Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[glass_houses]

The whole 'wall as wardrobe' idea is a cute concept, but as soon as Ari starts crawling everything on those walls is going to come crashing down. A living space designed around aesthetics is rarely child friendly. It's also worrying how much time Alex spends off of her face, I can see her driving that heavy wheelchair straight over Ari's little hands or feet. Alex has spent her entire life very aware of how spaces need to be tailored to the occupant's physical needs and abilities. It's alarming that it doesn't seem to occur to her that she needs to be doing the exact same thing for Ari right now.

Also lol at the commentator asking if Alex's merch is meant to raise money for charity. Being socially conscious and socialist is such a meme that even extremely physically disabled people aren't allowed to profit from their pretentious tat. But buying a slave labour made pride flag pin from Aliexpress is completely okay!

It'll be interesting how long the r/AlexandNoah sub is up. Even if Noah doesn't have an 'episode' and start using the account to harass users he doesn't like, or posting pornography, there's still going to be a fuckton of people asking inconvenient questions.

Thank you for your service, @often puzzled

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Getting up to date with the shenanigans of the Parents of the Year after a time away from the Farms has filled me with utter despair.

When we found out she was pregnant to a 21 yr old BPD addict straight out of a halfway house, we feared disaster, but hoped for the best.
Now seeing Ari's flat, disconnected face and her sleeping and being fed flat on a folding table...jeezus it's bad.
That's without even addressing the drinking and DV issues.

I sometimes feel a bit smug when predictions come to pass but in this case I feel nothing but sadness for Ari.
Fuck this pair and their irresponsibility.

Also, semper fi to @often puzzled for single handedly providing content for the thread. Much appreciated.

 

[GenociderSyo]

Not sure if this was posted but Alex and family were recently on a Truly Show called "Love Don't Judge." This channel mainly does disability type content and feel good stories which then get posted to Amazon Prime as well.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex has been a content machine for the past two days. Sadly, none of the content involves leaving Noah or handing Ari off to someone who knows how to care for a baby. In fact, we just get more passive-aggressive stories about how wonderful her life is:



See? Happy baby! Upstanding father who is definitely not a drunk with a hair-trigger temper!

Spoiler: story content

This is her clapping back at Reddit (again). They point out the obvious, that Ari never seems to smile, so Alex has been responding by posting as many pictures as she can of smiling Ari (seen here strapped into her baby containment device, to the surprise of no one).



I don't remember seeing this Victoria Tacha person before, and her Instagram account is private. At least she apparently knows that you're supposed to hold a baby when giving them a bottle.



Having gotten a picture of a smiling Ari, Alex proceeds to return to Ari's previously-forgotten Instagram account and post it there (as well as on her own account). Take that, haters!





Back to the argument about merch profits. I do agree with Alex that there's no reason she should feel compelled to donate her profits to charity, but lol at "work."

Spoiler: Alex is ill

This is from Monday evening/night (Alex's time). No updates yet today.



I really don't think that Alex needs advice on how to stay away from her child.

Spoiler: stories, selfies, and Ari

She keeps sharing the content of various moms-- mostly disabled-- to her Instagram stories. I haven't been uploading those here, because it's mostly reels that she's sharing without comment. Reddit thinks-- and I agree-- that she's trying to gain traction in the Instagram disabled moms community. These other influencers do not appear to be reciprocating, which isn't at all surprising.

I did save this one, since she appended the comment about Ari smiling. Take that, haters!



This is filtered into oblivion. She's got bad skin and heavy sun damage. Also, one of her front teeth is dead and has that grayish cast, but none of that is visible here.



Look! Smiles!! Take that, haters!



Still from video. He's squatting on the floor, talking to a contained Ari and apparently trying to get her to smile. It's very much like he's crouching down and talking to a pet.



Someone is feeling herself.

I've gotten behind on her grid posts, so here's me playing catch-up.

Spoiler: grid post #1

Caption and comments. I guess she just gives up policing them after the first day or so?









I laughed at the comment about Noah's clothes being "shrunk." Shady, shady commenter.



The photos. She needs to put that baby down. She could never hold Ari properly, but she's grown enough to make the problem even worse.

For all the photos and video content in which she's wearing this brown/tan off-the-shoulder top: this is the day of whatever they were filming recently. Whenever that content appears, this will be the shirt she's wearing, and Noah will be wearing that Hawaiian atrocity. She recycles photos a lot, so we may see photos from this shoot randomly appear in the future.



Poorly-supported baby, unhappy dog.



More from the photo/video shoot (whatever it will turn out to be).







That's an old photo of Ari in the white basket. It's from when Alex filmed her sponsored "spa day" video.

Spoiler: grid post #2

Caption and some comments:





More photos from the day of the shoot, featuring Noah's gunt.



Beer has calories, buddy.



Ari looking cute in her sun hat:



Noah drinking a non-alcoholic beverage. Take that, haters!

Spoiler: grid post #3

Caption and comments.

Caption is long and reads:

As we wrap up Disability Pride Month, we are ecstatic to be spreading disabled joy with our content… and our merch! We meet so many of you when we are walking down the street and it truly makes us so happy to have so much support and meet you all in person as well!

Our little family is so thankful for all the support, and that despite the hundreds of hate comments we get on a daily basis we do have supporters out there that find value in our content and message.

That disabled folks find love, have families, and find pride in how our lives intersect with disability.

We are beyond exciting to be sending out SO many orders this month and we want to thank everyone for the kindness & support whether that’s transcended through leaving a kind comment or buying our merch — we are so thankful.

Our little lady is so loved and we feel that so much when you congratulate us in public.

Anyways, just want to say thank you. Sometimes we can lose sight of all the lovely humans that support us when hate is so prevalent in our comments. As I see you all in public and see your smiling faces, it was a true reminder of why we are here: to create community and break stigmas.

If we’ve seen you in public, it was an absolute pleasure meeting you — it’s brightened my day to when I was in an otherwise dark place. So thank you.

& if you grabbed our merch, please post and tag us so we can thank you!

#disabilitypridemonth















How Not to Hold a Baby 101:



These photos are all from the day Nina did the merch shoot.



Also, here's my boob! Buy merch, don't forget OnlyFans!



Her poor hand looks tortured:



Barely hanging onto Ari, who has her foot propped on Alex's wheelchair control pad. What, indeed, could possibly go wrong?



"I love myself when I am laughing"-- and the rest of the time, obviously.



Well, I'm convinced by this last one. True love, happiness, nothing to see here!

Her content is a weird mix of trying to fish for Instagram traction in the disabled moms community, clapping back at haters, and expressions of self-loved (not the disabled joy kind; just the narcissism kind). She's only interested in Ari insofar as she can use her to "prove" the "haters" wrong. Noah is present and looking plump. Cairo continues to look unhappy. Is anyone at all buying the happy family act?

Anyone?

Anyone?

Bueller?

 

[Trombonista]

Theia Jokoross apparently thinks the word ill contains an apostrophe.

 

[Osama Bin Laden]

 

[SpiceyHuman]

Holy sun damage, Batman. Rate me late but I had no idea she was only 27. She easily looks a decade older.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex is back (not that she ever went away) with boudoir shots. No actual nudity; I assume that's reserved for OnlyFans. She must be hurting for cash. She's got a few story updates, plus the grid post (with the pervy pictures). Again, the shots aren't actual nudes, but I'm going to put the image under a separate spoiler; I wouldn't consider them safe for work. If nothing else, you'd not want to explain why you were looking at Alex in a bra.

Spoiler: story content

Still from story. She updates to say that she felt fine when she woke up this morning and that yesterday's illness was apparently just a 24 hour bug.



"my roots and my passions and where I started" = fetish fodder, apparently?



It really isn't "cute af."



So we go from lingerie shots, to Alex's nostrils, to preemie Ari. Sure. Why not?



Ari with the same person as the last story posts. Account is private, so no clue who she is or how she's connected to Alex.

Spoiler: grid post caption and comments

Caption reads:

She’s back

I started this social media journey talking about disabled bodies — how they’re sexy, valuable, and worthy of being seen.

All these years later, I’m a mom.

I’ve struggled with my identity with my new life… who am I? What do I want to share? What am I passionate about?

The answer was much more simple than what I thought was a winding road of endless pursuit to find peace in an answer.

I am still Alex, the one who talks about disabled bodies, disability justice, and breaking stereotypes.

The one who loves hard.
Who is passionate and creative.

Now, I have a family. My life has changed, yes. But my passions remain the same — and being a mother has not changed that.

In fact, it’s added more. Another purpose. Another journey.

Another story to tell.

Alongside my original one: disabled bodies are sexy





Comments:

Spoiler: photos from grid post (no nudity but NSFW)

I'm curious about who took the photos. Is that part of Nina's job description? Does Noah do it? Was it this Victoria person?

No profound concluding thoughts, because I'm mostly consumed with thoughts of needing a shower.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Helping share the burden a bit, I come with some amusing content from Alex's Instagram.

First, enjoy this stunning photo of a sun damaged Alex (who thought sunspots were "my natural freckles coming through") showing off her giant nose holes yet again.

Spoiler: Horror in a bikini top

Now for the main event - one of her most loyal and outspoken stans has publicly denounced her as a fraud, and it has created havoc amongst the warring factions a là Fallout.
Stan subscribes to content, expecting Alex to provide the exclusive videos, photos, chats etc. that were promised.
What did she receive for her $4.99 per month? One selfie, that turned out to have been shown on tiktok already.
What did Alex do when said stan took to the comments of to politely complain about this? She deleted the whole comment thread.
Unfortunately I didn't catch the first complaint thread, but I did catch the second.
Here are some of the comments from the stan and some other issues that ended up being raised as a result.
She was already losing followers at a rapid rate, this won't help matters.
Oh well, haha.


Edit: Forgot to spoiler bikini horror

 

[Octopi]

Do CPAPs really fuck your nostrils up that bad? Jesus. Deathfats should take note.

that commenter should do a @Legal Gengar and sue for the breach of contract, lmao.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

I returned to Instagram to see what the narcissist has been up to today.
She's really feeling herself. Three selfies, filtered to hell as usual and each as eww as the last.
Mercifully, although she appears to be nude, we don't see the wonky teats. Praise jeebus.

Spoiler: Not technically NSFW but still eww

Slowly achieving the texture and colour of jerky.


It's too late to save that dried out head of candyfloss, chop it so we may point and laugh.


Yeah, use a red filter, THAT will hide the sun damage.

Also there is an update regarding the Subscribergate drama. It transpires that Alex has got in touch by DM to the aggrieved stan to tell her that she will be refunded the money paid for the subscription, and removed from the subscriber list.
Great, ja?
Today, another very outspoken defender of Alex who is friends with the stan (Hooping Housewife) commented that HH had messaged her that Alex has actually blocked HH from everything, not just removed from the subscription as she thought it would be.
It shows how shitty Alex is, that she bans one of her most vocal supporters for such a transgression, yet many of the trolls continue to leave abuse and get to stay.

Some comments pictured.

The fact that she is on Tiktok fishing for new subscriptions at the same time as all this is going on over on Instagram is hilarious.
Alex, you are an exceptionally creamy cow.

 

[often puzzled]

It's interesting that we have confirmation that you get nothing for the subscription fee. I'm not at all surprised that Alex is happy to take someone's money and run, but I had wondered if her extended periods of silence meant that she was posting primarily subscription-only content. We now know that's not the case, which means we have several unaccounted-for long periods of silence leading up to and (roughly) around the time of the July 15 911 calls. Something is going on, and it must be even more than what we're already aware of.

Spoiler: Barbie grid post

Alex the influencer is super-late to the party with this Barbie stuff. Influencers in general were doing the Barbie posts before the movie's release date-- which is what you'd expect from a savvy influencer, jumping in on the hot trend. It seems like an especially big fumble from Alex, since she says that she's had these photos since 2019.

Some disabled influencers were also invited to Barbie events in the lead-up to the movie, but the media giants obviously knew to steer clear of Alex.

Spoiler: Alex puts on makeup

Still from a video that spans two Instagram stories. If you can get these videos to play, they're fairly interesting: not for Alex's lackluster makeup technique, but to see how she does manage this task. You get a better idea of her dexterity when you watch these. I'll put the videos under a separate spoiler at the end of this post.

Noah shows up in the background of the video to put Alex's hair in a ponytail and to lift up a smiling Ari. Happy family! See?? Take that, haters!

Spoiler: cartoons for Ari

Ari lies on the floor in her baby containment device, watching "morning cartoons." This child isn't yet six months old. She doesn't need morning cartoons. How grim.

Spoiler: makeup videos

Again, these are interesting to watch, if you can get them to play. You don't need sound; it's just Alex's voice-over.

In short: Alex fails at basic influencer-ing. Ari lies on the floor, per usual. Noah makes a cameo to own the haters. Just another typical day in the life of Alex & Co.

 

[the last eunuchorn]

Subscribergate drama

These women are hard to please! Putting my feelings for Alex and her crappy content aside, this is so bizzare. They're upset with her advertising her OF content on her page, yet they shame her for not posting enough exclusive noodz on the OF that they claimed to have subscribed to for "support." I have a hard time feeling bad for anyone getting "scammed" by not being able to see this disabled woman's naked body, advertised or not. Personally, I think Alex is extremely insecure about herself. She has a pretty face, but a fucked up body. She's not oblivious to what life could have been for her if she had grown normally, and it feels really gross to read these women shame her, this time NOT for posting provacative photos, but not enough. Could Becky and HH not afford anything off Alex's amazon wishlist? Was there no other route for them to show financial support to her?

Give me my hats because all the clown wigs are taken

 

[LonesomeDud]

I think it's pretty normal to put your kid in front of something to distract them while you take care of some chore. If that's other children, a cat stretching in the sunshine, or a television, so be it.

Frankly, the idea that Alex is raising this baby at all is a joke. I would bet good money Alex doesn't know how much or how often Ari eats, and I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't even know the brand of formula. Likely it all falls on the caretaker who just puts baby down while she does Alex's care. Alex wants to feel like a cool young adult and doesn't want the caretaker hovering over her, so I'm not too worried about her monopolizing the caregiver's time, but she also wants to give the impression SHE is the mom and is in control, and does not allow Ari to be held during these photos.

Ari probably doesn't even recognize Alex is her mother on an instinctual level. It's not ideal, but people have been fine with less.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

These women are hard to please! Putting my feelings for Alex and her crappy content aside, this is so bizzare. They're upset with her advertising her OF content on her page, yet they shame her for not posting enough exclusive noodz on the OF that they claimed to have subscribed to for "support." I have a hard time feeling bad for anyone getting "scammed" by not being able to see this disabled woman's naked body, advertised or not. Personally, I think Alex is extremely insecure about herself. She has a pretty face, but a fucked up body. She's not oblivious to what life could have been for her if she had grown normally, and it feels really gross to read these women shame her, this time NOT for posting provacative photos, but not enough. Could Becky and HH not afford anything off Alex's amazon wishlist? Was there no other route for them to show financial support to her?

Give me my hats because all the clown wigs are taken

I've probably not explained the subscription service well enough - this is an Instagram thing, it's not Only Fans. It's a service that allows suckers to pay Alex $4.99 in exchange for what was supposed to be exclusive photos, videos and chats every month. Non nude.

...SHE is the mom and is in control, and does not allow Ari to be held during these photos.

You've hit the nail on the head here. Alex cannot hold her, so no-one can and therefore she will exist on the floor. Three months old and already the tele is the babysitter.
Her narc injury at it being obvious she is unable to care for a baby is denying her daughter secure attachment, and will fuck the poor girl up for the rest of her life.

 

[the last eunuchorn]

this is an Instagram thing, it's not Only Fans. It's a service that allows suckers to pay Alex $4.99 in exchange for what was supposed to be exclusive photos, videos and chats every month. Non nude.

Thank you for correcting me. I’ll be sleeping better tonight for it!
I love how her orbiters react to every little thing. There’s always some kind of drama with plenty of white knights ready to duke it out with emojis.

 

[Spangled Drongo]

I think it's pretty normal to put your kid in front of something to distract them while you take care of some chore. If that's other children, a cat stretching in the sunshine, or a television, so be it.

Frankly, the idea that Alex is raising this baby at all is a joke. I would bet good money Alex doesn't know how much or how often Ari eats, and I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't even know the brand of formula. Likely it all falls on the caretaker who just puts baby down while she does Alex's care. Alex wants to feel like a cool young adult and doesn't want the caretaker hovering over her, so I'm not too worried about her monopolizing the caregiver's time, but she also wants to give the impression SHE is the mom and is in control, and does not allow Ari to be held during these photos.

Ari probably doesn't even recognize Alex is her mother on an instinctual level. It's not ideal, but people have been fine with less.

She 100% had this baby just to prove to this damn ableist society!!! that her condition doesn't stop her from doing grown up things like having sex, and a baby is the ultimate proof of that. Like I get it, it sucks when everybody assumes you're nothing but an overgrown child and treats you accordingly, especially when her disability is purely physical, but she's going about it the wrong way. There are people who've had serious disabilities but managed to make the most of life despite their limitations, and have done great things (Stephen Hawking comes to mind). She's making these irresponsible decisions not because of any mental retardation but because of her victim complex and wanting to prove the haters wrong. But it's unfair on the kid to bring them into this world purely out of spite towards someone else, real or imagined.

And not to get all preachy but the recommendation is that kids under 2 have zero screen time (unless it's Zoom calls with relatives). Given the shitty quality of kids entertainment these days I'd avoid it for that reason alone - there are toys specifically designed for different ages/stages of development to keep the kid busy, but I doubt Alex cares enough to get those for her daughter unless they make for a pretty picture on Instagram.

 

[glass_houses]

Toys are going to be a huge problem for Alex. Toddlers leave a trail of chaos in their wake, and until Ari is old enough to learn how to put things away and tidy up, Alex is going to have a very difficult time avoiding running over things. They can sort of avoid the running over bit by giving Ari soft flat toys instead of the brightly coloured plastic that toddlers usually prefer, but then those soft toys will need to be run through the wash every day to keep them sanitary. Another thing is that most toddlers go through a stage of whacking people with random objects. If Ari grabs something hard like a saucepan and belts Alex with it whilst the help has ducked off to the loo or something, there's not a single thing Alex can do except shriek for someone to come save her.

But what would I know about that, I'm just an ableist hater.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

If Ari grabs something hard like a saucepan and belts Alex with it whilst the help has ducked off to the loo or something, there's not a single thing Alex can do except shriek for someone to come save her.

I'm going to be struck by lightning for this.

Alex is sitting pretty in her wheelchair, eye fucking herself as always as she preens and takes selfies for the gram, when BAM! It's lil Ari with the wok from left side with a devastating blow to the shin.
Alex drops her phone in shock and it goes skittering across the floor and under the couch. She howls, more from the loss of her precious than from the pain of being thwacked by a wok brandished by her toddler daughter.
"NINAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!! Pick up my phone! And get rid of her!"

 

[Barbarella]

She 100% had this baby just to prove to this damn ableist society!!! that her condition doesn't stop her from doing grown up things like having sex, and a baby is the ultimate proof of that. Like I get it, it sucks when everybody assumes you're nothing but an overgrown child and treats you accordingly, especially when her disability is purely physical, but she's going about it the wrong way. There are people who've had serious disabilities but managed to make the most of life despite their limitations, and have done great things (Stephen Hawking comes to mind). She's making these irresponsible decisions not because of any mental retardation but because of her victim complex and wanting to prove the haters wrong. But it's unfair on the kid to bring them into this world purely out of spite towards someone else, real or imagined.

I agree with you … but also don’t. Stephen Hawking and other disabled successful people would have been successful without their disability.

If Alex had been born able-bodied, she’d still be a vapid bleached-blonde irresponsible influencer. And would probably still have gotten knocked up with a baby (or two) that are mostly in her way. If her healthy body self drinks the way her disabled body self does, whatever version of Mom Ari got would have been a mess.

I do agree she’s trying to own the haters and prove she’s wanted sexually, because that’s her personality. But she would have needed this no matter what. If she hadn’t been disabled, she’d be one in a sea of lookalikes.

Our current culture rewards narcissistic behavior with clicks and likes. Alex was born with something she could use. But I think she would have figured something out no matter what.

Being born disabled makes most people focus on a life where they can use their intellect, not their body. But what if you don’t have an intellect?

You get fake blondes chasing boys and not using protection to keep them. Crippled or not.