What got me wasn't any of the shit about grooming and such (although yeah it is an issue). But there's just an underlying logical problem with it that there's no getting passed.
What initially suckered me in to the troon shit was the difference between gender and sex. Okay, yeah, you can be a male, and that's rooted in biology. But surely being a "man" has more to do with social norms and such? So at that point I was fine with saying that a male can be a woman. After all, there's a difference between biology and our social norms, right?
Well, this is where the problems start. What exactly makes a male a woman? Is it all performative? Does looking, sounding, and acting like a woman make someone a woman? Well, that's obviously pretty sexist, and does it mean that less feminine females aren't women? No. No one thinks that. So right there it doesn't make sense. And even if a tranny did pass, would they stop being a woman when they get home, take off their clothes and makeup, and start looking more like a man? If they don't revert back to being a man when they start to look more like one, then why? Do they stop being women if there's no one there to perceive them as women?
If it's not performative, is it self-identity? I'm a woman because I identify as one? Well, that's completely circular. A chair isn't a chair because it's been identified as a chair. It's a chair because it can be consistently described . Circular definitions are false by their very nature. For example -- a man who thinks of himself as a woman but still presents himself as a man. The term becomes totally meaningless. If it all comes down to self-identity, then you can live your life as a man, with everyone you encounter thinking of you as a man. But since it's self-identity, you can still be a woman, according to troon logic.
You can see why assenting to trannies generates all these complicated logical problems that you ultimately cannot resolve. I hit peak trans not because I was disgusted, or even because I was looking out at the world and seeing faggots like Lucas. I just realized past a certain point that there's no way to make it make sense.