ActuallyBPD / ActuallyNPD / ActuallyASPD - People with mental disorders who think expecting them to be nice is ableist

m0rnutz said:
Actually, you can grow out of autism to an extent. You adapt and relearn your behaviors and become a functioning adult.

The ones who don't *coughChrisVadeZachcough* are the ones who are forever autists.
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Vade doesn't actually have autism. She flipped out when she didn't get diagnosed with it.
 
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Tumblr is once again providing the most effective evidence that the government really needs the power to arrest people based on their internet usage history. All of these edgy teens need a stern talking to from their local police officer and a nice trip to military school/a convent to clean up this trashy behavior. Is it any wonder that the mentally ill remain stigmatized when these vocal idiots play a fun little game of false flag testimonials?

Off-topic: This thread is depressingly effective at getting people to powerlevel themselves.
 
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oh, they've already started using the social justice movement terms to defend acting like an asshole. I've seen people online talking about how ableist it is to discuss how someone with a personality disorder hurt them.
 
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PolexiaAphrodisia said:
1. To give themselves an excuse for behaving poorly
2. To seem edgy, dangerous, or cool
3. To have a reason for why their brain behaves like it does instead of realizing that they may need better self discipline
4. Because it's hip in the fandom
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They should try living with a narcissist, see how hip and cool it is to have to put up with that shit every goddamned day coming from somebody else.

Also an actual narcissist would be unlikely to actually admit to being one, since that would imply that there's something wrong with them that isn't the fault of somebody else.
 
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And this person is a pedo apparently.

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m0rnutz said:
Actually, you can grow out of autism to an extent. You adapt and relearn your behaviors and become a functioning adult.

The ones who don't *coughChrisVadeZachcough* are the ones who are forever autists.
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You never grow out of autism. You are always autistic, but you get better at compensating for it. In theory anyway. I've met ridiculous numbers of autistics who use it as a "Get out of jail free" card. Instead of, "I fucked up and did wrong by you, but please understand that I'm a social retard and while I do what I can I'll never be good at it" You get, "Baaaaawwww! I'm not to blame for anything! It's all your fault for not being supportive! When you said XXX it's your fault for not explaining it to me properly, even though you were saying it for months and months before this and I kept saying that I understood! Baaaaawww! You're so meeeean!"

The problem with the first option is that anyone has good days and bad, or NTs giving you shit for not 'trying hard enough' because they can't tell the difference between a human suit and genuine social ability. The problem with the second is that those shits spoil everything for everyone, especially their own biggest advocates, and whine when what they think is owed them turns out to be conditional.
 
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glass_houses said:
You never grow out of autism. You are always autistic, but you get better at compensating for it. In theory anyway. I've met ridiculous numbers of autistics who use it as a "Get out of jail free" card. Instead of, "I fucked up and did wrong by you, but please understand that I'm a social exceptional individual and while I do what I can I'll never be good at it" You get, "Baaaaawwww! I'm not to blame for anything! It's all your fault for not being supportive! When you said XXX it's your fault for not explaining it to me properly, even though you were saying it for months and months before this and I kept saying that I understood! Baaaaawww! You're so meeeean!"

The problem with the first option is that anyone has good days and bad, or NTs giving you shit for not 'trying hard enough' because they can't tell the difference between a human suit and genuine social ability. The problem with the second is that those shits spoil everything for everyone, especially their own biggest advocates, and whine when what they think is owed them turns out to be conditional.
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Jesus fuck, just put on the damn human suits and be useful to the world. It doesn't matter if you drool on the goddamn human suit, just fucking put it ON.
 
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Cricket said:
It's the opposite. Narcissists openly admit they are narcissists because they don't see it as a problem.
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Yep. My dad worked with a man who was a diagnosed narcissist. Apparently he was pretty pleased about it, went around openly telling people he'd been diagnosed with NPD. Never got any help with it, he just wanted the diagnosis.

Anyway, he wound up getting fired after he started stalking a woman he worked with because she wouldn't date him, sending her threatening messages, posting abusive stuff about her online. He's done something similar previously and was on his last warning as it was. The police had to escort him off the premises when he got the sack and now if he sees any of his old colleagues in town he screams abuse at them in the street.

These people can be really dangerous to be around. I don't understand why tumblr kiddies want to pretend to have these disorders.
 
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Back in the day, edgy teens were just goth, and liked the idea of scaring people. Just go into town and sit around glaring at everyone who looked at them. This is probably an offshoot of that, scare people by letting them think that you're a literal psychopath: but if you confront them about it then you're offending them and hurting their sociopathic feelings.

Or just. Taking the usual teenage angst, but dressing it up so that it's special.

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The self diagnosis tag is pretty funny too

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Holy shit, I remember this guy. He used to be big on the whole feminism/misandry thing, get into arguments with equally exceptional MRAs and anti-feminists. Had no idea he was still around, but he's obviously moved onto the greener pastures of autism and ableism.
 
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Buer said:
There's this blog about splitting: http://whyimsplitting.tumblr.com/

While a lot of the reasons for splitting are because of abuse some of it is for really stupid reasons:

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This person split from her aunt because she thinks Nani is ugly lol:
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I kept reading these as "spitting", lol.
The whole point of this concept when related to personality disorders is that the person suddenly goes from love to hate with seemingly little provocation. So of course it's going to sound like a stupid reason. That's the disorder.
 
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silky said:
These people can be really dangerous to be around. I don't understand why tumblr kiddies want to pretend to have these disorders.
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Because they don't understand the realities of life with a mental illness. They only want the precious stigma- they want a reason to rage against the machine. Nevermind that in doing so, these tumblrites only cause further discrimination towards people with disorders. The tumblrite I knew in high school didn't seem to have an inkling of understanding- what I mean by this is they could conceptualize how they felt, but they couldn't conceptualize the what, when, and why related to their feelings. They seemed hell-bent on pathologizing teen angst. I think that, as others have also stated, that tumblrites "adopt" personality disorders to 1) excuse their actions, and 2) for the attention and sympathy. I say sympathy because teens look for validation in the form of sympathy- the 'poor you' comment justifies their feelings. It's like the rooting instinct, except with attention instead of tits.
 
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tumblr search/tags are different for god knows what reason. Tags are things that are explicitly tagged, and search is EVERYTHING with that term mentioned, so you can find things that the person didn't tag for whatever reason

Anyway whos ready for more dramatic teenagers

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