Maybe I'm just naive or very lucky, but even though I'm a quarter-Asian female, I've never really encountered
all these nightmare scenarios that I keep hearing about. The guys at conventions (both comic and gaming) have been civil, the gaming stores I've been to are polite, I've never been discriminated from a group for being female, have never been groped, never gotten a rape or death threat from a gaming forum, never been sexually harassed or assaulted by comic geeks or gamers and I've never heard these stories from my fellow female gaming friends. In fact, I find that being an attractive female in the gaming world can get you favors.
Ok, I've come across two white male gamers who were jerks and I'm not interested in MMORPGs. And the party I currently play with aren't the most politically correct, but then again, my sense of humor is pretty off-color at times. Maybe it's just me, though.