why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

[National Defense Advocate]

I'm bad at conversation and flirting and I'm not handsome or rich enough to make up for it.

 

[Local Fed]

@JamusActimus, regarding the couple of posts you made on the last page of this thread about seeing poor male behaviour and being afraid that you'll emulate it: the fact that you're put off by it and don't wish to mirror it is probably a good sign about you. If you're actually worried about it, I don't think you're someone that people need to worry about.

It's how I largely view people who are planning to/are about to become parents. The ones who understand how serious of an obligation it is aren't the ones you generally need to worry about in regards to actually giving the kid(s) a decent shake at life. The ones who YOLO into it and have a mentality of "omg having a kid would be like such a vibe???" are the ones who are primed to doom their spawn (and society.)

 

[peepoopeepoo]

Alright perhaps I am coping somewhat, they can use the government (aka our tax money) for financial support instead of us. But at the very least there is one thing the government can't offer and that is company. We can survive alone, women who don't manage to put a ring on Chad go insane, and if there are less beta orbiters around then they have a modicum more chance of being lonely.

And yet, it's male loneliness that seems to be on the rise, the difference being men won't have any support whatsoever.

I'm more of the opinion it's going to be shitty for both sexes, it's just going to be manifested in different ways.

 

[geckogoy]

I'm more of the opinion it's going to be shitty for both sexes, it's just going to be manifested in different ways.

Women blundering into middle age and suddenly realizing they don't have kids has always been an issue, but since jews have total narrative/media/propaganda control and want white people wiped out this is being maximized to a comical degree.

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TL;DR I blame a multigenerational revenge plot against my race and jewish world domination attempt for why I cannot get a GF

 

[National Defense Advocate]

Women blundering into middle age and suddenly realizing they don't have kids has always been an issue, but since jews have total narrative/media/propaganda control and want white people wiped out this is being maximized to a comical degree.

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TL;DR I blame a multigenerational revenge plot against my race and jewish world domination attempt for why I cannot get a GF

>Jews are so mad about an event they made up, they're gonna try to wipe out my race.

It didn't happen, but it should have.

 

[Wright]

I honestly just have zero romantic interest in women, and not much more in the way of just purely sexual interest. Just seems those kinds of feelings have never come to me naturally at any point in time. I've sometimes heard talk from other guys some years my senior about how getting bitches on their dick or whatever was practically their #1 priority as a teenager or young adult and frankly that talk comes off as super alien and bizarre to me, because after over 20 years of existence I can say I have never felt a longing for romantic relations or even just sex with anyone else, out in the real world. And best I can tell I've never had serious homosexual/homoromantic feelings either, to be clear lol. I'm still relatively young so all this could still change in the future of course, but going by these historical conditions.. I can make the forecast that those winds are unlikely (but not impossible) to shift in the future.
I'm fond of the Biblical phrase "be fruitful and multiply".. It's a good one for people to follow I'm sure, but unfortunately not quite something I can make a promise on doing. Thinking off the top of my head, the only real interest with staying power I've ever had in my life is cars. And watching cars go 'round in circles (i.e. auto racing). Well lol, that just might be what I'll be doing until the day I die.
Sorry if that came off a bit blabbery or schizo. I just saw an opportunity to put down some thoughts I don't usually write about lol

 

[Geddy Lee's Fee and See]

I honestly just have zero romantic interest in women, and not much more in the way of just purely sexual interest. Just seems those kinds of feelings have never come to me naturally at any point in time. I've sometimes heard talk from other guys some years my senior about how getting bitches on their dick or whatever was practically their #1 priority as a teenager or young adult and frankly that talk comes off as super alien and bizarre to me, because after over 20 years of existence I can say I have never felt a longing for romantic relations or even just sex with anyone else, out in the real world. And best I can tell I've never had serious homosexual/homoromantic feelings either, to be clear lol. I'm still relatively young so all this could still change in the future of course, but going by these historical conditions.. I can make the forecast that those winds are unlikely (but not impossible) to shift in the future.
I'm fond of the Biblical phrase "be fruitful and multiply".. It's a good one for people to follow I'm sure, but unfortunately not quite something I can make a promise on doing. Thinking off the top of my head, the only real interest with staying power I've ever had in my life is cars. And watching cars go 'round in circles (i.e. auto racing). Well lol, that just might be what I'll be doing until the day I die.
Sorry if that came off a bit blabbery or schizo. I just saw an opportunity to put down some thoughts I don't usually write about lol

I just think you haven't found a woman worth pursuing. I can tell you I felt similarly when I was your age because I realized that all in all, woman are time/money/effort vampires that really don't appreciate the man they're with as much as they should because they have a wealth of options out there. The vast majority of the dudes chasing after chicks and focusing on them so much don't do much for themselves or their life by doing so, especially considering the average woman in the West at the moment.


Just find a sustsainable career path that you love and then try to find a girlfriend/wife that compliments the lifestyle you want (possibly along the way if you see a viable candidate) rather than hapahazardly chasing women and then ending up as another casualty in the meat grinder known as society. A typical woman won't make you happy and often does the exact opposite in addition to wasting your life, but a woman that respects, loves and cherishes you as much as you should her will make your life so much easier, it's unreal.

Edit: Minor grammar stuff

 

[Yezidi Fan Club]

Fat and gay appearance
Boohoo

 

[GoysGoneWild]

Women blundering into middle age and suddenly realizing they don't have kids has always been an issue, but since jews have total narrative/media/propaganda control and want white people wiped out this is being maximized to a comical degree.

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Fucking fuck that chart. We've only cracked 30% and its already levelling off. I don't know what the fuck this is going to mean for people but damn it isn't good.
You can probably find a cohabiting chart out there that will at least make the relationship numbers look better, but I'm sure its still not great.

The whole thing is just so sad. Nothing we're doing is making either sex happier.
I can look at that and more or less realize that basically none of my exes are likely to get married (all pretty much either 30 years old or damn close to it). If they haven't done it by now.......the numbers aren't in their favor.

We are in a society that encourages people to be mentally ill and have no lasting relationship skills. Any ancestral knowledge we had towards that stuff died out with the boomer's parents.

The people that emerge from this generational crunch are going to be different. We'll have to create something new to forge ahead. Or just lay down and die. Idk. I could see either happening. I just hope it isn't too late for me (33m) to get something better than my exes.

 

[geckogoy]

We'll have to create something new to forge ahead. Or just lay down and die.

We need a homeland for white people and only for white people. Other people can have their place or whatever but somewhere white people can do things their way is the only option. Alternatively if you don't actually care whether people like you exist or not, dont worry life will go on.

In other words our jewish overlords must be overthrown.

 

[Alex Hogendorp]

We need a homeland for white people and only for white people. Other people can have their place or whatever but somewhere white people can do things their way is the only option. Alternatively if you don't actually care whether people like you exist or not, dont worry life will go on.

In other words our jewish overlords must be overthrown.

I don't think any race should have such an extent of power that Jews have. It just gives them the incentive to abuse it once more.

 

[Ibanez RG 350EX]

I just think you haven't found a woman worth pursuing. I can tell you I felt similarly when I was your age because I realized that all in all, woman are time/money/effort vampires

I agree; they are. That's why I don't think there are any "worth pursuing". Not because the women I've known are terrible people or anything, but because the essential nature of romantic relationships is undesirable. There's always a sense of relief when I've gotten out of relationships because suddenly my time and attention and efforts belong to me again, rather than being continuously negotiated for with someone else.

I'll be 40 in just a few more years and have never met anyone in my life that would make that kind of arrangement compelling. Not even close.

 

[888Flux]

because robowaifus haven't been invented yet

 

[Falcos_Commisar]

I think so, the screening room in my building had a strict no food or drink policy, so we went to the movie theater, then we strolled though the park, went though a museum, and got some curry for dinner. We were enjoying ourselves and some light flirting. I ended it with a hug because by the time we parted ways. Mainly because are hands were full at the time, i was feeling a sickness coming on and I got nervous. But with Taiwanese girls you tend to be a little slower and a hug is a good sign because that is seen as romantic over here. We have another date in a few weeks because we are both busy next weekend. I'm going to propose a dinner date at my place and cook her something.

Alright sounds like a great success

I'm not single, I plan on being married.

Spoiler: word vomit

My issue is I don't exactly feel loved or happy 100%. I admit I chase(d) short term happiness like junk food habit because it made brain go "haha". Same thing applies to horny encounters.
BTW I'm overweight, got depression, was given two super shitty father figures (biological father & step father), introverted as all hell, wore headphones / long-sleeved jacket / chest binder for short periods. Hell before my first real job I was a NEET for at least six years, talking to random people online. I meet this one guy and had basically chatted to him a few years and wanted to meet and be with him. My issue with that guy was long distance and my love language was physical touch. I miss talking to him cause he was a friend before a "lover". I'm honest to God starting to think I just settled for the first guy who gave me attention and I'm constantly torn about if I even picked the correct person. I am not sane or normal as I picked an already married man. I'm a mess.

You're right, you absolutely picked the first guy that was nice / gave you any attention. It's very common and can end very badly.

I knew someone who did that and he was an ex-felon, followed by an older guy she cheated, and so on, ending up with abusive men or guys using her as a rebound then leaving her.

Don't screw around with married men, they aren't leaving their wives and even f they do they'll leave you too.

I don't care about race so much although I'm more partial to Asian or half-Asian chicks. Regardless, I've noticed that this valley girl mentality is very much universal among young women and it really is a massive turn off. Nothing is more boner killing than a woman that doesn't know basic house-management skills, has zero talent or personality and whom I literally have nothing in common with in terma of interests. That's not even counting the physical and emotional incompatibilities that most women seem to exhibit when it comes to men.

I really do think that most men aren't happy with modern women, but they are so cucked, they'll just grin and bear it rather than making it known that something is dreadfully wrong.

In my experience, Asians / hafus in the USA are either 1. Nerd/nerd adjacent girls who have a decent likelihood of going trans 2. Asian Baby Girls (ABGs) who are basically vapid White girls in Asian bodies. Self absorbed, chasing chads, etc.

My only gf was like that. She talked about how hardcore she was for watching that new Rammstein music video that was also a porno shoot (this was around 2007). I couldn't help but laugh at her a bit, but it was endearing. She was also a massive weeaboo and always carried a rolling suitcase to all of her classes. Got really embarrassed when I mad dumb sex jokes but still laughed anyway. We only really split up due to me going out of the country for my first year of high school and we never saw each other after that, even when I came back. Sucks, but I'll always treasure I had with her.


Generally, I like women that wear their eccentricities with pride and don't hide who they really are in addition to being intelligent, thoughtful, caring and sweet and not making what makes them different center stage. Most girls know how put on the appearance of that but they rarely ever do it well. It's only gotten worse as time has moved on and social media masks everything with this false appearances. Unforrunately, I'm in a graduate program right now, so I'm not really looking super deeply. But if I happen upon a single chick like that, I will snag her up ASAP.

Ohh man you're going to have a HARD time finding a girl like that. I remember a few of those from HS. Now 15 years later they're usually obese, trannies, married to the first guy that gave them sexual attention or single with cats.

The fat thing is so common finding a non obese girl that's into nerd shit is like finding gold in a stream.

I know you don't want to hear this, but a lot of women LIKE this stuff. You really have to pay close attention to a partner's home life but if her parents are dysfunctional, she'll be dysfunctional because she thinks that's the norm. If you try to be Mr. Perfect, she'll run a fucking train on your life. Women from broken homes are like broken toys, they're addicted to the chaos and if you try to give them order and normalcy, they'll ruin it because they think they don't deserve it and they like the dysfunction. That's why you see so many women bending over backwards for literal gutter trash tier men.

Nobody teaches women these days how they should be treated. Their parents sure AF don't.

Fuck yes. The last two girls I dated/tries to date (long story) had horrific home lives and actively HATED their fathers.

I can understand maybe not being on Amazing terms with your parents but when it morphs to active hatred it is a gigantic warning sign.

Those women are usually drawn to shitty men who'll abuse them and are also usually extremely promiscuous (looking for ANYTHING to get male attention and validation)

 

[Kel1 shi1]

Don't screw around with married men, they aren't leaving their wives and even f they do they'll leave you too.

Lot of truth here. A man chooses a mistress based on the fact that she'll fit into the free windows he has and quite possibly is OK if he's married. Perhaps assuming that she'll inherit the wife's lifestyle when she's out the picture. The reality is that once the wife has gone he's now got access to the whole market and not just his little window box and she knows he cheated on his wife and all his secrets. This could potentially make her insecure unless she was just after the bag all the time.

The smart man will ditch the liability.

 

[Gender: Xenomorph]

Just find a sustsainable career path

Harder than it seems. Boomers now hog all the good workplaces/careers and only give spots to nignogs and pajeets.

We need a homeland for white people and only for white people.

Yup. Let's have it placed in the middle of other countries that deeply despise us so that they can launch missiles unprovoked and cry genocide when we inevitably retaliate.

 

[cybertoaster]

IMHO Bumble is tinder with the hilarity of making women attempt an opening line.

Which is almost always "hi" or "hey", like at least send me a funny gif you lazy shit...

Back to the church girls, the ones I mentioned are the stealthy ones, the ones that don't have kids, don't have a bunch of visible tattoos nor a laundry list of requirements to just be near them. Talking the ones that seem too good to be true but thanks to the internet you can find out about their past "escapades".

married some doofus she met off Hinge after knowing him for ~1 month.

Why?

she's SoL as she lost her student visa

Ah greencard marriage, that's why...

Band dudes, certain types of photographers and a few other artists get mega chicks.

The band dudes I seen pulling ass are always successful or lying. I remember back in the 00's when ethoting was on its infancy and some chicks were doing "boudoir" which is softcore porn there were a lot of stories of photographers trading photos for sex, but what I heard from the girls themselves is that they would rather pay the creeps instead most of the time, one told me she gave one guy a handy-J but cut all connections when the spergs went around telling others she was his gf.

Never seen an arthoe with an actual artist bf, it was almost always a jock, a rich guy or someone efamous like a ytuber.

Women love creative men

They love successful and famous men, they don't care about a guy who is Michelangelo reborn but has less than 1k followers.

They buy into that whole "I'm a sage guru and my muse tells me to make this amazing artwork" bullcrap. They don't care if the guy is homeless and living in a tent and smells like shit.

Boomer wahmen bought into that back in the 60's and it didn't last long, they all went yuppie by the 80's.

and panders to the druggie festival hippie chicks, he'll literally swim in poon

That's basement level gash, you ever been to those festivals? the chicks would be at best an 8/10 if they actually tried but they don't. Trust me you don't want those girls, I been hit on by hippie chicks and the vinegar stank of dried armpit sweat and badly wiped ass plus greasy hair from WEEKS of not showering its gag-inducing.

"Imagine the smell" yeah I don't need to imagine shit...

Why do you think so many hoes love crystals?

Shiny shit plus influencers shilling the shit out of those. Worked during the new age era, why wouldn't it work on an entire new generation of shallow dumb women?

There is a wall. The wall is 30.

There is a wall but its nowhere near 30, its been moved so far I don't even think its 40 anymore as even those women get attention nowadays. I seen mid chicks in their thirties passing on men who were even younger than them.

I'm obese, a 2/10

Go on a diet, at least you're not a manlet needing to save for leg surgery.

I guy I know from work dropped 50 pounds from diet alone, it can be done.

I have mental health issues

How bad? meds? been in a facility?

and I peaked at 15

Peaked how?

 

[Kel1 shi1]

I don't even think its 40 anymore as even those women get attention nowadays. I seen mid chicks in their thirties passing on men who were even younger than them.

It doesn't matter what she looks like when she's old, just tell your buddies you're fucking a MILF / cougar. No, you're just fucking some old woman and would have been shamed for it back in the day.

 

[Party Hat Wurmple]

The band dudes I seen pulling ass are always successful or lying.

I've never seen a young successful band dude. Maybe some old guys who do it for fun. Never has there ever been a man under 40 who was a successful band dude outside of celebrities. They're ALL fucking losers without exception.

I also hate creative people in general so I may be a bit biased.

They love successful and famous men, they don't care about a guy who is Michelangelo reborn but has less than 1k followers.

No, they do love Michelangelo. They'll fuck those guys for years. Until the bills start coming. When life and reality hit, they drop these guys like hot potatoes once they hit early 20s. Real life demands money. Then they go for money. That's why so many of these guys become pedos. They can only get with young, dumb women and whoops, they're 15 and lied about being 18.

That's basement level gash, you ever been to those festivals? the chicks would be at best an 8/10 if they actually tried but they don't. Trust me you don't want those girls, I been hit on by hippie chicks and the vinegar stank of dried armpit sweat and badly wiped ass plus greasy hair from WEEKS of not showering its gag-inducing.

Yes, I have been. Nobody hates hippies more than I do. But chicks dig that schtick when they're young and you're retarded if you think they don't. It's just they grow out of it and want more successful Business Chad. It doesn't matter, hippies live in a bubble. A very, dirty bubble.

There is a wall but its nowhere near 30, its been moved so far I don't even think its 40 anymore as even those women get attention nowadays. I seen mid chicks in their thirties passing on men who were even younger than them.

The Wall is 30. It has nothing to do with a woman's ability to gather simps. Age 30 is just when women's eggs start rotting. And they KNOW IT. That's why they fear the number 30 so much. That's all the Wall is. When 30 hits, their pregnancies become high risk pregnancies. There is no changing this.

 

[cybertoaster]

But chicks dig that schtick

Didn't say they don't, I said I wouldn't bang those girls because they are all gross.

The Wall is 30. It has nothing to do with a woman's ability to gather simps.

That's menopause, look at any definition of "the wall" and its all about looks. And 30 was the limit before but men are so desperate these days they even simp for 40yo women, I seen it.

you're just fucking some old woman and would have been shamed for it back in the day.

TONS of things that are normal now would've gotten you shamed just in the 2000s.