Well. My husband has another angle on my situation, one that I'm not sure how I feel about (flattered, awkward, a little bit of both). He thinks my supervisor has a thing for me.
I talk glowingly about the guy since he's the first boss I've ever had who's looked out for me and has mentored me instead of writing me off as an expendable body that can be easily replaced by another minimum wage slave. I've told him a few things about my boss that I haven't posted here, and the one incident that stands out was when I bit my lip in front of him.
We were talking about getting more people on the inventory team. I suffer from mild dehydration, so my lips are dry. I'd gotten into the habit of biting my bottom lip for dry skin (yeah, I know, it's gross... this was before I started carrying lip balm on my person). Without realizing it, in the middle of the conversation, I bit my lip. I didn't start scraping or anything. Just a slow slide to feel for any dry bits.
My supervisor's mood changed suddenly. He startled, then quickly looked away as if he were scanning for something along the wall. He tripped over his words a few times until he finally got back on track. We finished our conversation, then went our separate ways. Then I realized I'd been biting my lip, and while I didn't find anything gross, well, it might have appeared so to him.
When I told my husband about it, he gave me a mocking, sly look and called me a temptress. He then informed me that some men find lip biting to be hot... which I find weird, because what's hot about front teeth clamping down on a lip?
I'm a bit more confused now.
I also apply lots of lip balm and drink Gatorade on a regular basis, and I'm trying to cut down on the lip biting. It might have been contributing to the dryness.