Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Aunt Carol]

I even snapped at my mom for a conversation we were having. She said "We're both mourning him" and I sorta snapped and said "HE'S NOT FUCKING DEAD! HE'S ALIVE! That's why it's so frustrating to me!".

Completely understand this feeling. Make sure your mom knows you're not on "his side" with the not mourning thing, though; that's a big trans complaint, that their family is "mourning them." If she accidentally uses the phrase around him, he'll have prewritten responses.

He's not dead, but he joined a cult and he's requiring everyone say the old him is dead, or else they can't contact him again.

"What's... a second puberty?" they might ask. "Oh, you know, it's... got nothing to do with puberty, but you dress like you're the opposite sex and 20-30 years younger and behave much the same. It's totally not ridiculous, though - it's a very serious, very important thing, as if the individual does not wear outmoded Hot Topic fashion that they've had in a closet for longer than their estranged children have been alive, they will be strongly tempted to kill themselves."

Remember a few years ago when the crackpot therapists were having "rebirthing ceremonies" for troubled children, and they kept accidentally smothering them to death in the blankets/whatever of the symbolic vagina?

Wonder if any of them are still in practice. No reason.

 

[sheepworldvizor]

I suspect my brother is developing AGP.

He’s probably already a troon, sorry.

Let me ask: unlimited private access to the internet from a young age? Own phone from age 10? Social media profiles stating his age?

Groomers love to groom.

Update us once he goes the full programmer socks, cat ears fandango.

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

If I might be so bold, don't send this to people. Despite the author's insistence that in republishing it they revised it, is is replete with grammatical errors, typos, bizarre sentences, and downright weird phrasing.

Agreed.

Personally, I think Jesse Singal does the best job of addressing the nonsensical ideological position of troons; his posts are well written and don't have a lot of the author's personal axe grinding interspersed with the facts. If you're looking for a source that discusses medical transition, specifically, there's actually a Reddit post that someone shared in a thread here that I thought was astoundingly cogent and thorough. I saved a link somewhere and I'll look for it now.

 

[bliblblblbbllb]

I lost a good work friend of mine to the most predictable spiral of sliding down the rabbithole of weird degenerate internet circles and cultlike figures.

He had a verifiable neglectful, taken-away-by-CPS childhood, raised by adult cousins, and I thought he'd done a pretty good job putting himself back together. But this weird anime/jpop discord server that seemed like a cult, they undid all that in a matter of a year.

He was an anime nerd and somehow they managed to take him from having waifus to identifying as the waifus and saying that that was gender dysphoria, because he actually wanted to be the waifu.

You can totally feel like you should be a woman or a man, or you aren't happy as a woman or a man. Especially when you're being manipulated by wackos. I am pretty sure they were also actively introducing him to progressively more degenerate porn at this same time as well as aggressively lovebombing him. They really latched on to his bad past and used it as a way to say "you were nothing before you had us and before you had this."

The only thing keeping him together was that we worked in a physical, male-dominated place with no room for queer shit. Lift this box dig that hole type of work. Then he got hurt on the job. To this day I really don't know if it was actually an accident, totally intentional, or in some sort of between-land where he subconsciously willed it or subconsciously milked it.

When he was on medical leave and away from everyone at work, they descended like vultures, and that's when he had a mental breakdown. He went to a shrink and got alllll these diagnoses, which they were happy to give him because of the heavily documented childhood trauma, and then he went on disability, not for his work injury, but for mental health. And then he trooned out. And he came to me and I said look, look at everything that's happened. You've been victimized by these people and it's a cult that's descended over you. And he admitted they lovebombed him and that he kinda was a vulnerable person who attracted these sorts of scum.

I said, you are a giant six foot bearded manual laborer. How do you think any aspect of your life is actually going to improve if you try to live publicly as a woman? How successful and happy do you think you are going to end up? Do you understand that the real world isn't anime or porn or discord? If you suffer from gender dysphoria, how do you think trying to transition will actually impact that? Do you understand they're not actually magic titty pills?

He was really shocked because I am a very strong "doesn't matter what you do behind closed doors" type of person, and also at this point everyone else had cut him off long ago, so I guess he thought I was in agreement with the changes in his life.

Unfortunately I am pretty sure he went and told the cult what my reaction was, and they convinced him to cut me out: I never heard from him since. Within the conversation he was surprisingly level-headed and lucid.

He pretty much said, "No, I do know that I can't deny physical reality and that I'm pretty much destined to be a freak from this point on, but the cult is my true loving family and they've assured me that this is the action I'm supposed to take, they're going to support me even when the entire world won't, and most of all......... everything else is gone and I feel that I can't turn back now." He renamed himself after his waifu. He also got on TONS of psych meds in addition to the HRT. They somehow convinced this man he had BPD. Listen. There are many people who should come to terms that they have BPD. This man did not have BPD. He had PTSD and social anxiety from childhood neglect, and was surrounded with people with Cluster-B disorders and was in a cult, and they told him any emotional issues he had with being in a cult was because his brain was broken and he was just having that BPD emotional instability and so he needed to do some affirmations about how good they actually are.



With a little more life experience, I feel like I would have intervened way more drastically in the early stages of the cult being in his life if I could go back and have a do-over. At the time, I didn't want to seem like a dick to say "Can't you tell they're only saying you're so special as a way to manipulate you?" He also was the type of person to come gushing out with his childhood traumas at the drop of a hat. This type of behavior gave them a LOT of opportunities to get into his head. The last I heard, he moved cross-country to go live with a few of them. I am positive the motivation was to steal his disability money, with how badly they coached him in getting on the dole.

All the other people from work I've talked to about this guy, when I say, "He fell into a cult", they get super uncomfortable. I don't know if it's a political thing or something, like people think I'm going to start spewing opinions about Mormonism or the Jews, but it's like some people actually think cults only exist in creepypastas and conspiracy theories. It was a cult. That's a cult. He was lonely and had no family and they said they loved him.

 

[AfghanBlue]

I just misread 'non-binary' as 'hon-binary' and lol.
I guess it can describe fat, non attractive nb tifs.

 

[Rainbow Child]

This man did not have BPD. He had PTSD and social anxiety from childhood neglect, and was surrounded with people with Cluster-B disorders

Borderline Personality Disorder and Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (the kind of PTSD you describe, growing up abused and neglected) are the same thing. They're literally the same thing. BPD language is being replaced with C-PTSD language in the literature because "a behavioural response to a lifetime of traumatic events" is a more useful description than "somehow on the borderline between neurosis and psychosis". Anyways, sorry you lost your friend, pal. He might rebound from it if he sees himself from an objective perspective - he seems to recognise the absurdity of the self-harm, but quickly forgets, living in a world of abstractions online.

 

[Beige]

Feels like I'm either about to go through this (or it's already kinda happening) with a family member of mine.

The person in question is a cousin, whom I consider one of my very best friends since we were very young. Very talented creative type. Was always a bit of a commie edgelord. I've always been a staunch libertarian, however we always got along great; never really talked politics, both musicians into video games and general computer stuff.

Towards the end of college he started showing less and less to family things, goes from always being down to hang out, to never. The times I do see him, he rambles non-stop about competitive gaming, generally seems to be turning into a Discord/Anime person and not really hanging out with his circle of IRL friends anymore. Travels frequently to meet up with said Discord friends.

COVID happens, doesn't show up to anything anymore. Talk to him online, motherfucker's acting like it's 28 Days Later outside, him and his girlfriend basically never go outside.

Finally (this is Summer 2022 by now) get to go visit him at his new house. He opens the door, completely different look. Used to either have a stereotypical punk, or bearded hipster look. Now clean shaven (plus legs and arms), long hair styled with art-girl bangs. Weeb sweatshirt, short shorts. He invites me inside, and immediately tells me he's trans and has been on HRT for about a year. I laugh and tell him I knew it from the second I saw him (not in a mean way lol). We both laugh about it, and move on pretty quickly to other things, overall have a pretty good, if awkward time hanging out.

I see him a couple more times over the next several months, trying to get a feel for the situation. Him and his GF are super woke-liberal types (always has stuff like ContraPoints and Hasan on their TV when I'm over). GF seems to be doing the handmaiden thing (they'd been together for like a decade at this point, would be married if it wasn't Christian/heteronormative, etc). At one point Cousin mentions GF might also transition. This is pretty alarming, but never materialized. Sense of humor starts becoming extremely sex-focused, see some lewd anime stickers around the house. Things are weird and off-putting, but not really bad for awhile. I'm pretty concerned, but he's always been a contrarian attention whore, so I can deal with it. He was very much the kind of person that this could be just a phase.



That is, until a few months ago. Cousin mentions that he is polyamorous during a text conversation. It's hard to get a read on that. His girlfriend is exactly the naive type to think something like that could work, but maybe she's getting fed up with him? Mentions a couple months later that his "new girlfriend" is moving in with them. So, I go visit. Of course, it's another troon.

Said troon, while amicable, comes off kind of condescending and suspicious of me. Heavy mall-goth vibe. Seems to be mid-process of fucking up their own lives (broke up with fiancee right before wedding over gender shit, doesn't have a car, seems to be on bad terms with family). Hypersexual and gross, generally has a chip on their shoulder and thinks of themselves as a tortured, misunderstood rebel. Gives off somewhat passive-aggressive "fake nice" vibes to original GF when she gets home from work. Seems mildly irritated by her presence. Very possessive, way too handsy/trying to make out with Cousin in front of me.

Original Girlfriend seems extremely depressed and hurt. Uncharacteristically quiet and distant. Cousin suddenly seems like he's panicking and is trying to talk to her about what's wrong, she insists everything's fine. She'd been like this the last couple times I've seen them, and hadn't come to any family get-togethers with him in a long time.

Later in the evening, when the other two were distracted with a YouTube video, I decide to ask her how she's doing in the most "This all seems really fucked, are you actually ok?" way I could muster without making it obvious to the two troons on the other side of the room. She started to give the same excuse answer, then looked at me, seemed to get really upset/emotional for a second, then seemed genuinely relieved and told me she was ok. I made my excuses and left shortly after.

Since then, it's been impossible to actually see them. Always busy and no time, despite the fact he lives close by and works from home. Around the time the whole "polyamorous" announcement came, he started posting extremely revealing/lewd pictures on social media. Very recently he told me that there's another troon in the polycule. Also announced online that he's starting an OnlyFans.

Not sure what to do, or if anything can be done at this point. Troon GF #1 is pretty clearly a predatory groomer type. All his Discord "friends" are autistic nerds, creepy simps, OnlyFans whores, and Twitch streamer genderspecials. It's very obvious that he's shutting everyone out of his life who is doing anything less than encouraging his delusions. I'm not one for moral outrage or white-knighting, but I'm pretty angry at him specifically for pulling all this right after him and his long-term girlfriend signed their mortgage.

Only person I know my age who had: a college degree, a decent paying day-job, active creative career, owned a home, and a happy long-term relationship. And he's pouring gasoline on it and setting it all ablaze because he's a porn addict who wants to dress like a whore, get butt-fucked by other gross perverts, and LARP like that makes him an oppressed freedom fighter uwu anime girl.

This whole house of cards is unsustainable, and I'm genuinely worried about what the fallout's gonna be. Rest of the family's afraid to touch it. Debating whether to do something, or watch from a safe distance.

 

[Procrastinhater]

This whole house of cards is unsustainable, and I'm genuinely worried about what the fallout's gonna be. Rest of the family's afraid to touch it. Debating whether to do something, or watch from a safe distance.

Jesus that sounds like a fucking nightmare. Sorry fren.

 

[Aunt Carol]

pulling all this right after him and his long-term girlfriend signed their mortgage.

He couldn't ever be traditional and marry his life partner, but he still waited until after she'd made a huge legal and financial commitment to reveal his true intent. "Try getting rid of me now."

If it's not out of the ordinary for you to have contact with the girlfriend, that might be something to make sympathetic noises about. Lot of change going on at once, sometimes people just grow apart, it's not a personal failing to not be polyamorous, be very certain of your birth control methods, does your lender allow loan assumption?

 

[Beige]

If it's not out of the ordinary for you to have contact with the girlfriend, that might be something to make sympathetic noises about. Lot of change going on at once, sometimes people just grow apart, it's not a personal failing to not be polyamorous, be very certain of your birth control methods, does your lender allow loan assumption?

Thank you for the advice, and to everyone who read that massive blogpost lol, I really appreciate it.


I don't have contact with the girlfriend normally, but I'm gonna try to wrangle some kind of social get-together with all of them and my sister, who's gonna pull her aside and talk to her about the situation. Sister is a Tumblr-feminist artsy type, but completely agrees with me about the situation, perfect for this.

The core issue two-faceted:

1.) The two of them are/were 100% brainwashed enough to think that my cousin trooning out then sleeping around with other people, whilst still keeping the core relationship intact was not only possible, but anyone who would think otherwise is a bigoted, archaic, religious Drumpftard. While GF is obviously miserable and their relationship is failing, I don't know how much she accepts why, and that it's ok for her to feel that way.

My cousin is still completely in denial, hence the panicking at her being sad. He's trying to tell himself that he can keep both those plates spinning. All his "friends" are gaslighting him into thinking he can. It's not possible, it never was, and it isn't right.

2.) My cousin likes to describe himself as being "As left-wing as humanly possible". Aside from general perversion, the reason that all this is happening is that he deliberately goes out of his way to take the most far-left stance on everything possible. It's his whole identity at this point.

In the late 00s, he was a spiky-clothes wearing, flag burning, "Fuck Bush" punk/metal guy.

Then, in the 10s he became a Bernie-voting, soybeard/hipster glasses, weed vaping ORANGE MAN BAD guy.

Now, he's a porn-addicted, COVID mask wearing, estrogen-taking, Sailor-Moon watching troon.

My overall point is that this retarded pattern of behavior means he's probably not going to do this forever (he and his troon friends have no plans on getting bottom surgery). Ultimately, my biggest fear in all this is that they both lose their soul mates and catastrophically fuck up their finances simultaneously over a stupid phase/fetish. If that happened, I could legitimately see him commiting suicide.

The difficult thing for me, is that everyone in his life who would push back against this are the stereotypical Fox News boomers in my family, who they would never listen to. Everyone else is either too liberal or passive to say anything.

I'm viewed more as the fun-loving, legal cocaine and machine guns libertarian.
Therefore, he still trusts and cares about me. I might be able to get him to recognize what he's doing if I approach it the right way.

The OnlyFans thing made me realize the window's starting to close, and prompted me to vent here. Shit's gonna be like a bomb defusal; do or die, only gonna get one shot at this.

 

[Aunt Carol]

1.) The two of them are/were 100% brainwashed enough to think that my cousin trooning out then sleeping around with other people, whilst still keeping the core relationship intact was not only possible, but anyone who would think otherwise is a bigoted, archaic, religious Drumpftard. While GF is obviously miserable and their relationship is failing, I don't know how much she accepts why, and that it's ok for her to feel that way.

I don't have the links to hand, but you're going to have a lot better time going against the polyamory part than the troon part. There are feminist critique of polyamory blogposts, and you're allowed to go against it without being unpersoned.

For your Tumblr woman's auxiliary: one phrase is Tolerable Level of Permanent Unhappiness. And of course this can happen in same-gender relationships too.

 

[Procrastinhater]

No offense to anyone here, whatever your politics, because I absolutely have nothing but sympathy for all these fucked up situations, and people who find themselves in them, but listening to all these horror stories makes me glad I live deep in a rural part of a Conservative State where troons and the like are still looked at with open scorn and derision, let alone polyandrist degeneracy and shit like that, and people aren't afraid to say it.
I'd rather be a "bigot" with morals than an amoral degenerate hedonist that believes in "kink shaming" and thinks weird Slaanesh tier fetish shit is just fine.
Tolerance is OK to an extent, I've always been a live and let live guy, as long as you're living decent and not hurting people, but pathological tolerance is fucking cancer and just seems to ruin lives.

I've seen too many examples of people that know this shit is wrong, but feel unable to speak out against it, even though I reckon more people than they'd realize even in the most "progressive" areas feel the same way, but are all to scared to admit that there have only ever been Four Lights.
I don't know how people can live walking on eggshells all the time, in case they "offend."
It must be hell.

 

[Lavender Moth]

Well. It's finally happening.

My last really, really close nerd friend has started to poon out after being "befriended" (see: groomed) by a group of trans sex cultists online through a children's video game. She is an autistic woman in her 30's. My skin crawls when I think about what goes on between groomers like this and the game's target audience of 10 year-olds. These fuckers are so deranged they won't even let her say, "hey, I would like to not talk about your fetish for men taking gallon enemas and looking pregnant" as she told me she has to pretend to enjoy these things or else this group will ostracize her. (Which would be the best for her sake, but I digress.) Apparently I am her only irl friend left, which makes the situation even sadder. I'm sad enough over losing my irl nerdy hobby friends to the troon cult, I can't imagine having absolutely no irl friends at all, which is what she will be left with if I leave.

This friend went from the sweetest, peppiest, happiest person I knew, to someone depressed and sullen and agoraphobic since talking to these people. Whenever we hang out, she brings up nonbinary shit, and while I'm pretty good at steering the discussion in a different direction, but I feel like I'm just delaying the inevitable. I will have to see myself out if she starts going by they/them permanently. (Currently she is now a she/they. I have staunchly refused to acknowledge this.)

I have cut contact with over a dozen formerly very close friends over troon shit. I am also transwidow. Having to play pretend to accommodate other people's irrational delusions decimated my mental health, and thus far the only cure for me has been to cut away the rot at its source each time the blight takes hold in someone I care for. It sucks not having someone close I can discuss my most beloved hobbies with, but it sucks even more playing lip service to a cult of pedophile eunuchs and their enablers. I truly, truly have grown to hate trans ideology more than any other toxic ideology I've encountered. I'd rather fucking hang out with a devout Scientologist than a tranny. Trans is nothing but nonsensical poison orchestrated to destroy friendships and families. I don't want to lose this friend, she's the only one I have left who I'm very close with and who I can talk passionstely to about my autistic ass nerd hobbies. But I don't know if it's even possible to stop someone once the disease that is trans gets its hooks in them. It's like rabies; there is no cure but death after the symptoms set in. And if you do somehow survive, you are left maimed and incapacitated.

I can't believe I live in a timeline where the site I joined to laugh at Wogglebug and furries is the only place where I can vent honestly about these monsters and the shit they do to vulnerable people. I hate this. I want off this wild ride.

 

[sheepworldvizor]

I don't know how people can live walking on eggshells all the time, in case they "offend."
It must be hell.

Same way DV victims can live with their abusers.
They change their words. They curb their behavior. They learn to watch carefully for any signals the abuser is giving that mean anger is building. They relinquish their family and friends to appease the abuser. They allow themselves to be isolated and reliant on the abuser. And most of all, they crave the love of the abuser. Above all things, they seek the brief moment of peace that comes with receiving approval.

 

[Marvin]

No offense to anyone here, whatever your politics, because I absolutely have nothing but sympathy for all these fucked up situations, and people who find themselves in them, but listening to all these horror stories makes me glad I live deep in a rural part of a Conservative State where troons and the like are still looked at with open scorn and derision, let alone polyandrist degeneracy and shit like that, and people aren't afraid to say it.

Ironically enough, and perhaps this is some form of horseshoe theory, but I personally don't encounter much troon bullshit where I live, in Baltimore.

For all their faults, city blacks don't have any patience for tranny bullshit. They'll just openly cackle at them in the street and all the typical public shaming tricks the woke try to pull simply doesn't work on city blacks. "niggas built like a linebacker and slathered with ho paint and I can't laugh??" It simply doesn't register.

I think there's probably a bunch more troons out in the suburbs, probably where my sister lives, that are simply too scared of black people to venture into the city lol.

A couple years ago the rich faggots in Montgomery County, Maryland (where Tony Reed lives) tried to ram through the legislature a prison tranny bill. I wrote to my reps about it and thankfully it failed to pass. I'm convinced to this day that black democrats, their poor politics aside, were crucial to killing that bill. Like me, they probably have cousins or aunts who've served time. Even if their family members deserved to pay their debt to society, there's no fucking reason why they should be locked in a fucking cage with a man as they do so.

Frankly I like black people. I mean, I'm not naive. I know the crime stats; I have my concealed carry permit in the city. But I've known enough functional, responsible black citizens that I know they're capable of shaking the bullshit that's ruined so many big US cities. Decades and generations of the democrats whispering "you don't need a daddy, let the government be your daddy", has left a horrible mark on black American society, especially in the more liberal US north.

Edit: The destruction of the negro family had been a disaster for the negro race, and simultaneously an immeasurable boon to the democratic party.

The most functional black Americans, genuinely good people, are either super fucking lucky, or grew up in the south, or served in the military for a bit.

Apparently I am her only irl friend left, which makes the situation even sadder. I'm sad enough over losing my irl nerdy hobby friends to the troon cult, I can't imagine having absolutely no irl friends at all, which is what she will be left with if I leave.

The social isolation people have been subjected to for the past few years has fucked people up in ways we really haven't been able to predict. I've seen this firsthand with family members, and thankfully they haven't had troonery as an outlet. Candy crush and prescription amphetamines are the worst they've indulged in. I consider my situation a blessing.

 

[teriyakiburns]

Ironically enough, and perhaps this is some form of horseshoe theory, but I personally don't encounter much troon bullshit where I live, in Baltimore.

Isn't Baltimore where the bronies used to have that big pony convention? Gotta wonder what the locals thought of the horsefuckers.

 

[Kung Pow Cream]

Another update on this fucker because I'm becoming increasingly tired of this creature. We were all going to go to a movie. In a group chat, he asks if it's possible if one of us could come with him to the bathroom. Again, this man has done nothing to pass. He still has a beard and just covers it with a mask. His voice is still manly and doesn't even do a shitty falsetto. A handmaiden friend bent over backwards and agreed to everything.

When he gets to the movie theatre, he's wearing the most hideous grandma dress

He sticks out like a sore thumb because no one wears such a thing in the modern era. I can't remember who he lives with but I believe it's his grandparents and it truly shows because only an autist that lives with grandma would think this is okay.

And then today, Roe vs Wade got overturned and he starts getting upset. He says he's going to throw up. He's getting upset when this doesn't impact him at all and the people who actually are impacted are handling it better than him.

I don't even know how to describe my anger when it comes to this man. It's like seeing someone trying to be something that you are but they don't understand your life at all. All they have are myths and stereotypes and they try to use those things to parrot and mimic.

He will never understand what it's like to be a woman. He will never understand having your voice be dismissed. He will never have the voice in the back of your head trying to figure out if someone is dangerous to you. He will never undergo the cruel methods that still exist in modern gynecology. He will never understand that the ability to be independent is actually quite recent and can be easily taken away. He will never undergo the process of being pregnant and giving birth. He will never have to deal with the trauma that is a miscarriage or still birth. He will never understand the many hats a modern mother has to wear. He will never understand the idea of doctors disregarding your complaints. He will never understand that a man could quickly overpower you and in many scenarios you are vulnerable.

All this bitch spouts is "lol i'm trans", "lol period", "lol I'm a girl" as if that's enough. As if that's all women are. It makes me want to scream at him.

Another update on this porn addicted freak. He made many comments and jokes about the women in our group to the point where people were becoming uncomfortable and someone had to sit him down and tell him to stop.

I recently got a girlfriend within the friend group and it was kind of creepy because I could tell that he was sexualizing us. We kissed each other once and he commented about how cute it was. He also asked if he could join "the polycule".

Then yesterday, while the group was together, he kept calling me wholesome. I didn't mind it but now I realize that he was calling me cute. He then proceeded to sneakily record me on his phone without my consent. I don't know why but it was probably to masturbate to it later.

My girlfriend caught him doing this, told him to delete it, brought me to another room, and told me what had happened. She then brought him in with us and he said it wasn't on purpose. It was quite obvious that it was on purpose because the camera was centered fully on me and no one else and it was positioned perfectly.

We kicked him out of the place we were hanging out and we're going to not have him in our lives anymore.

It's like my prayers have been answered in a twisted way. I didn't want him in my life and the universe said "Okay, bet" and made it so he could leave our group permanently.

 

[Marvin]

Isn't Baltimore where the bronies used to have that big pony convention? Gotta wonder what the locals thought of the horsefuckers.

And before that Otakon, the giant anime convention (tho black guys fucking love Dragonball Z and Naruto to a lesser extent).

Yeah actually I was thinking about that.

Before cwc became a bonafide motherfucker, I thought he'd have a good time at bronycon, so I helped him get an Airbnb in Baltimore for bronycon. Thing is, apparently I didn't know this, but Airbnb operators can reject you if you look like a sketchy weirdo who'll fuck up their rental property (good policy). So Chris got rejected for the place I picked out for him, in the white / republican part of the city. Without asking me, he just picked some random place up near north Avenue. Veerrrry ghetto area. But idk, cwc doesn't have the same fear signals as normal people. He just drove up and shacked up in the ghetto with no problem that weekend. I guess a bunch of black dudes didn't want to fuck with the obviously insane cracker in their neighborhood.

Also, and I'm kinda annoyed by this, for years my favorite neighborhood bars kept shilling for neckbeard brony money. I saw "bar trot" signs.

He also asked if he could join "the polycule".

Tell him that's sexual harassment. (or don't because he'll probably chimp out, and somehow impose a worse punishment on you for zero reason)

Then yesterday, while the group was together, he kept calling me wholesome. I didn't mind it but now I realize that he was calling me cute.

He was saying you're cute, yes, but in a nonsexual context. Or a context in which he couldn't easily sus out a sexual interpretation.

This is novel to the porn addled pervert. He perceives it as new ground to conquer, and starts drooling like a moron.

If these weirdos weren't so enabled by modern society, I'd think they were harmless morons who'd get arrested eventually, but alas, that is not the modern world.

 

[Kung Pow Cream]

Tell him that's sexual harassment. (or don't because he'll probably chimp out, and somehow impose a worse punishment on you for zero reason)

It doesn’t matter now. He’s thankfully not going to be in my life anymore.

He was saying you're cute, yes, but in a nonsexual context. Or a context in which he couldn't easily sus out a sexual interpretation.

This is novel to the porn addled pervert. He perceives it as new ground to conquer, and starts drooling like a moron.

A few moments after he said that, he proceeded to film me so I don't think it was in a nonsexual context. The fucker was also an anime addict and there were a few moments where he would reference loli so I know that he was probably turned on by the idea of "cute, vulnerable girls who don't know any better". The typical shit that's in porn.

 

[Wallace]

To those who have lost friends and family to troonery, have you asked them this: Do you know anyone who has finished their transition and is now free of dysphoria and living a happy and fulfilled life? If the answer is no, then what does that say about transitioning?