So my hot take is that I think Avowed is going to be good. The gameplay looks fun, Eora is a cool setting and it looks like they put a lot of thought into exploring dungeons. I'm guessing its not going to be a game that's worth buying on launch, but it'll be a game worth signing up to Xbox live for a month, playing, then canceling Xbox live.
I also think that all the reactionaries are riding a little too high over their recent win streak. Concord got shut down, Dustborn was only played by people that wanted to make fun of it and Dragon Age provided clips for youtubers to make fun of that they couldn't make up if they were trying. What do we have from Avowed so far? Pronouns which are probably baked into demands from Microsoft and their art director being a big faggot on bluesky. Grumms and the others are overplaying their hand on this one because they want that grift to keep going.
None of that is a big deal as long as the game gives me enough agency, which it looks like it does. Pronouns are just another option to select in character creation, even if it's a gay and retarded option. If the game throws weird troon NPCs at me but lets me throw them off a bridge than I'd say that's a bonus. Worked for BG3.