Bush King
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- Mar 21, 2022
This is ultimately my biggest problem with this movement of delusion. I've never called up or worked for these services, but I've heard a couple stories from friends and hangers-on about these groups. The male perverts have always been there I suppose, but it's massively picked up. Used to be only 65 year old blokes with their cock at full attention on the other end, but since the mid-2010s it's been younger cohorts too, more transitioners than cross-dressers. Most of the stories I'd heard pre-2014ish were about schizophrenics/bipolars/generally insane people calling up and fucking with the services. Calling up on Monday all normal and having a chat with their tea, then having an episode on Wednesday and ranting about the people on the other end being secret agents.I volunteer for a UK based mental health charity. 24/7 mental health crisis phone line, anonymous, confidential, non-judgemental etc etc. Been there for over a decade now, and while it has its frustrations I largely find it tremendously worthwhile and fulfilling. Although it's been rough recently, with the NHS going "eh fuckit we're busy" and offloading huge amounts of profoundly mentally unwell people. Still, I do my shifts, eat all the biscuits and pocket as many pens as I can.
Trannies are a problem. But this didn't become clear until about 7 years ago. Check it:
If a woman phones and asks to speak to a woman, you do your best to hand her across to a woman, since it's probably something she'd feel more comfortable sharing with a woman.
If a woman phones and asks to speak to a man, you do your best to hand her across to a man, since it's probably something she'd feel more comfortable sharing with a man.
If a man phones and asks to speak to a man, you do your best to hand him across to a man, since it's probably something he'd feel more comfortable sharing with a man.
If a man phones and asks to speak to a woman, you politely decline his request, since men are disgusting and 80% of the time they wanna jerk off while shouting sexual slurs.
So what do you do when a bigass man voiced man phones up, declares himself a woman, then asks to be speak to a woman?
At first the charity kinda went "Eh whatever we don't judge" and just said "You say you're a woman then you're a woman, here's a woman to talk to". Then about 7 years ago they introduced stat tracking to the phone system - confidential, but there's a little "what was this call roughly about?" checkbox thingy after each call now - and it immediately became clear that the vast majority of tranny calls are what we'd categorise as Misuse of Service. 78%, in fact. To be fair it's mostly "chatting" calls - they phone up and wanna yammer about clothes and hair and nails, but that's still time being taken away from other, needier callers. But also a significant percentage start out as seemingly okay calls and swiftly veer into heavily sexual, paraphiliac nonsense, frequently with coercive attempts to keep volunteers from ending the call. I know of at least three probationary volunteers who have left after having some tranny tear them up for shit paper because they didn't want to talk to them about panties or whatever, and a dozen or so more who've left because they're old school feminists and object to having to indulge male roleplay. So my tolerance was already pretty fuckin' low.
Then some fuckwit tried to sue because our stat tracking gender tickbox said "caller identifies as" rather than "caller is", and I went full on 1488 Stomp The Trannies.
The difference is that the people receiving these calls understood the game. They were broken people and in many cases understood that what they were doing during an episode was wrong and that ultimately they didn't mean it. A lot of social workers or parents with children who are afflicted by these illnesses will tell you that these people are some of the most rewarding to deal with because when breakthroughs are made or when they come back to reality you can see how much of an improvement is made, even for just a few hours, based on the patience given to them. However, when these people go tits up and freak out the cops are called to restrain them, they are told to stop calling so long as they are making threats, and they ultimately get institutionalised for a few days if it is really serious. Troons have effectively subverted so many institutions and the culture of respect that people have so that not buying into their pseudo-exhibitionism and paraphilias and telling them to move along so a suicidal mother can talk is "evil".
When a schizoid calls up and says they're going to kill themselves and bomb the local gang stalker club you tell them to take their meds and call back later. When a troon calls up and audibly jerks off while talking about how children get their periods you must indulge their fantasies. It's disgusting. It's no different to people who go beyond sex in public places but actively want to be seen, those who want to involve strangers who do not consent into their sex acts.