i like to think i am a reasonable person. if you ask me to believe something is true, I will look into it to the best I can, with what I believe to be sound reasoning. if I can not make it make sense, then I can not believe it. this is my problem with a lot of things, but the trans stuff especially.
if gender isn't real and you can just BE whatever gender you want. I.E if I just want to be a girl, I just can be. why do things like sexual reassignment surgery or gender reaffirming surgery exist? why should I need a pussy made for me? i thought it was fine to have a feminine penis, no?
how do you know you have a female brain instead of a male brain? usually to know if you have one thing over another, you need a comparison. i know I like one kind of cake over another, because I've had both. if you've presumably only had the one brain you've had your entire life, how do you know it's a male or female brain? you've never had another brain to compare it by? also by saying there even is such a thing as a "male/female brain" already means the sex binary is real? which contradicts the argument above?
why is it that they claim gender isn't real, but transwomen can only express being a woman through what is typically seen as being a woman? such as higher voice, wearing dresses, makeup, etc etc. why do transguys have to act tough and learn how to be men etc etc. this implies there is an inherent difference between the two genders, which, again, contradicts the idea that gender doesn't exist?
I know this doesn't account for any of the pedo shit or the society shit, but my reasoning is very simple. the above points I've made do not make sense to me, so we're left with two options. Either the trannies are insane, at which point I don't need to care about them, or I am insane, at which point I have much bigger problems than a man in a dress.