Sex life as a straight man (stealth) & techniques
This is for anyone who feels like they are undesirable, you’re not. But you do need to be confident and get out there, even when actually achieving this confidence makes life SO MUCH better, fake it till you make it if you have to.
My sex life is great n have no complaints.
I’ve been binary stealth pretty much since high school (as much as I could be pre-T n young) it’s been nearly 20 yrs now so I would say that my relationships with straight cis women have been the same as any other cis dude.
I am cis passing so I believe that helps bc women get interested in me, come up to me, I get phone numbers, etc. I don’t tell them until I know we are going to fuck. All women I meet have been amazing, long/short term gfs, fwbs, one night stands (after getting to know them all night), etc.
This allows me to form a bond with them. They get to know me n get to trust me/ get comfortable with me, same goes for me. My dick size becomes less relevant when they start caring about me. By the time we gonna fuck I tell them in person and they get to decide whether they want to reciprocate or not. I give them that option, but 10/10 they end up with my dick in their mouth kissing n sucking it because they’re so horny they want to make me cum too. I love getting my dick sucked.
I’m 30, 10+ yrs on T n I have never had any rejections from women due to being trans (yet, never say never). I had peri, I am pre-Op bottom but I’ve been really lucky with my growth so there really isn’t a lack of dick, just size (2.3inch). I’m strictly top, I don’t use my vagina at all so they don’t gotta worry about that either.
Prosthetic info
I use my semi hard gendercat prosthetic 6ish inch w a cake bandit skin colored harness, my growth, mouth, and hands to fuck them and I’ve never had any complaints. I can cum thru PIV with said prosthetic.
The sticky back sticks onto my foreskin so when I thrust, the prosthetic strokes my dick by moving my foreskin back n forth, causing me to cum.
When I put my prosthetic on, I make it easier for us by putting the pouch it’s in on the floor by the bed next to me. I start the usual way, making out, touching, grabbing, fingering, all foreplay, etc. the last thing I do is to move down onto her pussy and start using my mouth on her and I’m fingering her. I then stop the fingering and start to put on my prosthetic as I’m licking her pussy. When I’ve completely put on my prosthetic, I stop with my mouth, I get up, and slide my dick in her. After that, I can do anything I want
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You can also ask her to play with her pussy as you’re putting it on or simply having a vibrating toy on her giving you some time.
As long as you know how to fuck, you’re good.
If anyone who sees this has any questions, feel free to ask. DMs are also open.
