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I got a relative with me now, though my head still feels weird, it was empty earlier as before the fall my head has more activity, i don't know why but i drank a lot of cold water just now to try and get brain freeze to see if i can feel my head, only partially worked despite drinking a whole 2 gallon bottle, i feel more activity when i do something though, like typing here, like I'm resetting something in my head because it feels less like its empty and more like its missing something, i also took Amitriptyline after the fall as i had a history of migrane from being bullied and hit on the head previously
 
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welp, might as well as for advice here, i've been reducing my food intake the past few weeks and lost enough weight to the point i'm happy but i've been having fainting spells and vision problems on occasion, a few hours ago, i lost my vision whilst drinking water and hit my head and fell more of less arm and head first into the ground, my mug broke but the shards didn't go far so there's no bleeding thankfully, i have a bump now near my elbow, should i just leave it or put ice on it ?
You sound anorexic. I don't think there's any amount of weight you can lose in "a few weeks" that's worth fainting over in addition to all these other symptoms you've described. The exact same shit happened to me in HS, where I did a no-rules-OMAD because I was a stupid teenager and thought calories in/calories out was all it took.

It's not. Calories are energy, first and foremost, and they're also not the full picture. Nutrition plays a huge role in dieting too. Less in the "losing weight" part, but more for your well-being. Nutrient deficiencies come from not putting enough good shit into your body, and this all sounds like heavy deficiencies to me. You mentioned that you'll have ONE "chicken part" with eggs and fuckin cereal for a meal. I implore you to take the advice you've already received, as well as introduce things like leafy greens and vegetables into your diet. Also find a way to get yourself some electrolytes and take a multivitamin.

Then there's the problem of sustainability. Eating next to nothing every day so suddenly is self-inflicted torture. There are only two outcomes if you continue this: hospital, or becoming heavier than what you started at.
 
Oh yeah I will also be supplementing my usual Dunkin Donuts large iced coffee with caffeine pills lol forgot to mention that
 
You sound anorexic. I don't think there's any amount of weight you can lose in "a few weeks" that's worth fainting over in addition to all these other symptoms you've described. The exact same shit happened to me in HS, where I did a no-rules-OMAD because I was a stupid teenager and thought calories in/calories out was all it took.

It's not. Calories are energy, first and foremost, and they're also not the full picture. Nutrition plays a huge role in dieting too. Less in the "losing weight" part, but more for your well-being. Nutrient deficiencies come from not putting enough good shit into your body, and this all sounds like heavy deficiencies to me. You mentioned that you'll have ONE "chicken part" with eggs and fuckin cereal for a meal. I implore you to take the advice you've already received, as well as introduce things like leafy greens and vegetables into your diet. Also find a way to get yourself some electrolytes and take a multivitamin.

Then there's the problem of sustainability. Eating next to nothing every day so suddenly is self-inflicted torture. There are only two outcomes if you continue this: hospital, or becoming heavier than what you started at.
i understand that and am trying to eat normally now, its been 24 hours since my fall, my brain activity is better when i sleep but i have a strain on my back and neck, does it recover over time or should i use an ice pack
 
i understand that and am trying to eat normally now, its been 24 hours since my fall, my brain activity is better when i sleep but i have a strain on my back and neck, does it recover over time or should i use an ice pack
This strain on your back and neck started after the fall? It will go away, and if it doesn't after a few days, go to the quick care.

I would also suggest a hot soak in a bathtub, that usually helps.
 
This strain on your back and neck started after the fall? It will go away, and if it doesn't after a few days, go to the quick care.

I would also suggest a hot soak in a bathtub, that usually helps.
does cold water or a cold pack help, sorry for asking but i keep seeing different answers everywhere i look, i took my medication Amitriptyline that i had before for migraines, i feel like my head isn't as active as before the fall and that I'm on autopilot, i can still remember and recall things though
 
This stuff alarms me. I worked in healthcare back when ozempic was starting to be prescribed and I remember a colleague telling me "I wouldn't touch it if it were me!" It really seems like an extreme case of treating the symptom rather than the cause. Since cutting sugar largely out of my diet extreme hunger pangs have mostly vanished. If I do have hunger pangs it's because I'm actually hungry not because my blood sugar is in some wild swing state.
I'm horrified seeing so many doctors providing prescriptions despite these known side affects and additional medical issues. Even more pissed at my mother because she also worked in healthcare for over a decade and knows how to look up drug interactions. Today is the first time I've seen here in a week and she's gained a ton of water weight that I can't easily tell the cause of. I'm trying to get her to set up an appointment to visit her primary so we can find out the cause, but she's absolutely refusing to come off these drugs. I'm worried there may be an addictive side effect/component that isn't well known yet and I'm praying it's just stubbornness.

So why is that Ozempic stuff bad, again? Everyone's shouting it as a miracle drug (which is sus) but they were trying to keep it exclusive to Hollywood types for years which lead some credence to it.
Just anecdotal, but I'm hearing the side effects from friends and family and I don't think shitting or starving to death from being unable to eat is healthy. I'm not sure it's easy to find research papers that will give you the full scale of issues or that consumers will really hear about the true benefits or damage that it causes until 5 years from now IF we're lucky. I would be skeptical and cautious about taking it if you have medical issues beyond just weight and joints that could be triggering the weight gain such as heart, kidney, or hormonal stuff.

Please, please, please see a doctor. This should not be happening if you're getting enough food and you may have lost too much weight too quickly. Knowing basic diet you are not hitting 1k cal a day which is the bare min for a short female. IF you keep that up for too long you may lose weight but it's all muscle and not fat, human bodies will consume it's own muscle BEFORE the fat if you're not working out at all and are under feeding. Please go to a doctor and get a blood test to see were you are with blood sugar, salts, thyroid and so on. And go get hydrated ASAP! Drink some Coconut water or Pedialyte and that should help a lot with the brain fog. You need salts for the brains electrical circuit to work! IF you are doing a lot of sports like myself it can be counter intuitive but you need to weigh more; muscle is weight. Don't let some random ass hat calling you fat trick you into suicide, get strong enough to toss their ass across the room.

I honestly think more people should learn about the the Minnesota starvation experiment before ever going on a diet:
 
This might be obvious advice to some people who are watching their calorie intake, but someone told me "half the time your body is telling you that youre hungry you actually just need to drink water". It sounded ridiculous to me at first but for the past few weeks, it's stopped me from thinking I need that late night snack or extra dessert. It helps to just have a water bottle right next to you at all times so you can just throw it back whenever you get munchies.
 
does cold water or a cold pack help, sorry for asking but i keep seeing different answers everywhere i look, i took my medication Amitriptyline that i had before for migraines, i feel like my head isn't as active as before the fall and that I'm on autopilot, i can still remember and recall things though
Ice packs and cold water have the purpose of reducing inflamation so that bloodflow isn't blocked. They reduce swelling. If you don't have swelling then an icepack probably wont help. Can also help after intensive sports but that's not something it sounds like you've been doing. You've asked a number of times here for advice about impact and worse, head impact. This is a support thread for people doing weight loss. I'm not being unfriendly here - you should seek help from qualified clinicians if you're worried.

Also, having dieted for a few weeks and achieved your desired weight is in all probability not a good thing. It suggests rapid starvation approach. And possibly unrealistic ideas about what your weight should be (i.e. anorexia).

I'm horrified seeing so many doctors providing prescriptions despite these known side affects and additional medical issues. Even more pissed at my mother because she also worked in healthcare for over a decade and knows how to look up drug interactions. Today is the first time I've seen here in a week and she's gained a ton of water weight that I can't easily tell the cause of. I'm trying to get her to set up an appointment to visit her primary so we can find out the cause, but she's absolutely refusing to come off these drugs. I'm worried there may be an addictive side effect/component that isn't well known yet and I'm praying it's just stubbornness.

Sorry to hear about your mother. I don't know that the drug is addictive (have heard nothing about that, at least) but I imagine the return of hunger pangs is a disincentive to come off if. Is she Type-2 Diabetes? That was its original intention but it seems to be used by many as a general weight-loss drug now.

Just anecdotal, but I'm hearing the side effects from friends and family and I don't think shitting or starving to death from being unable to eat is healthy. I'm not sure it's easy to find research papers that will give you the full scale of issues or that consumers will really hear about the true benefits or damage that it causes until 5 years from now IF we're lucky. I would be skeptical and cautious about taking it if you have medical issues beyond just weight and joints that could be triggering the weight gain such as heart, kidney, or hormonal stuff.
Like yourself, I feel the human body is so complex that doing anything on this scale - both in its effect and in how many people are suddenly going on it - is reckless. One's appetite is a fundamental bodily sense. And over-eating isn't necessarily a response to physical hunger either, it's often done for psychological reasons, comfort-eating or the "pleasure" of a sugar high. So far as I know the mechanism is that it both hinders your ability to produce sugar and slows down the speed of digestion. It also, according to wikipedia, possibly encourages the growth of pancreatic cells which is actually pretty cool if so as isn't that reversing diabetes?

Maybe it's fine - I don't know. But I wouldn't imagine it's a good thing for active people who actually need to eat and might inadvertently be under-nourished through taking it. Not all food consumption is about calories. But what do I know? The problem is there is so much money to be made I just can't trust anyone else to reliably inform me. We saw with the Covid vaccines just how corrupt the medical oversight bodies are.

EDIT: Case in point about how much money is tied up in this drug:
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EDIT EDIT: Amended my post slightly for accuracy as I had Ozempic slightly confused with Tirzepatide, which is similar in some ways but a different drug.
 
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Figure out your TDEE. (The amount of calories you need to neither lose nor gain weight.)


Then eat ~500 calories less per day. Log everything on myfitnesspal so you know how many calories you're actually eating.

If it says you're not eating enough, you aren't eating enough.
Just wanted to say specifically thank you for sharing that link. That is the best BMR calculator I have ever seen and good info in the hover-overs as well.
 
I've been stuck bouncing back and forth between the same 2-3 pounds for at least two weeks. I hoped that it was from not tracking my calories accurately, but it seems that I need to change things up to continue trimming down.
I did need to add new holes to my belt, so I'll count that as some progress.
 
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I've been stuck bouncing back and forth between the same 2-3 pounds for at least two weeks. I hoped that it was from not tracking my calories accurately, but it seems that I need to change things up to continue trimming down.
I did need to add new holes to my belt, so I'll count that as some progress.
At least there’s progress being shown! Well done. I had to donate a pair of jeans because they were way too big on me. They were already slightly too big for me when I first got them but wearable.
 
Ice packs and cold water have the purpose of reducing inflamation so that bloodflow isn't blocked. They reduce swelling. If you don't have swelling then an icepack probably wont help. Can also help after intensive sports but that's not something it sounds like you've been doing. You've asked a number of times here for advice about impact and worse, head impact. This is a support thread for people doing weight loss. I'm not being unfriendly here - you should seek help from qualified clinicians if you're worried.

Also, having dieted for a few weeks and achieved your desired weight is in all probability not a good thing. It suggests rapid starvation approach. And possibly unrealistic ideas about what your weight should be (i.e. anorexia).
To build on what Overly is saying here, a bump on your noggin will probably feel better with an icepack, at the very least. But we're not really qualified to speak on head injuries. You didn't logout forever like Billy Mayes, so you're past what I was worried could happen.

If your desired weight was only a few pounds down, doing that in a week or two is fine. If you lost 20+ pounds in 1-3 weeks, that's not sustainable. I lost ~20 pounds in 7 days in March because my daily calorie intake was 0 for those 7 days. It was almost all water. I've gained it all back since then.

Your average bodyweight over time is representative of your lifestyle. You can adjust it one way or another, but if you want changes to stick, you have to change your lifestyle.

If you're eating a chicken strip and an egg or two a day, that's ~150 to 250 calories. That will kill you if you keep it up. If that's not a worry -- you're young and invincible, yeah? -- then it will also put you in starvation mode and your body will stop performing weight loss to try and save your life.


Create an account. It's free. Don't use your Farms username. Log your food as best you can.


Figure out your TDEE. Aim for calorie totals under your TDEE, or raise your TDEE by going on walks.

+- 500 calories a day is 1 pound of weight loss/gain a week. You can't realistically do more than 2 pounds a week.
 
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I think diet sodas are fine in moderation. Diet soda triggers your insulin and food triggers your insulin. If you trigger your insulin constantly throughout the day, that can make it harder to get results when dieting. It's just as simple as having it with your meal and not drinking whole cans every hour. I lose roughly 3lbs a week and I drink it, it's not the boogeyman people make it out to be. When people get down to the molecular level of nutrition, they lose sight of full pictures and golden rules. It's why there's so much debate and confusion around dieting. It takes a keen eye to see past the noise and it sucks because that takes part of the blame as to why people struggle.
 
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