Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Real smile or hostage photo? You decide!

Idiot smile; hostage neutral.

 

[Trombonista]

Would it kill these two to hold their child for a change?

Alex might kill Ari if she tries (and fails) to hold her now.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex has been super quiet. If she went through with the $4.99 subscription posts on Instagram, that's probably what she's using (if she's posting at all). No paid posts have leaked to Reddit, so it could just be silence on her part. If she is doing paid content, she'll end up neglecting it, just like she ends up neglecting every other paid platform and merch shop.

Anyway, she just posted this. It's been her only content since my previous post.

Posted to stories, would have been roughly 8 PM her time:



Maybe I don't understand what she means by "first food," but isn't Ari a little young for solids? I don't know if that premie adjusted age factors into that or not, but 4 months still seems awfully early? They probably figure they can poke a spoon into her mouth and avoid holding her for feedings.

 

[babyTAP]

I worry Ari doesn't know how to smile because she's not sat close enough to engaging faces to learn how to mimic them.

 

[TismFarmer]

Maybe I don't understand what she means by "first food," but isn't Ari a little young for solids? I don't know if that premie adjusted age factors into that or not, but 4 months still seems awfully early? They probably figure they can poke a spoon into her mouth and avoid holding her for feedings.

Yeah. I my country they're quite adamant about " No solids before 6 months, and for preemies, that meant 6 months corrected age."

 

[BunchofMunch]

Yeah. I my country they're quite adamant about " No solids before 6 months, and for preemies, that meant 6 months corrected age."

I think it differs quite a lot around the world, here you're told you can start at 4 months with itty bitty tasting (like putting some sauce or yoghurt or something on your finger and letting baby try it). If baby seems interested, that is. I have no idea what goes for preemies though..

 

[Goatchoker]

My youngest had avocado and breast milk at about 4.5-5 months.
He hated the avocado. Like banana. Didn’t care much till 6-7 months when he was more interested in food.
I’m sure she’s interested in food seeing her parents eating while she is confined to a baby keeping device always. Why doesn’t that baby smile ever?!

 

[often puzzled]

Alex is back and is once again unsure about whether she's a wholesome disability influencer or the cash me outside girl.

Leading up to the main event, we have:

Spoiler: more merch

Graphic design is her passion!

Spoiler: Ari? Who's Ari?

The account hasn't been updated since June 26th. Alex is really, really, really bad when it comes to dropping things.

Spoiler: more cooking

I should probably go back and grab this video, because I took a screenshot at a bad time (her voice is distracting). Her hand appears in the photo, and you see that it's scraped/bruised. This is about to be relevant.

We have arrived at the main event! Alex has been live on TikTok, where she revealed her bruised and swollen face:



Still stolen from Reddit. Alex got very drunk over the weekend and flipped her wheelchair on a curb. She wasn't wearing her chest belt (she never is), so she fell out and got quite banged up. She's got a black eye, swollen face (remember, this is with copious amounts of filters), and other various injuries. This does explain her long silence over the weekend and going in to the first of the week.

You might ask: where was Ari while her mom was out getting blackout drunk? She was staying with her grandparents. So it's obviously fine that mom got completely wasted and injured herself pretty badly.

You might also ask: didn't Alex just claim, when asked about the possibility of dropping Ari into the pool while stuffed down her shirt, that she never loses control of the chair? Yes, yes she did.

You might further ask: didn't Mikey the hairdresser confirm that Alex has previously smashed into curbs while drunk and crashed? Yes, he did say that!

You might go on to ask: isn't Noah in recovery? Should people in recovery be out and getting wasted? Well, we didn't get any pictures of him wasted, so it's all good, right? And, besides, Ari was with the grandparents! It's all good! Nothing to see here!

Spoiler: more bruises, this time from Instagram

Again, remember that she uses a ton of filters.

She's been trying to clean her image up lately, and we might now know why. She's got a partnership with a company called

Spoiler: https://wallyprojects.com/

Wally

, whose purpose seems nebulous at best (at least to me).

Spoiler: Wally partnership

Announced in her stories.



Also on her grid, with a video of the sign in NYC.



Text reads: "I am confident in my disabled body. AH! My quote live in NYC! What an amazing way to celebrate disability pride month. Beyond excited to announce my recent collaboration with @wally , as we set out on a quest to radiate positivity worldwide. Each month, we’ll be bringing to life various walls in diverse locations with uplifting quotes. Our goal? To invigorate and elevate our communities, both in the physical and digital world. Join us as we infuse the universe with good vibes! #GoodVibesMovement #Wally"



Comments are super-duper-ultra sanitized.



Wally's Instagram:

We finish with a very happy families shot of Alex and Noah, with no mention of the fact that he said they're broken up-- while in a conversation that involved him sending dick pics and soliciting nudes. Nothing to see here, no siree! Positive vibes all around! Just disregard that black eye-- and she did not say, on Instagram, that she was drunk when she got the black eye. She saved that tidbit for TikTok. Perhaps she's trying to move her party girl audience to TikTok while being wholesome on Instagram?



NOAH WATCH: It's the green long-sleeved shirt again, but he does look more chipper in that photo, I guess. Perhaps someone finally sent him pity nudes. Or maybe he's just happy because the grandparents watched Ari while he and Alex hit the town.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex has been really quiet. There have been no significant updates since last Thursday, and she's barely posted. There's been no explanation for her absence, and it seems strange for her to fall silent when she's just gotten that new collaboration (or whatever you call it).

Spoiler: a few comments

I already posted this grid post, but here are some negative comments I caught later.

Spoiler: random

This was posted over the weekend, with no explanation at all. It was a shaky, sideways video of the shore. The sound didn't provide any clues.

Spoiler: baby Ari stories!

Two videos of Ari appeared in her stories today. I'll put the actual videos under a separate spoiler, but these are stills. Ari gurgles, spits up, and chews on a teething ring (that Alex calls a rattle). She spits up at the end of one of the videos, and it wasn't the first time-- the front of her top has visible spit-up on it.

There's some sort of banging or clanging noise that sounds like it's actually in the apartment. Alex does not comment on it or identify it. Sounds like construction or repair?



She's showing Ari's grip and saying that Ari's muscles are already better than her own, which is likely true.

Spoiler: the videos

These are the full videos.

Spoiler: Ari grid post

Image:



Caption reads "my little sweetie."

Caption and some comments:





Comments are sanitized. One comment that's slipped through:

In summary, Ari is a cutie, and Alex is weirdly quiet.

NOAH WATCH: not seen, not heard from, not mentioned.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex remains low-key. No new grid posts since my previous post; everything has been in her Instagram stories. I still suspect that she may be uploading to the paid Instagram service, but I don't know that for a fact and have not seen any of those posts on Reddit (does it violate Reddit TOS to share paid posts like that?).

At any rate, here are some of her story posts. She shares things like cutesy graphics that say "hot girls drink water" (Alex drinks alcohol, but that's neither here nor there) and lots of chihuahua stuff. I don't screenshot any of that. She's really been less active, though.

Spoiler: story posts, featuring Ari, Cairo, and Noah's gu(n)t

These were taken over the course of several days. They should be in order, or close to it.

Street scene.



Sleepy Ari in her baby containment unit.



Are those eggs ready for prime time?



Screenshot from a video. Full video is under separate spoiler below. Recommended if you want to watch Noah's gu(n)t. You'll also see him manhandle eggs. It's quite . . . something. I recommend it, actually.



It's a look, all right. Specifically, it's your dog looking terrified. I'm no canine behaviorist, but those ears look extremely unhappy.

I see a box of Huggies, some tulle, and boards (?). What's happening here? Could they be taking that canopy down? There was hammer-type banging in the background of the videos of the last post.

Also, I may be a conspiracy theorist, but it looks like someone has been sleeping or napping on the couch. Maybe just her carer? Or is Noah consigned to the couch?



Walking Cairo.



Throwback.



Random scene.



Yet another selfie.



More like "momma" got behind the stroller long enough for this picture. Also, Ari doesn't look happy, but maybe she's just birdwatching. I think her face maybe looks chubbier again? Good, if so.

Spoiler: full video horror

This video is something else.

And that's all. No real information at all. No addressing the Noah leaks. No Ari updates. No merch promos.

NOAH WATCH: I'd know that hairy belly anywhere. But could he be sleeping on the couch these days? And who taught him to fondle eggs like that?

 

[Trombonista]

She actually looks better with blonde hair.

 

[Barbarella]

Is Ari sleeping in a pink fuzzy coat and blanket, in the summer?

 

[Breadbear]

Is Ari sleeping in a pink fuzzy coat and blanket, in the summer?

They probably have the air conditioning cranked up.

 

[Behavioral Sink]

Latest reddit post:

Domestic disturbances **MOD VERIFIED**​

Hi all! Our mods were recently contacted by someone with proof of the following incident, however, in order to protect their identity, we cannot release the photos they submitted proving that this was true. The following is a transcript from an email exchange centered around our one and only repulsive rapunzel.

Saturday, July 15, 2023 10:32:54 PM
Subject: Domestic for Unit *******
Hello team,
Around 9:00 p.m. tonight guest of Alexandria Dzimitowicz, in unit *******, came to the lobby to inform me that Alexandria was being harmed by her boyfriend Noah Smith inside of their unit and asked me to call the police. At around 9:02 p.m. I went up to the unit and knocked on the door, Noah (the boyfriend) answered. I asked if everything was okay and he replied, “yeah, she’s just drunk” (but to my observation he was more intoxicated than her.) Immediately after he said she was okay, she yelled to me from the apartment that she was not okay. I then took matters into my own hands and called the police. The police arrived around 9:16 p.m. and came back down with the two residents, Alexandria and Noah at 9:29 p.m. Noah was taken into custody and Alexandria stayed behind.

https://www.reddit.com/r/wheelchairrepunzel/comments/156m2ra/domestic_disturbances_mod_verified/

https://archive.is/wip/kYjWQ

You've gotta have shit morals to out a domestic violence victim, even if they're a shitty person with their own snark forum. (And my moral bar is low-- I make fun of troons and autists on the internet.)

 

[Sparkling Yuzu]

You've gotta have shit morals to out a domestic violence victim, even if they're a shitty person with their own snark forum. (And my moral bar is low-- I make fun of troons and autists on the internet.)

I mean we did out @wolftone for pee jar throwing domestic violence but interfering in an active dispute like this is just we-en tier nonsense.

 

[often puzzled]

Latest reddit post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/wheelchairrepunzel/comments/156m2ra/domestic_disturbances_mod_verified/

https://archive.is/wip/kYjWQ

You've gotta have shit morals to out a domestic violence victim, even if they're a shitty person with their own snark forum. (And my moral bar is low-- I make fun of troons and autists on the internet.)

This was also posted:



This is someone claiming they saw Noah led off in handcuffs (outside The Moment building). Mods posted it as a screenshot, because the poster didn't meet the karma requirement for the sub.

The report posted by @Behavioral Sink appears to be an internal report for the apartment complex (and I hope this was worth losing your job over, because it's clear that the employee posted it to Reddit-- I certainly hope that's a firing offense, and you've got yourself to blame if she doesn't call for help next time). The "guest" isn't identified and could possibly be Nina or her mom. Ari's presence or absence isn't mentioned. Both Alex and Noah are said to be drunk or otherwise intoxicated in the apartment's internal report.

So, the incident being discussed happened on July 15. Alex was being really quiet around this time. On July 13, she showed up with her black eye, which she said she'd gotten over the weekend. Ari was supposedly with her grandparents when the black eye happened.

She was with her mom in her hometown for the July 4 holiday, and her mom apparently was in the apartment with them at some point after the holiday.

Around July 6/7, she complained about DCFS/CPS/DSS being present in their lives and blamed internet trolls for the reports being filed.

The most recent Noah leaks were in June, just prior to Father's Day. We have also seen a lot of jittery behavior from Noah, including slicing his finger badly enough to need stitches (which he was unable to stay put long enough to receive).

All to say: the timeline and Alex's increasingly-frequent silences suggest trouble was brewing long before the July 15 incident. Noah is a POS, and Alex needs to swallow her pride and leave. Ari does not need to be in that apartment.

I'd been sitting on this for a dry spell, but now seems the time to post that Alex's own father, John, also has a domestic violence track record. Here's one that made the newspaper:



Archive here.

The victim is unnamed. Her parents are now divorced, and her father has since remarried.

 

[Octopi]

Jesus. When she posted the black eye pics I did wonder if it was a "walked into a doorframe" cover story, but figured there was nothing to substantiate the suspicion. Guess not.

I do hope Alex sees the Reddit post (inevitable, since she's proven she hawks it) and files a complaint about the confidential information being leaked, though - that's shitty and a breach of many, many workplace regulations, I'm sure.

 

[glioblastoma multiforme]

unfortunately, by the time DV gets to an arrest, at least over here, it has likely been going on a long time and escalating. the police will refuse to arrest the partner of a woman covered in bruises cos there is "no evdence it was done by the person they are accusing" and if she hasn't left by the time she's made a complaint, and the complaint gets found out, things can go downhill fast. even though Alex didn't make the complaint, i'm concerned it will have the same effect. the earlier black eye suggests this has been escalating.

this is why any person should leave after a single incident of violence imo. once a person has crossed that line, you know it can happen again.

i actually feel awful for alex. she can't defend herself. she can't walk away, she is completely helpless. she needs to get him OUT of her apartment right now, get a restraining order, and press charges.

ari should not be subjected to intoxicated parents, and even if she's in another room, she will pick up on the fighting and violence. babies pick up on more than they're given credit for. i'm hope DCFS will take this incident seriously and hope arrangements can be made to give Ari a better start in life. i feel for alex's parents losing their retirement and not hvaing the best track record in parenting but i think Ari would be better off with them.

alex has had time to realise once you have a baby you don't continue going out getting shitfaced every weekend and you don't let your vviolent, back to active using, partner around the child. she has not. it seems no one is interacting with Ari most of the time, during the period when the brain is developing insanely fast and needs to see facial expressions and such. iits such a sad situation for such a young child and if she's going to have a chance at normal development she needs a better environment.

 

[glass_houses]

alex has had time to realise once you have a baby you don't continue going out getting shitfaced every weekend and you don't let your vviolent, back to active using, partner around the child. she has not. it seems no one is interacting with Ari most of the time, during the period when the brain is developing insanely fast and needs to see facial expressions and such. iits such a sad situation for such a young child and if she's going to have a chance at normal development she needs a better environment.

My dude, it was a given at the very beginning that Alex sees Ari as a doll to be dressed in pretty outfits for Instagram, not as a tiny human that needs intensive care and attention for the next fifteen years.

Even if Alex has realised that this is indeed the case and that she has fucked up very much, she's still going to do anything possible to keep Ari, because that bub is Alex's meal ticket. So long as Alex has Ari, the cash from Noah's family will keep rolling in, and Alex can maintain her 'hot disabled mum' influencer delusion. Without Ari, Alex is just a gimp in a wheelchair.

 

[Breadbear]

I can believe it, but I'm going to press X until we see some more definitive proof beyond "Lol trust me bro" from Reddit.