why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

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I already feel delusional following my own "standards"/morals if there is nobody else doing it and the years are starting to add up. You are essentially "cucking yourself" (as the meme goes) for something that doesn't exist.
I've thought about it, imagining myself giving up my moral standards and came to the conclusion that I would not be truly fulfilled if I settled for a whore. I would not be happy. The very idea would poison my mind constantly, to the point of it becoming unbearable.
Even if you are right about there not being such women, (which you are not, it is statistically impossible,) dying alone is still a lesser evil, at least in my eyes. I am relatively young, though, maybe It'll start feeling worse as the years pass by, but I simply couldn't live with constant shame and anger at myself. My first thought each morning would be that of bitter regret. I would eventually kill both her and myself.

My post did look like an emo kid's diary, so here's a funny picture to make up for it.
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it can. Where maybe in younger years you don't care so much. Or can ignore it. This gets heavier and heavier as you age
I'm finding it to be the opposite. It still bothers me sometimes, but less and less often as I get older.

I missed the window and that's just the way it is. Nothing I can do about it now. No point in being depressed. Best to just try to find happiness in other things.
 
I'm finding it to be the opposite. It still bothers me sometimes, but less and less often as I get older.

I missed the window and that's just the way it is. Nothing I can do about it now. No point in being depressed. Best to just try to find happiness in other things.
This is what most spergs here who love to harp about how being single is akshually bad mmkay? don't get: If we're past the age of finding/landing a girlfriend and we're either doomed to die alone or have only BPD single mothers and other kinds of leftover women as an option (both are speedrun any % to complete misery BTW) then what's the point of caring about dating game shenanigans? Just to further feel awful about yourself?
 
This is what most spergs here who love to harp about how being single is akshually bad mmkay? don't get: If we're past the age of finding/landing a girlfriend and we're either doomed to die alone or have only BPD single mothers and other kinds of leftover women as an option (both are speedrun any % to complete misery BTW) then what's the point of caring about dating game shenanigans? Just to further feel awful about yourself?
Has nothing to do with that. Lonliness is painful
 
Weren't you who was calling me out for telling a soon-to-be 30 y.o. sperg that he's fucked for life for never dating?
Yeah, there's a difference between telling someone to give up and become the Brazilian Underground Man, and saying that your sex appeal decreases as you age. In fact, I'd recommend @⋖ cørdion ⋗ to not give up and secure poon as soon as possible rather than become a monk hoping for lucky reincarnation.
 
I have come to the conclusion that in my current state I am simply not ready for a romantic relationship of any kind. Either you develop enough mental stability, confidence and personality to get together with someone equally healthy, or you remain single and chill. And that's ok. Not everyone is cut out for dating or marriage. In fact, there are far too many people who shouldn't be in relationships at all, and who bring each other nothing but pain and misery. People who grow to hate each other but still have children or live together because of economic circumstances.

Imagine looking for a relationship just to spread your tard genes when you have nothing to offer to said new life. What do you want? More autism in the world than there already is?
 
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It gets worse as you get older

How old is old? Most men I know with any kind of experience would rather have their nuts pulled off with a trailer hitch than date or get married again. The few ones who don't talk like that are too beat down to figure out anything other than surviving into the next 24 hours.

The non-romantic component of female companionship is basically spider to the fly. A random KiwiBro diagnosing you with autism has more positive intentions than that smelly thing in your bed that has no clear opinion about whether you should wake up tomorrow or not.
 
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