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Two things:
1. Raging at the guy and making snarky comments doesn't help.
2. Asexuality is a coping mechanism.
 
Null said:
Two things:
1. Raging at the guy and making snarky comments doesn't help.
2. Asexuality is a coping mechanism.
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I find snarkiness to be relaxing.
 
Null said:
2. Asexuality is a coping mechanism.
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I can't disagree with you, to an extent:
[url=http://www.asexuality.org/home/overview.html:24r6yl80]AVEN[/url] said:
Asexuality is like any other identity- at its core, it’s just a word that people use to help figure themselves out. If at any point someone finds the word asexual useful to describe themselves, we encourage them to use it for as long as it makes sense to do so.
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...but if you're trying to imply that I'm in denial over being unable to satisfy my non-existent (or at least inactive) sex drive, or something to that extent, then I'm afraid I will have to frown very sternly in your general direction.
 
I believe that sexuality is too low-level to simply not function in people. Everyone I've met who is asexual has suffered some sort of trauma, usually rape. My mom, at her job as a hospital, has taken care of people with severe mental handicaps that still masturbate and hump random things. Desire to have sex might be a chemical thing (and a lack of hormones would dull it), but people cant truly be asexual.

Also, I think that the wizardchan guy left, but I'm kind of disappointed a few people opted to go the "fuck you" path. I mean, the dude firmly holds a belief that socially active people are wicked and cruel, and you guys had to go out of your way to try and humiliate him.
 
I think what we have here, then, is a difference in how we perceive the word "asexual." I agree with you that sexuality is too low-level to not exist at all, and that's probably the reason why I debated for years before I finally conceded that I identify as "asexual" at this point in time. My interest in sex goes only as far as the act as a display of emotional attachment, or for producing offspring. I have no interest in nor desire for sex just for the sake of sexual release, and that is what asexual means to me. I have never had any sexual dreams, and I have never maturbated nor felt the need to, and I genuinely do not understand the mindset of someone who is "sexual." This may very well change in the future, I honestly can't tell if it will or not, but for now I choose to identify as asexual.

But let's get off that topic. I too am disappointed in how nasty some of you were to our diplomat friend - especially exball; there was no need to insult him when he was earnestly trying to explain his situation for us to understand. |:(
 
God damn it, I need to stop going to sleep.
 
wizard_diplomat said:
exball said:
But you shun women and anyone you perceive as a "normalfag". It just doesn't make sense how most of v9k behaves.
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the shun of women is fueled by anger and resentment because of nosex.

we are jealous of "normalfag"s because they have the sex we want to have (and friendships for those who want it [I personally don't care about friendships]) and experiences (like traveling...because we are afraid to go to new places because of fear but some would like it).

that being said, just because we are mainly jealous of normies, doesn't mean we want to completely be them. by "normalfags" we usually mean people who are oblivious to how the world really is...they're not stupid...they just lack the knowledge we have, thus we are wizards because we have knowledge they don't have. we are aware of the workings of the world without rosecolored glasses (although we have our own special types of delusions caused by, once again, our being virgins)...

the irony is that the having of this knowledge probably is a main reason for our virgindom. ignorance is bliss
/condescension
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I think you needa friend. Wanna be friends? :D
 
I like this guy. "I don't want friendship...I just want no strings attached sex...but not with a prostitute, because I want the other person to feel something for me...also we have secret knowledge the rest of the world lacks!"

But what exactly IS that knowledge? Being a spiteful, vindictive virgin who's obsessed with not being a virgin to the point that they do that whole anime "waifu" bullshit isn't knowledge, ya dummies, it's like...every nerdy stereotype in the history of the world all rolled into one hateful little chinless fuck.

Also I'm really, really shy. I sweat uncontrollably when I talk to attractive girls. Hell, I sweat uncontrollably and stutter when talking to anyone I don't know. All my life people have told me "You're really quiet," like that's some sort of secret phrase that'll make me start talking to everybody. Still, it hasn't stopped me from having girlfriends and getting laid, because once I've talked to someone enough to get past that shyness, I'm like, the best. Ever. And that's despite openly reading fantasy and wearing t-shirts with stormtroopers on them.
 
Butta Face Lopez said:
I like this guy. "I don't want friendship...I just want no strings attached sex...but not with a prostitute, because I want the other person to feel something for me...also we have secret knowledge the rest of the world lacks!"

But what exactly IS that knowledge? Being a spiteful, vindictive virgin who's obsessed with not being a virgin to the point that they do that whole anime "waifu" bullshit isn't knowledge, ya dummies, it's like...every nerdy stereotype in the history of the world all rolled into one hateful little chinless fuck.

Also I'm really, really shy. I sweat uncontrollably when I talk to attractive girls. Hell, I sweat uncontrollably and stutter when talking to anyone I don't know. All my life people have told me "You're really quiet," like that's some sort of secret phrase that'll make me start talking to everybody. Still, it hasn't stopped me from having girlfriends and getting laid, because once I've talked to someone enough to get past that shyness, I'm like, the best. Ever. And that's despite openly reading fantasy and wearing t-shirts with stormtroopers on them.
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You might want to tone this kind of talk down a bit.

Back onto the wizards, I'm also a really shy person and I have used to have a lot of trouble talking to people. So, I just started going out and actually talking to people. That worked, I grew a backbone.
 
CatParty said:
it's not hard to not be shy.
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It is when girls look at you awkwardly after you tell them how you think their lives are being played on easy mode
 
I think all of the Wizards need friends and that our boards crossing paths was no accident.
FREE COOKIES FOR EVERYONE WHO VISITS THE WIZCHAN/CWCKI FORUM MEETUP :D

Ah, er, sorry. Got a little carried away.. I'm just a normie slut(who's never actually dated a guy ever) anyway :(
 
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wheat pasta said:
never actually dated a guy
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cocktease playing mind games like the rest. (:_(
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Yeah man, I only go for the alpha Chad Thundercock types anyway. BUT BITCHES TOOK ALL THE HANDSOME MEN LEAVING NONE FOR ME TO CHOOSE FROM. :pickle: :pickle:
 
DrChristianTroy said:
It's official. If I ever have a kid they are gonna be named Chad Thundercock.
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Best. Parent. Ever.
 
Himawari said:
CatParty said:
it's not hard to not be shy.
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Um, yeah it really goddamn is, for some people.
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I can actually understand this. It took me a long time and a lot of effort to put myself out there.
 
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