I just kind of want to meet someone who has seen the depravity of the internet/modern age and rejects it, but I haven't met anyone with these values, not to mention someone I have organic sexual attraction to....
You're demanding than I think you realize you are. If you're a nerdy girl with nerdy interests, the reality is the guys who are going to chase after you are nerdy guys who are hardcore soy boy coomer degenerates. Those are the types who will Troon out or be invested in coomer shit. The reality is, the people who know and understand the depravity of the internet are usually the type of people immersed in it. You're basically limiting your scope to Kiwi Farmers and nothing else.
I dated quite a bit around a decade ago in college, but made the mistake of not pursuing a life partner at the time. Now that I work a full time job with minimal free time, I don't know where I would go to physically meet girls.
I just want to disclaim that I'm not saying you have this problem specifically, but I'm more stating the following as a general broad statement:
The problem I think a lot of people don't understand is there's a logistics game to dating that people often ignore. If your day consists of going to waking up, going to work, coming home, making dinner and playing video games 5 days of the week, and your weekends spent on chores or work around your home and video games, you will NEVER find a girlfriend irl. It is virtually impossible because you waste your days at home and not giving yourself a chance to meet anyone. If you have a social life, dating is easy. If you have no social life, dating is difficult. You have to go where women are.
Have you considered dating? both you seem to think alcohol solves problems .
Bitch, I say bars and clubs because whether anybody likes it or not, lots of women go to bars and clubs. That has not changed. Despite all zoomer faggotry, women have not stopped going out at night. Women do not sit around at home playing Helldivers for 6+ hours on a Friday/Saturday night. They do not view that as fun and often go out to bars and clubs with your friends. The entire nightlife scene is entirely propped up by women and always has been and still is. Even women who don't like going to bars or clubs, often get dragged out by their friends anyway and if you want to meet women, it's the best place to start.
The reality is women touch grass and that is never changing. If you absolutely can't go to a bar or club because you don't like drinking or you're too socially retarded to say "hi", then you're stuck with wherever you can find. Women often go to events and concerts, and other things too, so you'll have to try there. That's just the logistical reality of this. You have to give yourself as much interaction in public with people as possible. Even if it's going to Starbucks or some shit on your way to work. You have to give yourself every chance in public you possibly can. You can't spend your days just going to work and going home and watching Netflix until bedtime if you want to meet someone irl. The odds are just not logistically in your favor. I wish more people understood this, but many anecdotes in this thread make it apparent that people don't.
The biggest factor that made me stop dating in late college though, was when I noticed a significant uptick in the phenomenon of girls deciding that they had incurable diseases/mental conditions/genetic disorders/misc. health problems that needed to dictate every single aspect of their lives.
That's why my approach shifted towards not tolerating that stuff. If a woman mentioned that stuff to me, I immediately wrote them off and moved on to the next one. They were men to me now. It pissed off a lot of them. I heard "that's so fucked up, just because you have anxiety you're going to ghost me?!" A lot. The answer was always Yes. Stay away from crazy brother.
That said, I haven't completely scratched meeting the right girl off as a possibility yet. I just genuinely don't know where it would happen.
Personally, I recommend Passport Bro. However if that's too extreme, I suggest a change of scenery. The other logistical thing people don't talk about is if you live in the same town for X amount of years and time and everyone knows your name and face, you're no longer interesting. But if you were to go to a small town far away and people don't recognize you, you'd get more attention. If you want to find someone- go where people find you interesting and give you attention.
