjoy with my nieces) and I wish they hadn't? First step to introducing a troon character to the kids, etc.

 

[Mayor Cody Travers]

Honestly, has the troon movement made anyone more homophobic?

My brother is gay, gay as the dickens and he despises troons not just for one pooner he visited hiding the fact she was one, but for this very reason.

He doesn't mention it much, but when he does, he's terrified LGB rights and acceptance will be rolled back big-time when the pendulum swings... and he blames it entirely on troons and them encouraging the more degenerate side of LGB people to come back out again since the gay rights movement of the 90s-00s.

 

[Baraadmirer]

Honestly, has the troon movement made anyone more homophobic? I wouldn't call myself literally homophobic because I've dated/slept with other women. And I don't care if someone else is gay. Yet just like people blame feminism for troons, I see so much of the push from troons as extending from the gay rights movement/general push to make gays a part of everyday life.

I know the response is "it's because gay rights orgs were captured by troon ideologues after gay marriage was won to keep fundraising, etc", many everyday gays/lesbians hate troons for trying to force them to have sex with them, etc etc.

And yet...
for instance they just announced a gay character on Bluey (show I enjoy with my nieces) and I wish they hadn't? First step to introducing a troon character to the kids, etc.

I agree with the notion that a lot of organisations that used to focus on homosexual men and women have shifted over to trans-identified individuals because the former have been rather successfully integrated into (Western) society, and they need to stay relevant. In fact, if trans people somehow hypothetically managed to become integrated as well, they'd focus on some other group that isn't. I've been lucky enough to not have anyone trans proposition me for a hookup or anything on the apps.

The only trans character I can stand on TV right now is Paul Strickland from 9-1-1 Lone Star, and that's because Brian Michael Smith passes very well and the character doesn't have a lot of trans angst.

 

[Hassou Tobi]

In fact, if trans people somehow hypothetically managed to become integrated as well, they'd focus on some other group that isn't.

honestly, i used to roll my eyes at the "slippery slope" ppl...but now I think they were correct.

 

[Stupid Lisa Garbageface]

Honestly, has the troon movement made anyone more homophobic? I wouldn't call myself literally homophobic because I've dated/slept with other women. And I don't care if someone else is gay. Yet just like people blame feminism for troons, I see so much of the push from troons as extending from the gay rights movement/general push to make gays a part of everyday life.

I know the response is "it's because gay rights orgs were captured by troon ideologues after gay marriage was won to keep fundraising, etc", many everyday gays/lesbians hate troons for trying to force them to have sex with them, etc etc.

And yet...
for instance they just announced a gay character on Bluey (show I enjoy with my nieces) and I wish they hadn't? First step to introducing a troon character to the kids, etc.

Yeah, I've found myself bristling at pride flags and drag queens, even if they're the old flags and even if they're the irreverent, pre-2010's kind of drag queen. I hate that I'm starting to feel that way, because one of my dearest friends is gay and I don't want to associate the kweer movement with him (especially because he's sick of troons too lol.) But it's definitely starting to creep into my brain.

 

[Jarolleon]

I feel like most troons missed out on the childhood/adolescent lesson of “love yourself for who you are.” I can guarantee most people are not entirely happy with themselves or how they look. Sure I wish I was a 10/10 and pulled women left and right but that’s not the world we live in, most people aren’t that attractive and no type of surgery is going to change that. What’s the solution? Accept reality and learn to appreciate what you have, who you are, and focus on what you want to accomplish. For fucks sake I’ve seen horribly disfigured and disabled people lead better and happier lives than any troon. You would think after so many of them going through so many mutilations and still being just as miserable after the fact they would stop and think “hey maybe the reason I’m not happy is because of how I view myself and not how others view me.” But hey, can’t expect the mentally ill to think rationally.

I suspect they were given these messages loud and clear, but because they were delivered by schoolteachers, motivational posters, and similar pablum they tuned it out. A lot of troons are former edgelords who thought they were cool for seeing through this stuff.

 

[Space Police]

I know the response is "it's because gay rights orgs were captured by troon ideologues after gay marriage was won to keep fundraising, etc", many everyday gays/lesbians hate troons for trying to force them to have sex with them, etc etc.

And yet...
for instance they just announced a gay character on Bluey (show I enjoy with my nieces) and I wish they hadn't? First step to introducing a troon character to the kids, etc.

Lots of normie gays/lesbians blindly support trannies and child drag shows because they don't have kids and are already in relationships, plus they've spent years being brainwashed into thinking trannies are oppressed just like them. It will never not make me mad how, right when gay marriage was a done deal and conservatives had run out of steam with it, gay rights orgs supported trannies. Also, feeling that way about gay characters isn't homophobic -- if anything, treating those characters like that is homophobic because they're tokens used to meet an ESG criteria and encourage shipping fandoms, not out of any real concern for gay representation.

 

[F-14 Tomcat]

Why do trannies have such a burning vitriolic hate for detransitioners? I understand the whole "a heretic is worse than a heathen" explanation, but that's not really satisfactory. How do troons justify this in their own minds? I'd ask one myself but I'd rather not talk to them and they're allergic to hard questions anyways.

 

[AMHOLIO]

Why do trannies have such a burning vitriolic hate for detransitioners? I understand the whole "a heretic is worse than a heathen" explanation, but that's not really satisfactory. How do troons justify this in their own minds? I'd ask one myself but I'd rather not talk to them and they're allergic to hard questions anyways.

Betrayal from the inside of a group is painful, but you know that. The group is full of black and white thinkers so it doesn't help when you can only be good or willingly side with evil.

I think it's due to knowing whatever arguments the detransitioner has towards transitioning is twice as strong as any other arguments made since the detransitioners know the script, they know the doctorine, and they know why it is. The detransitioner stopping and revealing that it might have been a bad choice and here is the reality of their situation stops those who are still in the cult in their euphoria high. I think that some are terrified that they'll be just like the detrans, while others are addicts shrieking that someone is about to cut off their validation drug supply. Trying to avoid being miserable at all costs.

 

[Electric Mortar & Pestle]

I struggled with my identity when I was young. It's not like I thought I was a chick, I just didn't really feel like a man either.

I say this because, it feels like these people are putting an unnecessary mental and emotional burden on themselves. Now, I know I am a man. I have a penis. There are things that I do that are feminine, there are things that I do that are masculine. I don't ascribe myself to a label because of what I do or how I feel, I am simply me.

Why can't this be enough? Why can't people just be satisfied with the knowledge that they are themselves? Why do we have to torture each other over some stupid fucking label to describe the flavor of the month fad?