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She was a spoiled kid who turned into a spoiled adult. Her disability adds a layer of spoiledness - she gets to be taken care of and dodge real responsibilities when they're inconvenient.
Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl
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Greetings from other parts of the parlor. Someone has asked me to post this here. 
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Great find, thanks for posting the video @Kate Farms Shill
I've got some thoughts on it, so I shall ramble.
Her language was most interesting from a psychological point of view; as I said the other day, she absolutely will not accept that she cannot do things for herself.
When asked what Noah does for her, she answers "He helps me get dressed, he helps me cook, he helps me clean".
We all know she isn't doing any cooking or cleaning and isn't dressing herself, so he isn't helping her, he's doing it all and there's no shame in saying that.
Her version of 'disabled motherhood' where she does it all with minimal assistance is a lie, and her followers eat it up.
It's dangerous though, as women with the same or similar conditions are seeing this and thinking they can be mothers too. I've seen it in the comments.
Also, the body language between Alex and Noah is worth a look - there is a definite frostiness there even though they are obviously trying to play the part of the happy family for the camera.
Of course, Noah is mentally ill and burnt out as hell due to being carer to Alex and Ari, but you'd still expect there to be evidence of some genuine affection if there was love there.
I'd wager they haven't been a couple for a while. She's well and truly got him by the dollars.
Finally, the video confirms what we all knew, that there are no other carers present. It's only Noah and Nina.
No trained nanny, no trained nurse, just the Craigslist helper.
So much for the extra help once the baby arrived.
I've got some thoughts on it, so I shall ramble.
Her language was most interesting from a psychological point of view; as I said the other day, she absolutely will not accept that she cannot do things for herself.
When asked what Noah does for her, she answers "He helps me get dressed, he helps me cook, he helps me clean".
We all know she isn't doing any cooking or cleaning and isn't dressing herself, so he isn't helping her, he's doing it all and there's no shame in saying that.
Her version of 'disabled motherhood' where she does it all with minimal assistance is a lie, and her followers eat it up.
It's dangerous though, as women with the same or similar conditions are seeing this and thinking they can be mothers too. I've seen it in the comments.
Also, the body language between Alex and Noah is worth a look - there is a definite frostiness there even though they are obviously trying to play the part of the happy family for the camera.
Of course, Noah is mentally ill and burnt out as hell due to being carer to Alex and Ari, but you'd still expect there to be evidence of some genuine affection if there was love there.
I'd wager they haven't been a couple for a while. She's well and truly got him by the dollars.
Finally, the video confirms what we all knew, that there are no other carers present. It's only Noah and Nina.
No trained nanny, no trained nurse, just the Craigslist helper.
So much for the extra help once the baby arrived.
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The video posted by @Kate Farms Shill is the one that they were filming recently. You can tell by their respective outfits. So that's one mystery solved. To the surprise of no one, it looks like Alex is attempting to own the haters. Yet. Again. She's far more obsessed with "trolls" than she is with her five month old child, which I guess isn't actually surprising.
I've got a couple grid posts and a recap of some Instagram stories that I didn't screenshot. The stories were in video form and featured Alex talking about why she looked so bad (as in unkempt) during her pregnancy. According to her, it's not because Noah is a lousy caretaker. Instead, it was because she felt so physically horrible during pregnancy that she routinely had food stains visible on her shirt (her example). It's presented as being real and raw about feeling terrible during pregnancy, but don't let that fool you: she's just clapping back at the Reddit gorls, who gossip at length about Noah's obvious shortcomings as a caregiver.
She also shares that she shit the bed (again, her words) while pregnant. Thanks for sharing, Alex. She and Noah both get the giggles.
One interesting point: she agrees that Noah's hair often looks greasy and says it's because of his mental health issues. She tries to get him to agree with her and has to prompt him a bunch of times to get him to agree he's unwashed because of poor mental health. It was extremely obvious that he was missing an agreed-upon cue.
They conclude by agreeing that Ari thinks fart noises are funny, and Alex blows a raspberry. The trauma of that is probably why I forgot the screenshots.
Alex still hasn't addressed Noah's breakup claims and also never addressed his 911 call (when he "lost" her). Noah is present and seems less unstable than he sometimes does, but I'm sure this is a calm before the (next) storm. He's not smart enough to parrot the lines that Alex feeds him, but we aren't dealing with geniuses here.
I've got a couple grid posts and a recap of some Instagram stories that I didn't screenshot. The stories were in video form and featured Alex talking about why she looked so bad (as in unkempt) during her pregnancy. According to her, it's not because Noah is a lousy caretaker. Instead, it was because she felt so physically horrible during pregnancy that she routinely had food stains visible on her shirt (her example). It's presented as being real and raw about feeling terrible during pregnancy, but don't let that fool you: she's just clapping back at the Reddit gorls, who gossip at length about Noah's obvious shortcomings as a caregiver.
She also shares that she shit the bed (again, her words) while pregnant. Thanks for sharing, Alex. She and Noah both get the giggles.
One interesting point: she agrees that Noah's hair often looks greasy and says it's because of his mental health issues. She tries to get him to agree with her and has to prompt him a bunch of times to get him to agree he's unwashed because of poor mental health. It was extremely obvious that he was missing an agreed-upon cue.
They conclude by agreeing that Ari thinks fart noises are funny, and Alex blows a raspberry. The trauma of that is probably why I forgot the screenshots.
Caption and comments. Comments are largely critical and are not currently being policed.
The photo that accompanied it. Ari really does look like Noah. I seem to have lost my screenshot, but he posted a picture of himself as a baby; Ari is his twin. I'll bet cold hard internet cash that Alex hates that Ari looks like Noah rather than like her.
The photo that accompanied it. Ari really does look like Noah. I seem to have lost my screenshot, but he posted a picture of himself as a baby; Ari is his twin. I'll bet cold hard internet cash that Alex hates that Ari looks like Noah rather than like her.
Text and comments. Comments are critical (again), and a lot of people think Ari's emotional affect seems off.
Still from video that accompanied post. Ari looks like she's stroking her chin thoughtfully, probably wondering what she did to deserve such terrible parents. I think/hope she's looking like she's gained some weight?
Still from video that accompanied post. Ari looks like she's stroking her chin thoughtfully, probably wondering what she did to deserve such terrible parents. I think/hope she's looking like she's gained some weight?
Alex still hasn't addressed Noah's breakup claims and also never addressed his 911 call (when he "lost" her). Noah is present and seems less unstable than he sometimes does, but I'm sure this is a calm before the (next) storm. He's not smart enough to parrot the lines that Alex feeds him, but we aren't dealing with geniuses here.
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I wonder why she's making such a big deal now of why her appearance was off during her pregnancy. That was ages ago and she never addressed it at the time.
Besides, why would Alex being exhausted affect his ability to care for her? Such lies for her gullible fans.
We remember that he had her peeing in cups rather than hold her above the toilet. Now we also know she has a lawn chair rather than a proper shower chair approved by occupational therapy.
Why take the risk? It's madness.
Besides, why would Alex being exhausted affect his ability to care for her? Such lies for her gullible fans.
We remember that he had her peeing in cups rather than hold her above the toilet. Now we also know she has a lawn chair rather than a proper shower chair approved by occupational therapy.
Why take the risk? It's madness.
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My guess would be she's saying it now to head off claims that he abused her while she was pregnant. If whatever DV thing hadn't happened, she probably wouldn't have said anything because you're right, it's not like she cared at the time.
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I present this video with no comment, as words have failed me.
Edit x 3: dammit video upload keeps failing, will try Tor. This has to be seen.
Apologies for faggy doubleposting, but I didn't think editing this late after initial post would be OK.
Take two, trying Tor.
Please enjoy the absolute lunacy of Alex and another of her disabled parenting 'hacks'.
Edit x 3: dammit video upload keeps failing, will try Tor. This has to be seen.
Apologies for faggy doubleposting, but I didn't think editing this late after initial post would be OK.
Take two, trying Tor.
Please enjoy the absolute lunacy of Alex and another of her disabled parenting 'hacks'.
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Couldn't she order a grabber off Amazon?
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Doubt she has the grip strength. Best to use a back scratcher and let leverage flip a toy towards the baby’s face.
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First things first, if a new mom is in a wheelchair and has as much core strength as Alex, she should have someone put her on the floor with Ari's stuff. She could do most of Ari's care with minimal help at this point, and I think she should be supported for Ari's sake. The chair is a barrier between an adult and a child under 4. (Between 1 and 4 it's just bad for parents who are in wheelchairs, unless you like being upset and nervous all the time. Then it's pretty good.)
She could use a grabber. She certainly has the interior metacarpal muscles that tell me she could use a grabber, but there is a reason Alex has missed this and is so tickled with herself over the back scratcher.
If you broke both your legs in a skiing accident and were stuck in a chair, you might shout, "Hey, bring your phone, Rufus. I can pick up the baby's pacifier even in this chair with the back scratcher!" Give it a few times, and the novelty is over.
Alex does so little for this kid that picking up her toy is a novel experience. Now remember, the woman who is actually raising the baby has to film all this on Alex's phone and be like, "Yeah, you're an amazing mom at raising
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One of Alex's haydurs pointed out in the comments that she's not wearing pants in the video.
For science and for the Farms, I went back to check. I will now be bathing my eyes in bleach before Dear Feeder's stream as said haydur was indeed correct; bitch is pantless and knickerless. Dirty cow.
Fair enough being nekkid in the privacy of one's own home, but to show it in a video and put it on the Internet...fucking narcs man!
For science and for the Farms, I went back to check. I will now be bathing my eyes in bleach before Dear Feeder's stream as said haydur was indeed correct; bitch is pantless and knickerless. Dirty cow.
Fair enough being nekkid in the privacy of one's own home, but to show it in a video and put it on the Internet...fucking narcs man!
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The last video?
She’s actually wearing shorts. Which is surprising. Bitch is always naked.
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You are right, I missed the very end where we see the bit of her black shorts.
I have unfairly maligned her on this occasion.
Still saw way too much of her ass though.
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I don't know why Alex felt the need to bat toys at Ari. She's previously shown herself hovering over the bassinet and dangling things at her. That seems a lot better than playing badminton with a backscratcher. If she bills something as a "hack," you can be certain that it's a weird idea and possibly also potentially dangerous.
You can sometimes tell she's pantsless when there's a towel on the seat of the chair, and you can also use the design/color of the towel to help judge when a photo was taken. She favors Daisy-Duke style shorts-- and it seems like short-shorts would be at odds with her claims of clothing constriction, but I'm not a hawt disabled mom Instagram influencer, so what do I know?
At present, Alex has had to turn off comments on at least one Instagram post because she was getting spammed with comments about the old GoFundMe for an accessible van. The van has been covered before in this thread: she did a GFM for a van but never actually got the van. The GFM is still up to this day (archive), and it's still accepting donations.
Because of renewed interest in that past scandal (spearheaded by Reddit, unsurprisingly), Alex decided to handle the situation by-- what else?-- addressing the haters!
So that's the Alex update. No new pictures of Ari in her current stories, and no Noah sightings. It's probably a safe bet that Ari is lying listlessly on the floor while Noah twitches in a dirty shirt. Alex, predictably, is trying to own the haters, but she could've done a much better job with her cover story.
You can sometimes tell she's pantsless when there's a towel on the seat of the chair, and you can also use the design/color of the towel to help judge when a photo was taken. She favors Daisy-Duke style shorts-- and it seems like short-shorts would be at odds with her claims of clothing constriction, but I'm not a hawt disabled mom Instagram influencer, so what do I know?
At present, Alex has had to turn off comments on at least one Instagram post because she was getting spammed with comments about the old GoFundMe for an accessible van. The van has been covered before in this thread: she did a GFM for a van but never actually got the van. The GFM is still up to this day (archive), and it's still accepting donations.
Because of renewed interest in that past scandal (spearheaded by Reddit, unsurprisingly), Alex decided to handle the situation by-- what else?-- addressing the haters!
This is from her Instagram stories, and I had to read it all several times to understand what the heck she's trying to say. As I read it: "we raised $13k, which wasn't enough (open your wallets!), but I needed a new wheelchair, so I got the old one repaired, so then I opened an OnlyFans (subscribe today!), and OnlyFans was successful (did I mention that you can subscribe?), so I got a new wheelchair, and I acknowledge my privilege."
It doesn't make a lot of sense. Obviously. The GFM description was never updated to include this information, and, as I said, it's still open for donations and has received two in the past 5 months.
It doesn't make a lot of sense. Obviously. The GFM description was never updated to include this information, and, as I said, it's still open for donations and has received two in the past 5 months.
This followed the stories about the GFM.
This confused me (did she use the GFM funds to fix the old wheelchair or to buy a new one?), and it apparently also confused whoever asked this question. I still don't understand her answer, because there never was a new van. There was an old van, per her previous response, but she said she spent the repair money on the wheelchair. I'm confused. Still.
Here's her answer to the Instagram subscription. This doesn't at all address why she blocked her fervent supporter who asked about it, and it doesn't address why there was so little content. Instead, she places the blame on how few subscribers she got-- much like she placed the GFM blame on not getting enough money to fund the van. Ungrateful much?
And don't get Alex your Venmo information.
I still maintain he was detained but not arrested. For a situation involving acute intoxication and possible DV, this is a weasel answer.
This STILL doesn't answer the question. All she's done is convince me that the money went to frivolous things.
This confused me (did she use the GFM funds to fix the old wheelchair or to buy a new one?), and it apparently also confused whoever asked this question. I still don't understand her answer, because there never was a new van. There was an old van, per her previous response, but she said she spent the repair money on the wheelchair. I'm confused. Still.
Here's her answer to the Instagram subscription. This doesn't at all address why she blocked her fervent supporter who asked about it, and it doesn't address why there was so little content. Instead, she places the blame on how few subscribers she got-- much like she placed the GFM blame on not getting enough money to fund the van. Ungrateful much?
And don't get Alex your Venmo information.
I still maintain he was detained but not arrested. For a situation involving acute intoxication and possible DV, this is a weasel answer.
This STILL doesn't answer the question. All she's done is convince me that the money went to frivolous things.
So that's the Alex update. No new pictures of Ari in her current stories, and no Noah sightings. It's probably a safe bet that Ari is lying listlessly on the floor while Noah twitches in a dirty shirt. Alex, predictably, is trying to own the haters, but she could've done a much better job with her cover story.
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She talks like a politician, never giving a straight answer, always weaseling her way out of questions.
I come with another video, this time from Facebook. I was tipped off to this by someone in the comments of the backscratcher post asking her why she wasn't posting the video of her sitting on Ari's legs to Instagram.
Intrigued, I headed over to her Facebook, and I despair once again.
Here we have the five month old infant enjoying another of cool mom Alex's hacks - baby sitting. Literally.
Are you an adult with a debilitating muscular disease?
Do you struggle to pick up everyday objects?
Are your quadriceps as flat as a pancake?
Well you're going to want to watch this video!
You too can have your floppy legs placed on top of your infant's thighs like some kind of cripple prison so she doesn’t fall backwards onto the floor!
You too can sit there as your infant's head wobbles like a bobblehead that you have no way of controlling!
You too can achieve this hack.
Just call 1-800-NINA.
Operators are standing by.
Spoilered as she's in a bra top, not NSFW but y'know, meh.
Also, I need flogged for failing to crop this prior to compressing.
I come with another video, this time from Facebook. I was tipped off to this by someone in the comments of the backscratcher post asking her why she wasn't posting the video of her sitting on Ari's legs to Instagram.
Intrigued, I headed over to her Facebook, and I despair once again.
Here we have the five month old infant enjoying another of cool mom Alex's hacks - baby sitting. Literally.
Are you an adult with a debilitating muscular disease?
Do you struggle to pick up everyday objects?
Are your quadriceps as flat as a pancake?
Well you're going to want to watch this video!
You too can have your floppy legs placed on top of your infant's thighs like some kind of cripple prison so she doesn’t fall backwards onto the floor!
You too can sit there as your infant's head wobbles like a bobblehead that you have no way of controlling!
You too can achieve this hack.
Just call 1-800-NINA.
Operators are standing by.
Spoilered as she's in a bra top, not NSFW but y'know, meh.
Also, I need flogged for failing to crop this prior to compressing.
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It sounds like she used the funds to fix the van and buy a new wheelchair instead of getting a new van. If that's the case, though, why is the GFM still active?
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Omg poor Ari. Not only is the positioning terrible, but her mother is bleeting at her like a lamb, and has no clue how to talk to her.
Someday, when Ari has antisocial personality disorder and goes on a killing spree, we’ll look back on these videos and know why.
Someday, when Ari has antisocial personality disorder and goes on a killing spree, we’ll look back on these videos and know why.
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She has no maternal instinct.
That instinctive, soft, gentle way that mothers speak to their babies to soothe and comfort them has never made an appearance for Alex.
In every video I've seen she just seems to shriek inane nonsense at high volume like "Hiiiiiiii!" over and over again, like she has no idea what to say to Ari.
Poor Ari is going to be a clusterfuck of personality disorders because of that pair. What a damn shame.
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The bleating at her is performative. I don't think Alex helps much more than a three year old sibling "helps" with a child. Honestly, if she doesn't blow up this relationship with Nina and Ari can hold on to the same carer in that critical period from now until she's 8 or so, I'm not worried about her development. Plenty of people grow up with their parents having an annoying loud pet or a screaming toddler sibling who is a little demanding psycho about "helping," and those kids turn out fine.
Anyone who has a sibling that is two or three years younger was also a shrieky mess that probably fed their baby brother or sister air, and I doubt everyone's siblings are school shooters.
TL;DR: White knuckling that they don't take away Ari's real caretaker and that Nina is a good woman who loves Ari. I hope Nina reads this thread and realizes how important what she is doing.
Anyone who has a sibling that is two or three years younger was also a shrieky mess that probably fed their baby brother or sister air, and I doubt everyone's siblings are school shooters.
TL;DR: White knuckling that they don't take away Ari's real caretaker and that Nina is a good woman who loves Ari. I hope Nina reads this thread and realizes how important what she is doing.
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I don't think it will last for that long. Alex must be annoying to work for.