Zoomer aversion to marriage - The Consequences and Societal Rammifications

[Sweetpeaa]

Gen Z don't know how to build relationships. Hence the digital flings and hook up culture on tinder. None of this is going to lead to a marriage or a relationship that lasts more than a few months.

Many core age Millennial's actually find internet dating quite odd as it was usually the rejects trying to find ''love'' online. Normal people dated and married people from school, work, University, friends and other ''real world interaction''. The people that had to get someone online usually had some kind of ''issue'' either upfront or hidden.

Covid is going to factor into this too of course. Lots of Gen Z teens and young adults have borderline ''Aspie'' social skills and it's scary. When I was a teen in the 2000's probably less than 4% of people in my high school had those kinds of piss poor social skills where they couldn't build friendships or find someone to date them. Most teens back then were social butterfly's. Teenagers now seem very awkward, behind and internet obsessed.

 

[Mr. Skeltal]

The problem is dude; that in this day and age, finding a mentally stable woman is like finding a fucking pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. You practically have to just wait for an okay lady to pop up in your life randomly, as opposed to searching; cause if you search, you're going to find nothing but volatile acid pits or barren deserts ready to suck your life dry.

Have you gone out to take a look? You bitched on the internet, sure, but have you verified your assertion that it's all just a blasted hellscape?

Get off the computer and do things. Take up a social hobby, learn a new skill, make something with your hands - anything to get you offline and into reality.
At worst you pick up a new skill or hobby that you like, at best you might find someone worth your time. Either way, log off and live a better life.

 

[flower tree]

Nothing wrong with that. This idea that women shouldn't want to marry man capable of providing for them and the kids is part of the problem. For one it implies tending the home is easy and it's not. For another what is the alternative? Waste the the most reproductively beneficial years of your life slaving for your boss and an uncaring corporation and then dying alone 30 years after retiring? That corporation won't even send you a bon voyage card, let alone give you a hug on your last days on earth.

Well it does sometimes work. But sometimes you get unlucky and end up a divorced single mom slaving for the boss instead.

 

[Fougaro]

I'm more interested in the long-lasting consequences. What will the end product be as a result of this multi-generational aversion to marriage?

Assuming by marriage you mean people hooking up and forming families rather than the institution or the ritual itself. To keep a long story reasonably short: Birth and fertility rates keep shitting the bed, the welfare state goes poof, no more government tard gibs for normalfags and you buy a hockey mask and BDSM gear.

 

[RussianParasite]

I feel a bit bad for Gen Z because they are constantly being screamed at by CNN and Reddit about how we are literally seconds away from ecological disaster unless you shut the fuck up, eat your bugs and return to your container. If that’s all you heard too, you might not see the point in making a family.

 

[Lemmingwise]

I feel a bit bad for Gen Z because they are constantly being screamed at by CNN and Reddit about how we are literally seconds away from ecological disaster unless you shut the fuck up, eat your bugs and return to your container. If that’s all you heard too, you might not see the point in making a family.

Does CNN broadcast to tiktok?

 

[Linako 2.0]

Zoomers and Alfers are too young to get married, you assahole ((((((((

Zoomers are almost all adults now and in their early-mid 20's now, alphies on the other hand are still kids.

 

[DerKryptid]

Lynching is illegal, keep crying tradcucks.

Move to israel and hang around pally neighbourhoods

 

[Clockwork_PurBle]

To be fair I would suppose a major factor into this is a significant portion of that population having been raised in broken homes. Bonus points if one or both of the parents got remarried and divorced again multiple times.

 

[MugolEx]

Divorce court.

This is probably the biggest reason next to pure incompetence. I don't want to go all MGTOW but, if you're a man, you will get fucked in a divorce. Doesn't matter if you pay for everything and worked to your bones, women are oppressed and men need to give reparations for oppressing them. Despite being strong and independent and are the same to men if not better.

 

[Hathungor]

To quote a wise man: Being gay is pretty gay, but not as gay as marriage.

 

[InteracialBowelSyndrome]

To be fair I would suppose a major factor into this is a significant portion of that population having been raised in broken homes. Bonus points if one or both of the parents got remarried and divorced again multiple times.

Yeah, you would think that governments and the elite would be aware of this, and instead of encouraging wanton hedonism, substance abuse and a "Live in the moment" mentality, they would tell people to learn skills useful to society, how to build, hunt and cook, and how to aquire the knowledge that helps with personal growth.

Its almost like those in charge *want* dysfunctional family units. But what would I know, I'm just a retard.

 

[Aqua Panda]

The internet has changed things. It's way harder to find someone and something to do these days. Tickets for most social festivals or events are $50+ for a single person. In an era where most non-rural rents are 1.5k-2k+ for a one bedroom, good luck having that free money to burn. Especially if you want to eat out as well. It's possible, but the era of going to the local arcade is long dead.

As for virginity, don't get hung up on it. That's incel territory. I didn't lose my v-card till my mid 20's and I'm thankful as all hell I waited until I met the right person. (Who is now my wife.) I know flat out I could have lost it in college, multiple times. However, just about every attractive girl from that era of my life ended up being crazy bpd, jumping from guy to guy to fill a void in their life, and/or for money. My wife was in the same boat as me and also waited. (We actually ended up together supringsly fast, but we both knew very quickly that we would work out.) Be very careful with people who are sexually active young and/or have a large number of sexual partners. Some will be just fine, others are in it purely for the physical act. Lust and actual romance/love are two very different things.

Cost is another big issue. Even though we are late millennial and outright own our house, we still worry about child costs if we do decide to have kids in the next few years. Everything is expensive these days and public schooling is a joke in a lot of areas. Setting up a kid to have a fair shot at a future is a very hard prospect right now.

 

[AnaphylacticShock]

Cost is another big issue. Even though we are late millennial and outright own our house, we still worry about child costs if we do decide to have kids in the next few years. Everything is expensive these days and public schooling is a joke in a lot of areas. Setting up a kid to have a fair shot at a future is a very hard prospect right now.

You and your wife sound intelligent and stable. The world needs people like you to have kids.

 

[mindlessobserver]

This is probably the biggest reason next to pure incompetence. I don't want to go all MGTOW but, if you're a man, you will get fucked in a divorce. Doesn't matter if you pay for everything and worked to your bones, women are oppressed and men need to give reparations for oppressing them. Despite being strong and independent and are the same to men if not better.

Oddly enough the courts are starting to turn around, and its for a rather counter intuitive reason. Family Courts are increasingly being headed by Female Judges and Fathers are increasingly being represented by Female attorneys. Women's first rule. Girls hate other girls.

The big disparity for men in family court came from the sob story of the poor put upon 24 year old waifu telling her woes to the 60 year old male judge. Now that 24 year old Waifu has to tell her story of woe to the 60 year old FEMALE judge after which the Fathers Female lawyer chimes in with "your honor, you and I both know what this bitch is doing".

The law of unintended consequences, the wish of the monkey paw, etc is playing out in family court as we speak. There has been a surge of court mandated 50/50 splits.